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Shweta did start fight. The first day there was argument over not there being enough people to wash the dishes. Dolly said that others also were doing work, so they cannot be blamed. She said that if you want somebody to do extra work, then ask him to do that favour. She was right. If somebody is doing the work assigned to him, and you want him to do extra work, then you need to request him to do the favour. Giving example of Samir, she said that Samir was doing a lot of work in cleaning the bathroom area. She said all of these in a very calm manner. But Shweta said in a very rough manner, "So? Why can't he wash the dishes too?" This is when Dolly raised her voice.Shweta was late for exercise. Rather than accepting her fault or giving proper reason why she got late, she started talking arrogantly to Dolly. She said things like "Stay out of it. Ja, ja udhar ja ke khadi ho ja. Gandh. Badbudar aurat. Moti,aise bhi tera wajan kam nahi hone wala hai."I am not saying that Dolly is innocent. Of course, she was really like a villain as she fought with almost everybody. But Shweta cannot be termed innocent at all.Shweta even tried to pick fight with Samir, though Samir did not fight back. Shweta talked about a man in her life to Samir. Later, she realized that she should not have told. She said that there was no such person in her life. This was a lie, as we know about her relation with Abhinav Kohli. I agree it is her personal life. So if she wants to hide that, then it is perfectly OK. But what she did really immoral is to blame Samir that he had forced her tell about her personal life. That was a really unethical thing she did. Samir was given a secret task and he revealed that to Shweta. If he wanted, he also could have blamed Shweta that she forced him. But he did not blame her. He accepted that it was his mistake.
I do remember that instance, but what I am trying to say is koi dominate karta hei ya ego dikhata hei usko fight nahi kehte. When shweta said haan toh woh bartan kyon nahi dho sakta, to uspar sameer ya jiske bhi bara me woh kehrahi thi usko problem hona chahiye tha. I am not taking her side I am just saying that agar woh koi baat se inkaar ya takrar karti hei to usse counter argue bhi karsakte hei. I have not seen not just shweta but anyone start cursing let alone screaming at any other member in a snap like Dolly.Other members also did gossip and talk behind everyone, but Dolly did it the most esp with rahul and khali. Mujhe Sameer ki yeh baat achi lagti hei yeh sab kehte hei:hum peet piche nahi saamne face par bolte hei jo bhi bolte hai aur yeh sab bakwas hei pit piche bhi hazaar baatein hoti hei.
