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@Omshanti1111

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: Polki_Zofi
jes but if it is though mutual consent? This can happen too right? But if it does, should not the boy lso be subjected to the same questions and consequences as the girl? Otherwise how can this be fare?

I do respect the different ways of India, and I think the indian girl is quite wondeful! But as someone who is not an indian, maybe I remain confused. It just does not seem right to me.

But is just curiousity.😊

some days back, I was talking to an American girl, who works with me. She got married after many years of courtship. I asked her "Emily, how is it getting married"...she said "well its nothing much, except that its on paper now...we have the same life"..

In India, physical union is kept for something after marriage, because more than morality, its something which is kept for after marriage. Because, if the child is conceived, it should bring happiness and responsibility not the feeling that "what will I do with the child"//

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Zofia Nowik

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Posted: 14 years ago

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I so much believe in what you have said. I hope u dont think i am a reckless white girl trying to defend wrong ways 😃. I believe myself that it is not the right way to do things, but if then where i come from, men usually dont think of something like marriage too sincerely. Sometimes women too, but I have my views there.

But my question is not that. Marriage is the right option, but when two people through mutual consent does the "wrong thing" then why should the woman pay only? Is it not also something the boy was responsible for? if so, why is he getting away so easily? is this fare on the woman?

this serial shows that only this girl sakshi is to be hold accounted for, while that man who was also responsible seems to be all set to get out of the picture and be cool about it .

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Bani

@Omshanti1111

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Posted: 14 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: Polki_Zofi
I so much believe in what you have said. I hope u dont think i am a reckless white girl trying to defend wrong ways 😃. I believe myself that it is not the right way to do things, but if then where i come from, men usually dont think of something like marriage too sincerely. Sometimes women too, but I have my views there.

But my question is not that. Marriage is the right option, but when two people through mutual consent does the "wrong thing" then why should the woman pay only? Is it not also something the boy was responsible for? if so, why is he getting away so easily? is this fare on the woman?

this serial shows that only this girl sakshi is to be hold accounted for, while that man who was also responsible seems to be all set to get out of the picture and be cool about it .

there is nothing wrong in "premarital sex" also, as long as it does not harm anyone. Some people who think of premarital sex as wrong, might be doing something which is wrong morally more.

Like "integrity" of character...most of the time, it is based on "sexual things", but its not that. Lately I read a story, whether a saint who leads a life of chastity, but always thinks of wrong stuffs, how to backbite,back stab, though he is doing nothing in practical, but still thinking of all wrong...whereas a prostitute is leading a so-called wrong life, but she always dreams of doing good things and thinking of God...

after death, the prostitute goes to heaven and the saint goes to hell...

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Zofia Nowik

@Polki_Zofi

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Yes so true 😊, but a person who abstained from premarital sex can also be a good person in his or her other values isnt it? Not necessary he is bad in other things. Same as a prostitute who might be bad in many other ways too. It can be either ways and not a rule to go though.

But the thing is not that. It is the plight of the woman who ends up as the only person to pay for her mistakes. While the man who should be equally held responsible seems to arrogant and free to go unscratched and try other options, or the same route of life contineously without being held accountable.

I respect the tradtion and the cultural boundaries and believe its greater purpose. I surely love India, but this matter is very disturbing to me 😔.

This girl who is evil 😈 will now turn saint as some people predict only after rejection and betrayal? Does it not undermine her life and values forever like a stain? Does it not let her down forever and never actually she can be equally respectable as any normal person which any logic. I dont know by which wit it can, but to my knowledge it cant make her positive with respect ever again.

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