Personal Life of Stars

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Posted: 15 years ago
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So I'm highly sick and annoyed with the same repetitive topics on Ranbir & Deepika's past relationship. As fans we have NO right to judge a character by what the media and news tells us. There is absolutely no way for us to know the real truth behind all of this. We don't know any of the stars personally so it is wrong for us to just point fingers at them without knowing the whole deal behind what really happened. Can we as fans just leave their personal life alone and stop making assumptions? Especially negative assumptions? Its highly annoying and at least some SANE fans can help the cause! We are not friends with these stars to see who's the good one and who's the bad one. Friends are obviously going to defend friends. But does that mean they are right? As fans we simply will never know! Why can't we just leave their personal lives alone? Sure we can read or watch all that the media has to say and we are free to believe whatever we want, but when it comes to questioning a star's character is wrong of us to do without knowing them in person. Right now the issue is with Deepika and Ranbir. Before it was with Rani and Aditya and their so called marriage. And there are a ton more examples...Can we leave these stars alone?! They have a life just like we do! Not everyone will understand my point, but at least the SANE fans will! In all honesty it is none of our business what goes on in their daily personal life. Of course we would all like to know, but it really is none of our business. If stars want to broadcast their personal life via social networks then that's not my problem, that's theirs. But otherwise we are no one to point fingers at them merely based on one or two articles. I'm sure these stars knew what they were getting themselves into when they decided they wanted to become an actor or an actress. In my opinion we can't trust ANY source on the net or on TV. The only source we can trust is that particular actor or actress themselves. And they can say anything they want in an interview. We can only trust them when we are face to face talking with them. And that's only possible if we knew them personally or were friends with them which clearly probably none of here are. So seriously guys just let them live their lives. They don't have to come and and say each and everything about their relationship. Now if they want to do that then that's their choice, but we can't point a finger at them when we don't know the full story as to what happened. Anyways just my two cents. None have to agree with me. I was just highly frustrated & had to pour it out! Sorry if I offended anyone. Was not my intention at all. Let's just all be a bit more loyal to these stars shall we?! After all at the end of the day these stars are just day to day human beings like the rest of us! =)
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Posted: 15 years ago
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But...but...I love my saifeena. ☺️
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Who said you can't love them?! LOL. I never said that. But if you love them you should respect them and their personal matters nah! =)
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Posted: 15 years ago
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with all due respect, Cutie... if the celebs don't want people to think the worst of them, they are the ones who should maintain some dignity themselves...! 😛😛 who tells them to act like douchebags and indulge in all things considered immoral... un ki apni life hai, apni choice... and i'm sorry, but i'm too old to believe that bollywood is disneyland...! 😛😛
and yes, media speculates and most of the times, it is the truth that is reported, even if our dearest celebs deny it...
if fans are getting so worked up about the negative image of their favs, then honestly, they need to chill and take it in their stride... if they don't believe something, then take it with a pinch of salt... media is going to go on speculating and reporting all the rumours, which may show them in a positive light or negative light... part and parcel of the game...! 😛😛
i for one, surely don't have time, or the patience, to go on and on about looks and all that... that's too superficial... and frankly, i find it to be childish... and i've outgrown that stage... come to think of it, i never could go on and on about my fav's looks... i don't see anything interesting about discussing that! 😛😛
namecalling is wrong, though... so imo, you should address that fans need to chill out and everyone should have a debate as sanely as possilble...! 😛
on a side note, i thought there was a limit of 3 articles/topic per day by each member... 😕
khair... i am gonna go and check the other topics for some fun debates and gossip... 😛😛
and i was just reading the rules the other day and there was something about comparison topics not being allowed... lagta hai, phir se allow ho gaya hai... chalo, acha hai...
different topics for different people...! 😉
and i'm sorry but my loyalty is to my own family, not for a bunch of stars who would do anything for money and fame... TongueTongueTongueTongue i have nothing against them, either... we're just discussing... and well, they are getting free fund ki publicity, aren't they...! TongueTongueTongue
Edited by Nuktaacheen - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Ofcourse its our business. They are celebrities, they put themselves on a silver platter and offer themselves to us. Heck...they even go one step further these days and plant stories about themselves so tongues would wag. They're not saints, they poop just like us. They drink, they smoke, they snort coccaine, they sleep around, they cheat, they lie. Yes, you're right they are humans and as humans they make mistakes so we have every right to judge them for their mistakes as we deem fit. Why the heck would I not judge them? By all means, I'm going to judge their personal life as well as professional life. If they did not want to be judged, they should have kept their head under the sand for eternity.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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im not going to read this long essay sorry guys
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sallufanno1

im not going to read this long essay sorry guys



Awesome! Now there's an honest answer if I ever saw one. 😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Alright I respect everyone's opinions on this issue and I'll leave it at that. Not going to argue. I just wanted to state how I felt that's all. Sorry.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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And sweetiRani, if you don't want others to judge celebrities negatively, why on earth do you despise Aishwarya? Well...thats easy enough answer, isn't it? Because she broke her friendship with Rani. You have made a judgement on her by reading media made reports. So let others make their own judgements too.
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Originally posted by: Sallufanno1

im not going to read this long essay sorry guys



haha i agree , even i did not read it 😆

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