Trust the basis of marriage!

Originally posted by: tintiny

Dear Friends,

Good episode, at least the story moved forward a bit, though I still did not understand why did Dutta utter those harsh words to Naku..it can only be he wants to repeat the words again and again and make himself believe he really does not love Naku....I also fail to understand when Naku failed to make him wear the chain, why didn't Ayi inspite of being present did not say anything...itna haq toh unka banta hai na?

Chaskar is turning out to be a smart chap....I want Chaskar to tie up with Dutta to end Kalavati's game... It seems Kala was hiding behind the door in Dutta's room to catch Naku in false position...Trust is basis of all marriages so is Kala trying to implicate Naku with another man....if Dutta believes in that well he is surely fall from grace in my eyes...being a Bhau he should be able to read in between the lines...Your thoughts friends, Love Tin

Originally posted by: tintiny

Dear Friends,

Good episode, at least the story moved forward a bit, though I still did not understand why did Dutta utter those harsh words to Naku..it can only be he wants to repeat the words again and again and make himself believe he really does not love Naku....I also fail to understand when Naku failed to make him wear the chain, why didn't Ayi inspite of being present did not say anything...itna haq toh unka banta hai na?

Chaskar is turning out to be a smart chap....I want Chaskar to tie up with Dutta to end Kalavati's game... It seems Kala was hiding behind the door in Dutta's room to catch Naku in false position...Trust is basis of all marriages so is Kala trying to implicate Naku with another man....if Dutta believes in that well he is surely fall from grace in my eyes...being a Bhau he should be able to read in between the lines...Your thoughts friends, Love Tin

Originally posted by: sam1984

sorry I don't think so, I think dutta will surprise everyone by believing nakku and not anyone else , I'm sure that he will never question nakus fidelity . This will again be a big slap on Kala and the two evil sisters face, Nakus love will win again. I think after all the angry and disappointed feedback the cvs have received about duttas character they are now slowy trying to redeem him.

It is a very interesting topic to discuss Tin.. first of all I don't think we can use our own theories and beliefs when it comes to Nakku and Dutta. If my hubby had slapped me in front of all I would certainly not have got up all proud of the fact that he showed on right and love on me. To be honest, I would not expect my hubby to behave like that also! But then Dutta-Nakku are different and I am trying to see them more as fictional characters now. I know it is sad, but this is the truth. I cannot expect them to be like a normal couple. They both have their own baggages, especially Dutta.

For me personally , if a hubby accuses a wife of infidelity, then there is no trust in the marriage and that is one of the basic needs for any marriage to survive. But there is this other side of the coin too that for a possessive husband, especially one with complexes about outward appearances, he will be ready to believe it as he himself cannot justify how a beautiful, innocent girl like Nakku can love him? It was ok when nakku was koel nakku, they were unequal in their standing whereas now after FR< I wonder if Dutta feels Nakku is too good for him and her is not worthu of her. All these plus his insecurities and prejudices might push him to believe nakku being infidel if it came to it. Of course, Kala plotting to do these cheap tactics will only cement his doubts further. For several people, Dutta hitting nakku was the lowest he could get, whereas I believe the lowest he will get as a person will be when he suspects her charitra.. and I think that will be the breaking point for nakku too.. it has to head to a climax somewhere and somehow maybe these small incidents might all add up at the end when kala plots her final chapter of revenge. Nakku might be made to look guilty and I would applaud the cv's whole heartedly if they show Dutta standing by Nakku, but I don't see that happening and feel this might lead to a rift betweebn D-N. I think any doting wife will put up with any amount of verbal and sometimes physical abuse, neglect etc from her husbdand, but when her character is questioned, I am sure nakku will not stand up and applaud Dutta.. and that is when he will realise how low he has fallen and he has lost his life nakku..

Originally posted by: prettywoman

It is a very interesting topic to discuss Tin.. first of all I don't think we can use our own theories and beliefs when it comes to Nakku and Dutta. If my hubby had slapped me in front of all I would certainly not have got up all proud of the fact that he showed on right and love on me. To be honest, I would not expect my hubby to behave like that also! But then Dutta-Nakku are different and I am trying to see them more as fictional characters now. I know it is sad, but this is the truth. I cannot expect them to be like a normal couple. They both have their own baggages, especially Dutta.

For me personally , if a hubby accuses a wife of infidelity, then there is no trust in the marriage and that is one of the basic needs for any marriage to survive. But there is this other side of the coin too that for a possessive husband, especially one with complexes about outward appearances, he will be ready to believe it as he himself cannot justify how a beautiful, innocent girl like Nakku can love him? It was ok when nakku was koel nakku, they were unequal in their standing whereas now after FR< I wonder if Dutta feels Nakku is too good for him and her is not worthu of her. All these plus his insecurities and prejudices might push him to believe nakku being infidel if it came to it. Of course, Kala plotting to do these cheap tactics will only cement his doubts further. For several people, Dutta hitting nakku was the lowest he could get, whereas I believe the lowest he will get as a person will be when he suspects her charitra.. and I think that will be the breaking point for nakku too.. it has to head to a climax somewhere and somehow maybe these small incidents might all add up at the end when kala plots her final chapter of revenge. Nakku might be made to look guilty and I would applaud the cv's whole heartedly if they show Dutta standing by Nakku, but I don't see that happening and feel this might lead to a rift betweebn D-N. I think any doting wife will put up with any amount of verbal and sometimes physical abuse, neglect etc from her husbdand, but when her character is questioned, I am sure nakku will not stand up and applaud Dutta.. and that is when he will realise how low he has fallen and he has lost his life nakku..

@KSh.. I am not jumping to any conclusions here.. as I said in my post, it is just an interesting topic to debate on. As you said, we may not even go down this route. I also want Dutta to stand by nakku, but as this a fictional story and as they need to take the story fwd and give us highs/lows in the story, I feel it is possible for Dutta to mistrust nakku and that will be the final nail in the coffin. Honestly though I would be happiest if proved wrong by CV's! as I too never want dutta to mistrust nakku as I value trust very high in any marriage :-)