Naku needs to leave Dutta - Page 3

Originally posted by: SonyaBlade

Naku as I interpret it hasn't withheld this information from Dutta out of any malice or ill will......actually she never felt that she needed to tell him because of his hatred towards her after the first marriage, but slowly as time progressed he started to show her his loving self, the Dutta who loved Naku with all his heart and would do anything for her.......so I think its perfectly understandable that she thought he would at least listen to her and hear her out.......................If she thought he would listen, then why did she not tell him in the months after he said he loved her? In the back of her mind, Naku was scared that he would never accept her with her true face, or that he would react badly, and that is why she hesitated and hesitated and hesitated telling him even after getting to the mandap. I mean she had helped him through thick and thin, she had been there for him through everything and she has saved his life on multiple occasions. (i'm not forgetting that he's done the same for her, but most of those situations were because of him anyways....so I don't think he gets the same credit as Naku does).It's never a good idea to keep count of what one person has done and what the other hasn't, personally speaking. It's easier said than done, but you should do what you want to do without expecting anything in return. Again, easier said than done.😆 I know Dutta got a lot of heat for hesitating to save Naku from Anna, but did Naku have anyone who was constantly manipulating her into hating Dutta? No. Kala manipulated Dutta mercilessly.

So now, after everything that they've gone through, after his vows of undying love, that;s it....its so easy for him to say that hedoesn't love her anymore. Wasn't it him that said that he loves not her face but her inner self. But that's exactly what is happening. He is mad not only at her face but also at the inner person, the one who would never lie to him. Hence, it is not hypocritical in the way you say it is. Well that inner person of Naku hasn't changed and yet for him it's obvious that the outer Naku has as much a role to play for his emotions as does the inner one. Which is so hypocritical.........its a complete contradiction to everything that hes ever said to her about his love for her.

So because of this, because of this complete break down of his words and his lack fo trust in her. Because of his unwillingness to listen ot her, and to at least give her the benefit of the doubt which I believe he owes her, because of all of this.........Naku needs to leave. She needs to show him that she loves him but she will not stand for this betrayel of what she thought was his love for her. She will leave, only if he kicks her out the front door. Otherwise, she will follow him around as usual. But I do think it best that they separate for a little while. Being in each other's face is only going to result in more bitterness at the moment.

I can't see Naku having to live through another hell again, having to suffer everyday because of Dutta's bitterness................NO MORE!!!!!!


Naku become the Sherni that we know you are and say what you need to say to him before you walk out...................... because he has proven for the last time that he doesn't deserve you or the happiness and love that you bring to his life. I'm sorry you feel that way, but do understand your perspective. I do think Naku is awesome but a bit rough around the edges when it comes to certain things--like maturity, honesty, etc. I think you can guess that as flawed as they both are and in different ways, this was a wrong on Naku's part. It was she this time that hurt him. And we have to understand the type of devastating hurt that caused Dutta, who thinks of only her.

Signing out.....

Sonya

Yaar nakku will never leave dutta..she ain't tht kinda gal....she's more ''offer the other cheek for slap'' kinda person where our gadha is concerned..

but ya it will be good to see a roothi hui nakusha and dutta crossing all limits manoifying her....he should go to the xtremes in that too. afterall he goes to the xtreme while crusifing her..

Thank you everyone for all of the lovely replies.......

After today's epi I think we all know that she is going no where, that she will fight to the bitter end for her love and that she will heal the wounds that she feels she has caused him......

i guess what i'm still confused on is how in a flash the love that he had for her is just gone....the words that he said to her in the bedroom cut through very deep to her heart and you could feel her pain. We all know that Naku could have told him earlier but still, he should listen to her.

Can anyone else go through another month or two or six of Dutta not speaking to Naku and torturing her again and again......its just so painful. He's the man, he holds all the cards and even with him feeling hurt and in emotional pain he still holds the upper hand in their relationship.....and why you ask???? Because Naku is his wife and she'll do anything and everything that he ORDERS her to do.....because I don't think we've left behind the days where he will continue to order her around. I've been waiting and waiting since this show started and Dutta's arrival for him to actually HOLD HER HAND......I mean her HAND not her wrist Do you know what that little gesture would do for me and my heart........OMG....I think I would start crying just to see that.

Dutta needs a shake , a reality shake, so who will be the new villain now for LTL......who will be the glue to bring these two back together.....................................

And you know what realy sucks about this whole scenario is that Naku was right, she was right with all her misgivings about telling him, she was right about his reaction and she was right that he wouldn't give her a chance and instead would freak out. I feel for Naku right now ........

wow sonya wat a post😆dutta is nt in his rite mind just watched da epi nw and 4 one minute i thought he was gnna torture her physically espec wen he grabbed da frame😲

Originally posted by: SonyaBlade

And you know what realy sucks about this whole scenario is that Naku was right, she was right with all her misgivings about telling him, she was right about his reaction and she was right that he wouldn't give her a chance and instead would freak out. I feel for Naku right now ........

LOLLL if Nakku was really so aware of that fact and how he'd react, WHY did she choose to reveal it to him like THIS?? THAT is her mistake right there.....EVERYONE knew that he'd react in an extreme fashion....what would be the logical way to tell him then? Obviously not to SPRING the news on him in the middle of his suhaat raat when he's pouring his heart out in front of her.....she DELIBERATELY married him the second time with a full on LIE....no matter what the reason....being emotionally blackmailed by Babi etc. etc...she DID lie.....

If she had approached this in a different fashion....told him before the marriage, things would be different.....but the TIME and the WAY she approached him, it was a recipe for disaster anyways.

And btw what exactly was expected of Dutta?? That just cuz he was talking so lovingly to her moments before and pouring his heart out, he would continue to do that after getting the biggest shock of his life??? Is he not human? Does he not have any feelings that his "love meter" is supposed to keep on running regardless of whether ppl spring THESE kind of shocks on him and in SUCH a manner??

Originally posted by: ADIorb

Hey!!! While i am very very divided for both of them - I do feel for Naku and Dutta equally as the pain they are going through is incomparable with one another... however, given the fact that Dutta knows he has ill-treated her for no fault of her once and she did not utter even one word, she deserves a chance to give him her reasons for this "secret" she has kept - and patient chance at that. Yes, right now, it is just about a few hours that he has discovered the truth and it is not possible for him to reason with himself, forget her... Having said that, I agree with you that she cannot be tortured this time without a thought from him... but that does not mean she should leave him...

She has got something that heals him - it always has, and it always will 😊 She has always healed wounds inflicted on him by others. This time it is the hurt she caused him and she will heal him too, in the process healing her own self and being able to live the life for what she really is - it is a curse that only he can rid her off, when he accepts her with his heart and for him to be able to do that, she has to be able to make him come to understand that love heals everything and in the end all that is there is only love.

She will stay with him... because despite her faults, she is stronger than him... she has the power to forgive everything he does and the day he becomes half as forgiving as her, his life will be more beautiful. I have always said that the whole "change" in him was very precarious as it revolved around just her... now is the time that he has to actually "change" himself, not because of her, but FOR her... for the sake of everything she has done for him all this while and means to him and his heart - that is one truth he cannot run away from, no matter how much he tries. When you love a woman, you see your world in her eyes - and that is one thing apart from her voice that has not changed, physically... he needs to look into it and understand how she needs a chance, just like she gave him one to become a better person. And, despite all her shortcomings, Nakusha is his "much" better half, I must say!

And for Naku, he is God's gift to her and he is the air she breathes... and then, like a famous quote from somewhere: He may not know who she is, but she knows who he is and for that she will stay, in all his trials and conflicts - so close to him that even when she is not holding his hand, in the spaces of his fingers, he will continue to feel her hands intertwined with his...

Long ago and far away I found love. Now, years later, that love found me... Dutta will come around too!!

@Subii: I am good dear! Hope the same for you... yeah Dutta is going to take a while to calm down... The tough part is not understanding the truth, the tough part is "discovering" the truth ' you discover it and then it is simple to understand it. When he looks within his heart, he will be able to "discover" that truth that is around him.

@mussy.jamshed: not chaand... 😊 wo toh aapka LTL mein nikalta hai 😛🤣

@Nels: Yes, Dutta is back to square one with his trust issues ' that is because, like i said, his calmness and poise were balanced on this person "Nakusha" ' who made him feel secured about himself, loved, worthy and all... she still does, nothing has changed, except her face. But for him, she is a different person. His Nakusha has gone missing and it is like a bolt out of the blue... so he will take time to come around and associate her with the ?Nakusha he knew. Of course, the inherent flaw in him is also that he is not a good listener... The rule of nature is to allow the biggest criminal to be heard... but with Dutta, that is not the case... so naturally, he will take his time to understand this... why only her? Well, the person you love the most hurts you the most... and it is not only her... he is crushed by her, Baji and even Aayisaheb's concealing the fact from him.

@nureat: Yes, within him, he is the same person... and right now that one woman who had the power to change him, for him, has ceased to exist. It is like actually finding someone you love so dearly, dead. Plus. his realization of love for her is still untested ' this is the first test his love is facing since his realization and this is the time he will have to overcome the prejudices if he does not want to lose her out of his own lack of thought. This is his test of his love and trust for her his test for how much his heart really understands her ' his test of understanding his own heart. And, no matter how much she tries, until he fills his part of this test, they will not head anywhere. So he will have to apply his mind at some point me thinks 😛 whether after a trigger to the thought or on his own is what we need to see... In the novel Notebook, Allie and Noah exchange a letter on their separation in which, Allie writes, "The best love is the kind that awakens the soul; that makes us reach for more, that plants the fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds. That's what I hope to give you forever. I'll always be seeing you." So no matter how far they are from one another, that will always be true for them too ' because they are connected at a place no one can touch that connection.

@ ADi : ..............HAyeeeeeeeeeeeeee.............Where were you Adi.............& How do you do.................Hope you are doing good..........I was yesterday itself thinking about you............

Originally posted by: ADIorb

@nureat: Yes, within him, he is the same person... and right now that one woman who had the power to change him, for him, has ceased to exist. It is like actually finding someone you love so dearly, dead. Plus. his realization of love for her is still untested ' this is the first test his love is facing since his realization and this is the time he will have to overcome the prejudices if he does not want to lose her out of his own lack of thought. This is his test of his love and trust for her his test for how much his heart really understands her ' his test of understanding his own heart. And, no matter how much she tries, until he fills his part of this test, they will not head anywhere. So he will have to apply his mind at some point me thinks 😛 whether after a trigger to the thought or on his own is what we need to see... In the novel Notebook, Allie and Noah exchange a letter on their separation in which, Allie writes, "The best love is the kind that awakens the soul; that makes us reach for more, that plants the fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds. That's what I hope to give you forever. I'll always be seeing you." So no matter how far they are from one another, that will always be true for them too ' because they are connected at a place no one can touch that connection.

@bold: Exactly! You've put it so perfectly....that's exactly it.....to him, the Nakku he's known and loved is dead in a sense....so I'm really surprised to read ppl in here talking about how he's over-reacting.....really??? This is over-reacting?😕😆......He has a lot to overcome and he needs time for that....@blue: And you've worded it beautifully.....that is what is needed in their relationship next and I'm intrigued to see how it unfolds. And that's a beautiful quote from "The Notebook" :-)

Originally posted by: nureat01

@bold: Exactly! You've put it so perfectly....that's exactly it.....to him, the Nakku he's known and loved is dead in a sense....so I'm really surprised to read ppl in here talking about how he's over-reacting.....really??? This is over-reacting?😕😆......He has a lot to overcome and he needs time for that....@blue: And you've worded it beautifully.....that is what is needed in their relationship next and I'm intrigued to see how it unfolds. And that's a beautiful quote from "The Notebook" :-)