Would you like Avdesh in real life?

Arpi and many members of our forum like Avi because he has a lot of respect for women..😊. He does not stare at them, disrespect them, comment on their looks or talk much to them...I have known a couple of guys like that... But many girls did not like then..😕.. They said these guys were too quiet, they were not fun, they needed to get a life, no girl would even talk to them and many other negative things...However, on this forum, I find almost everyone drooling over Avdesh.😛..My question is why when I have seen the opposite in real life?..Is it his looks? his profession? or do I just know immature people in my life?..😆...If you knew someone like Avdesh in real life, would you get attracted to him just because of his personality?

Huma nice post👏😆, Even i have seen such guys, so many,

Originally posted by: remosalsa

Huma nice post👏😆, Even i have seen such guys, so many,

who respects women, helps them when needed, & as u said, never comment on their backs too😳, but some r good looking & some r not...

& many girls, never got attracted to them😔, infact they gets attracted to the complete opp of these boys...

& these girls will pass same comments which u mentioned, i have even heard them doing that, infact these girls , will never look at these boys again, for 2nd time😆

But in reality, these boys will not hit a bunch of guys for sure😆, like Avdhesh😳

true Ashu...many girls do not fall for nice guys but fall for hardcore aggressive guys......dunno why...i suppose one can fault evolution for that...centuries ago, women did not have much as power and independence as they have now...they had to rely on men for shelter, protection, food etc...and when u c an aggressive guy, it usually comes to ur mind that this is a strong alpha male who can be there for u...so maybe evolution has moved a bit slow in that matter...many ladies still want a strong male character to care for them...😆

cmpltly agree wid u ashu............avdhesh has evything wat a girl want ........handsum,respect women,strong ............jst evrything...........par aise ladke aajkal milte kahan hain...........

every girl want like avadesh husband in real life thats why i love avadesh so much

This is a really good post thanks for it 👏. I agree with you that in real life the sort of guys who are not aggressive or overtly charming and specialist in cheesy chat up lines often get overlooked and their shyness would be seen as a social failure not a desirable attribute to many women. I think the difference here is that Avdhesh portrays the above but due to his "profession" in the show brings a hard core edge of danger to his character. This will probably attract many who would otherwise be put off by just the shyness? What I mean is that whilst he is respectful and gentle to women, he is still forceful and strong to those that need it, therefore the ideal combination of tough guy who treats women well. A HUGE factor of course is that he is too easy on the eyes😆😆.

Originally posted by: akashruti12

cmpltly agree wid u ashu............avdhesh has evything wat a girl want ........handsum,respect women,strong ............jst evrything...........par aise ladke aajkal milte kahan hain...........

he is the eighth wonder of the world, alright...😆

hey huma... nice post...

Originally posted by: gkd1234

every girl want like avadesh husband in real life thats why i love avadesh so much

ya, avi lacks nothing...😉

nice topic first of all.......................agar Avdhesh ki baat ho toh phir yes, he is a rough and tough guy who has immense respect for women, sober, simple, handsome...............in a nutshell everything what a girl will look for in her partner.....................but is it really possible for any girl to have a partner like Avdhesh...................many a times I have thought about this, that how come a girl marry a person like Avdhesh is a goon.............but when I think from Arpi's viewpoint I understand that she chooses Avdhesh not for his profession but for his real identity................and here lies the answer girls apparently may fall for a tough guy but if that guy doesnot have a heart or doesnot respect her I donot think a girl can even stand him a second...................hum jante hain dil ki mamle me jazbaati hona jayez hain lekin jab pure zindagi ka sawal hain tab jazbaat ke saath saath realistic hona bhi zaroori hain