Is Manav Good or Bad Decision Maker?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Guys I was very sad after watching the episode. 😭😭😭
Manav is always confused when it comes to choose between zimmedari and Archu. I dont know why CV's do this to him..
In todays episode we same Manav in confused state again.
He knew Archana is not feeling well and still he promised Savita Aai that he will be coming back.

How can he promise? Seriously I felt bad. I felt Archana needed Manav more than Savita Aai. I know Sachin is not feeling well and there was no one at home... I was happy he took Sachin to hospital. Fine understood. But why promise that he will stay with them whole night. How can he forget Archana has left everyone for him and all are against them now.. Savita still have people to help her. Why cant Manav call Ajith. I am sure he and Vandu will come to help Savita Aai. Is it necessary for him to stay back.

Doctor did say Sachin will be fine. But for Archana he said the matters could be worst. Also Manav met his Friend Dinesh who said he lost his wife as there was no one to take care of. Also Savita Aai was the one who threw them out. I know she is tensed now because of Sachin but she was so confident when she got Sachin from Shravani. She never asked anyone's suggestion at that time. Now she wants help from Manav. Atleat Manav should have thought before saying anything to his Aai.

He could have easily got help from Ajith. Also if the conditions were worst they could have taken the help of Girishji. But for Archana there is no one and he very well knows about the incidents in the Chawl esp the drunkard neighbour. Also if he decided to go to his Aai then he will prove Karanjkar's family that they are correct about him.
They will take Archu with them and she will not be in a position to fight for Manav this time. They both have to accept the Ghar Jamai offer from the inlaws. Sad Manav always keeps Archana as his last Priority. Even his decision to marry Archana was only after Shravani gave permission ( Not his Own )

Common CV's atleast now show Manav as a confident husband who can support his wife. They did decide that they will be together whatever may come on their reunion day. Manav forgot soooo soon. Pity him..

Feeling very sad after watching todays episode. 😭😭😭 So I thought I have to share it with you guys hence I joined the forum. In Precap I felt Sulochana Aai was correct in asking Manav the most wanted Question. She knows Manav is correct in supporting Sachin but what about Archu? As Aai she is concerned about her daughter. I hope tomorrow's episode will show some good decision by Manav.
Guys please dont hate me for this. I am not against Manav/Sushant but against CV's.
Mods can close the topic if already posted. But I did check and there was none.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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don't worry..sad day is always followed by happy day..in this serial these days..😊..welcome by the way..😎
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Posted: 14 years ago
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4 me manav iz gudd always :)
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Mana'v decision not abt Archu VS Savita or Sachu..

He is not opening up or confiding into Archu abt his dangerous job, being followed by the police etc...He just does not show enough confidence in his relationship everytime he makes such decisions..
CVs why???????
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Excellent post . I also felt this way , you are not the only one .
I am sure about one thing and that is that manav loves his wife very much .he needs her to have a happpy life , without her he feels incomplete but at the same time it is also very true that Archana is not a priority for him .
His biggest fault is that he cannot control his mother properly .He could have told his mother ' if you want me here tonight and the week for Sachu then Ok I will come but so will my wife as she too is not well and together we will take care of both Sachu and Archana .
But he is too scared of making his mother angry .
He knows that Archu will never complain and that is why he can get away easy on that front ....
Archana is so much in love with him that she has stopped caring what is happening to her body anymore ( as Kool said ) . But her parents are not going to see that .Archu was a very pampered daughter when she was in her house and looked after by her parents and her brother .Obviously they will get very angry when they will see her sick, hungry , without medicines and all alone in a horrible dirty place ...
All day she was very sick and weak with low blood pressure and still hungry and no medicines .When manav came back even then he did not have any food for her or any medicines .
I can completely understand why Sulochan and Moanohar were upset with him ...
Manav has to try and control his mother .She is his biggest problem ...She keeps creating problems for him and keeps complicating his life . Sachu is not Manav's responsibility but Savita is making it his problem .At least for sachu's sake , manav sould pick up the child and give it back to his mother where he will be looked after better .Here again manav will not think about sachu's well being because he is only thinking about what Savita wants .....
Edited by Tanyaz - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I was very disappointed in Manav today, I don't doubt his love for Archana but he is repeating the same mistakes he did in the past. Archana is ill, and he heard from his friend who just lost his wife because of illness yet instead of making Archana his top priority he is making Savita and Sacchu come first. How can he expect Archana's family to believe he is right for Archana when he repeatedly puts others ahead of her? Manav is doing the wrong thing, Vandu and Ajit could have stayed with Savita for the night while he stayed with his wife. He should remind Savita that she is the one who threw him out and she brought this on herself. Manav needs to grow a spine when it comes to his mother, Archana put up a fight with hers for him so why can't he do the same for Archana? Savita really has a hold on him.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I don't think he's either. He's unfortunately just caught between being a good son/uncle and a good husband. We have to remember he's been responsible for his family since he was 16. That's a huge burden on a kid that young and he's not going to be able to just forget his family that easily, esp. a young child like Sachin. The same with Archana, even though she's happy with Manav, in the back of her mind, she feels guilty for breaking with her family, esp. her mom. If someone in her family were in trouble, I don't think she'd hesitate to help them either. Our ArMan are just too good for their own good. Even though they promised to live for themselves and be happy( despite their families' objections), they are still selfless to a fault.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Manav was very irresponsible 2day n i'm very disappointed with him. He is in this mess coz he doesn't want 2 accept help which is very bad n sad. Why he promised Savita 2 come back leaving his sick wife alone is beyond my understanding!! He came home empty handed while he was supposed 2 bring food n medicines 4 his wife. No wonder Sulo is blasting him right, left n center though i didn't like her kitkit.
I feel very bad 4 the guy, he is a gud human being trying 2 do as gud as possible but unfortunately he takes his wife 4 granted all the time. He loves her endlessly but doesn't give her wat she really deserves. Why hide ur problems, ur dilemmas n ur dangerous job from ur wife?
I just hope he understands very soon that he badly needs help n that he must get a grip on himself very quickly. 1 thing is sure Archana will never let him down n will support him all the way in watever decision he takes but i have a bad feeling that he wont take the right decision this time as far as his married life is concerned
. Lets c wats in store 4 us 2day
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Posted: 14 years ago
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agree to ur post.......
manav was irresponsible towards archu........👎🏼
sachu was not as serious as archu ........
he promised aai to come back.... just bcoz if smthng happens to sachu.... but dint even thopught abt archu once if smthng happend to her.... in his absence....... 😡

sulochana's anger towards him is so obvious...... wat wuld he do if he had to chose betwn sachu n archu..... ?
he knw archu doenst tell anythng...... n she wuld send him to sachu.... if he had told abt sachu to her..... but its his responsibility first to understand n tek care of her......

he treats savita like kid.....which he suld stop now..... after sachu will b ok..... she'll kick manav out of her house..... 😡

omg... through out the ad break... i was praying ..manav get back to archu or else 'll kill u....🤣
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Posted: 14 years ago
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greatt post, i think soo too i mean he is a goodd decision makerr but i hope he goes back to archu cuz she needs him more than savita... so manav is a responsiblee its just the circumstancess makee himm take descsions tht he deosnt want

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