Why are NivRen being made the bad ones here?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Okay, I usually don't open topics, but right now i just have to ask this question to each and everyone here.
Why is Nivi being blamed for her decision on marrying Viren? Why are we forgetting that everything that is happening in nivi's life is because of Sid! If Sid hadn't backed out on Nivi, when keshav was being insulted and had he had a little faith on Nivi and decided to go deep into the matter to find out the truth and not just believing what dadi said then this wouldn't have ever happened.
Today we all say that nivi will suffer for her decision, Nivi doesn't see the love sid has for her, Why is she sacrificng for Divya, why is divya acting blind. But everyone ask yourself just one question. what justice has sid doen to Nivi? He promised her a happy life, Right? where is the happy life? Nivi's family got insulted and he too was involved!
When Sid found out the truth about keshav's innocence, he remained quiet for one reason it was because of dada ji. okay I understand. but yesterday he crossed all his limits. Nivi was being insulted AGAIN, and waht did sid say to nivi? "Enough niveditha, if you say anything else then it will not be good!"
Why should nivi watch her family being insulted? If sid can't then how can he expect nivi to remain silent? He should have the guts to stand for nivi and say that keshav was not wrong, it was jawahar all along.
dada ji wasn't there, he could've told this to yashodhra, atleast it would've stopped her from putting false accusations on nivi again and again.
If Viren is doing all this for revenge, then honestly I am proud of him. why? because he does have the guts to go against his family, just to get back on Nivi and to gain her confidence. Now Nivi trusts viren blindly, he got what he wanted, even though he has lost his family, yet just for his dada ji he was willing to stand for nivi because he didn't want to let this chance go!
Nivi isn't the one to be blamed and neither is viren and entiher is Divya. It's always been Sid! He has called this upon himself and now he has to the price and that is losing Nivi! Nivi wouldn't want to marry a person who just stands back and watches the entire drama and still remains quiet! she needs someone who can boost up her confidence and support her when needed!
Share your views!
Please no fights here, just a friendly topic, trying to share my views!
If i said anything wrong then I do apologise, but please do not argue. I get upset!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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NivRen is blamed by only those who are blind and do not see the truth.Whatever may be the reasons prompted Nivedita to choose Viren (Dadaji's wish,Divya's happiness, Siddharth to move on with life), she made the right decision by opting for a 'real man'.When I say real man I mean someone who just not utter words of love but really means it from the heart and proves it by his deeds and not someone who is a coward. Viren stood by his decision even when his family asked him to choose between them and Nivedita which made Nivedita realize the difference between Siddharth and Viren. She realized that she cannot let go of Viren from her life and after that we see Nivedita standing up for them even in front of her own Dadi. She tells Dadi that she indeed wants to get married to Viren and it is not a lie (any more...now she was doing it for herself and not for Divya).

True, If Nivedita chose Viren instead of Siddharth the reason is Siddharth himself and no body else is at blame.
Edited by Anamika1570 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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anamika i'm not pointing finger at anyone, and I want to keep that away! it's just a general question, i want to ask the members, coz right now all i am hearing is.
Nivi will suffer, divya is blind, why nivi doesn't see the love sid has for her, so just had to ask clarify this.
what are your views on this topic?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i agree with you saniha
bfore i used to be the fan of nivarth...but after watching yesterday's episode i think nivi is doing rt8 thing by marrying viren atlest he has guts
to face his family.
nivi was good in yesterday episode

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Posted: 14 years ago
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@ vinasa: hun I am not Saniha, my name is Sanjana. Saniha is my sister 😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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well said Sanju👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏


if Sid had stood for Nivi when her father was insulted ,just like she is ready to fight even against her Dadi as Viren is standing for her ,she also would have stood for sid against everyone if he had stood for her that day

No matter how much you love a person when it matters the most to support that person ,if you back off & go against that person inspite of that person being truthfull then don't expect that person to run behind you or even think of being together so easily😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
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sanjana ok...😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
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nice topic,

I think Sid has no excuse for being quite the second time yesterday. It was perfect opportunity for him to clear the matter. I really pity the way cts are shaping this character.
I was infuriated with Sid trying to quite Nivedita same as before, she couldn't be quite last time nor this time as her family's honour was being questioned again.

Nivi and Viren did what they thought was necessary to save Divya and family's honor and fulfill Dadaji's wish.

But I think Viren is going to be devastated once he finds out real wish of Dadaji and his parents guilt.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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so trruee sanju sanju dear i completlyy agree wid ur each n every word .Why d hell NIVREN r beingg blamedd for gettng married n tht 2 by whom SID who never ever understood nivi his so called love?He would hav loved her but he never ever understood nivi otherwise he would not hav stood like a dumb person when ever1 was blaming nivi n viren especialy nivi.
on d other side when viren n nivi were starngers than also viren always helped her n it was god wish tht viren should 1st know her before knowing her original identity(dhushman ki beti)n thatzz why despite of meetngg 7-8 tmes also they never got 2 know abt each other n when they came 2 know they were shocked but especially viren was shocked but just 1 ques n it's ans gave ans 2 all his questions.
n VIREN is trrulyy deserve nivi becozz d person who cn go against 2 his own family for his love n tht 2 true love eventhough when he was wantingg love frm them (as he returned back after so long yrs)but than also he rose his voice against wrong thng n i m proud of it .
Nivi is veryy veryy lucky 2 get a life partner like viren who cn fight for her wid any1 ,who even doesn't care for his own life when it comes 2 nivi,who always stands behind her ,who always supports her .n most imp trusts n loves her a lott
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Posted: 14 years ago
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yea i mean I don't get how and why ppl r blaming these two? I mean like c'mon...both aren't at fault it was sid who created all this...whatever that's happening now is only because of sid silence! he had the perfect chance to support nivi yesterday but he blew that on also yet he claims to love her. what kinda guy is sid?

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