WOW .. Talk about TOTAL OBLIVION

WOW ............... Talk about TOTAL OBLIVION and a CRISS-CROSSED CONNECTION😆

What an episode. A Psychiatrist's Dream Session. 😃

Today's epi was quite realistic in so many ways yet must have been very disappointing for Kriya fans😊

While the specific issues (i.e. Kesar) were not really typical issues that a regular couple might face the situation, the relationship tension and the misunderstandings were so typical.

Men and women are different and they react to situations so differently.

As an example, a man sees a poor or a handicapped person on the road being beaten, he would probably chase away the abuser, help the disabled person as required, walk away from the incident and never think about it again but start focusing on other personal priorities i.e. his family, his mortgage, his job etc. HIS LIFE.

A woman who encounters the same situation will react totally differently, she will try to protect the person from the abuser and if not possible she will call out for passer by's to help her. She too will help the disabled person as required but after she walks away she will keep thinking about the incident all the way home, at home, over family dinner, while putting the kids to bed, while making morning breakfast and so on and when she walks down that street tomorrow and every other day she will watch out for that poor person to make sure no one else is abusing him. She does not forget about the person in spite of the problems in her life.

Does that make a man less compassionate? No. Because that is human nature. It is how we react. Emotionally woman are stronger and so if we see or experience something impactful we ponder and delve on it till we get an inner sense of resolution. Most men don't. If it is an emotional incident they deal with it and move on. That is how they are equipped to deal with the situation. Rationally but not emotionally. Does not make the woman any more correct than the man, in my opinion.

Today was very entertaining for me......

Krishna came home yesterday still happy from the love his wife showered on him last night. Normal for a healthy man.

Pratigya is unable to get over the trauma of Kesar's incident. Again, normal for the average woman. She needs to help, do something concrete to fix the situation rather than just bemoaning fate and she does.

Krishna in his honeymoon mood is totally oblivious of how badly Pratigya is impacted by Kesar's baby.

The moment he enters the house, he is thrown into the Thakurs vs. Pratigya battle zone. He cannot understand his wife's actions. The incident happened. The outcome is known. So why is there still a battle going on here?

He no longer has any political capital left as a man of the household and seriously nowadays the only person who listens to him is Pratigya and considering she is the main character in this own going saga, he tells her to end it.

Then the confrontation.

He is adamant and she is miffed at his lack of public support and WHAM-BAM

She says something (though true) that I would never say to my husband in the heat of any argument. Ever. A sensitive topic like that is best dealt with in a calm discussion.

So why does she say it? Oblivion. She said it for dramatic effect in the heat of the moment without realizing that it is a very sore underlying topic with Krishna. She has been so focused on Kesar that she has not noticed the emotional battle that has been waging inside her husband.

Then the dining table.

Pratigya has forgotten that she called him a freeloader. All she remembers is that he did not support her or understand the Kesar issue.

Krishna has forgotten all about the Kesar issue. All he remembers is that she called him a freeloader. That was below the belt for him. (whether we like it or not)

Krishna ignores her. He is silently communicating that her insult TO HIM hurt. Pratigya continues as normal because she does not see their earlier argument as a marital spate but rather as a disagreement on the kesar issue. So his silent treatment is puzzling and hurtful to her.

So we start off with Oblivion and wow end up with a totally criss crossed connection

The bed.

Krishna has come to bed and seeing her lying sad on the bed is thinking that he has communicated his anger clearly enough over the freeloader insult and though she was wrong for insulting him, he will magnanimously forgive her insult and continue their relationship.

Pratigya is totally unaware that he is still seething about the freeloader comment and is bristling over him taking their disagreement on the kesar issue so personally. She even tries to explain.

And it is when they explain this to one another that we see the actual criss crossed connection.

Wow, I must say that epi was really interesting to watch😃

I am not surprised at krishna's stance on the kesar issue. After he aborted the suicide attempt, he does not feel there is anything left to do to help her so he sees no reason to continue to be involved in the child loss issue. But. What I will be very curious to see (and I am making no predictions here) is how he reacts when he finds about Shakti's remarriage. That is a totally different issue altogether.

Hope😃

Great post as usual Hope!!

Beautiful! Simple things we often take for granted......i love the way you did mental comparison which is so true.As far as krishna is concerned the great thing about him is even though he lost his cool for the moment but he was mindful enough to immediately work at maintaining his own positive space and I think thats what rlly matters.One remembers and learn from what others do rather than from what they say.

It's always a joy reading your post....keep writing !

Originally posted by: lighthousepier

Great post as usual Hope!!

I know it is a little off topic but - I am curious as to what Komol's reaction to Shakti's wedding will be.

she will accept it.

Komal is more a thakur than Krishna

I am seriously beginning to think that krishna is an accident of nature in that household.

Light am not sure if you saw the epi but his words were so clear.

She is his weakness. makign love to her is his weakness. he was so upset about her comment yet he could not resist her.

did you see what he did at the end?

he walked away from his weakness.

I think the next few epis are going to be interesting ones

Honestly, I am not that interested in the remarriage track. it is another common issue in the type fo communities that the thakurs come from. and again I am sure the solution will be surreal and filmy.

I am more interested in how krishna moves on from here.

Originally posted by: td_dhoom

Beautiful! Simple things we often take for granted......i love the way you did mental comparison which is so true.As far as krishna is concerned the great thing about him is even though he lost his cool for the moment but he was mindful enough to immediately work at maintaining his own positive space and I think thats what rlly matters.One remembers and learn from what others do rather than from what they say.

It's always a joy reading your post....keep writing !

thanks td.

yes, he got angry but he controlled himself and walked away. So he is back at square one. walking away from pratigya😆😆😆

their relationship is looking like a merry go round these days😆

Originally posted by: stillhopeful

she will accept it.

Komal is more a thakur than Krishna

I am seriously beginning to think that krishna is an accident of nature in that household.

Light am not sure if you saw the epi but his words were so clear.

She is his weakness. makign love to her is his weakness. he was so upset about her comment yet he could not resist her.

did you see what he did at the end?

he walked away from his weakness.

I think the next few epis are going to be interesting ones

Honestly, I am not that interested in the remarriage track. it is another common issue in the type fo communities that the thakurs come from. and again I am sure the solution will be surreal and filmy.

I am more interested in how krishna moves on from here.

why do you think prats is his weakness and not strength?

Hi Hope

The new promo seems to answer your question about Krishna's reaction re KN's remarriage. I said as much earlier after seeing the precap. He values his saat phere and KN trying to hurt Prats won't go without a reply from him.

Originally posted by: td_dhoom

why do you think prats is his weakness and not strength?

can u think of one thing that she has done to empower him?

I can't

Can you think of one thing that she has done to compromise him, his position, his pride, his predicament?

I can think of several

hence the weakness

the day she fights for cause Krishna first and makes his success as her priority she will become his strength

making someone happy with love is not sufficient to be considered their strength, in my opinion

awesome post! 👏👏👏

loved the example you have given

it so beautifully explains these two different approaches to life situations.

wowwwwww!!!!beautifully said.......actually i was a lil dissappointed coz of KriYa clash......bt nw im a bit relieved that everthing happened is for their own good.hope everything goes fine........after the new Promo.......seems lyk our old Krishna is back.nw wat im eagerly eaiting is hw KriYa will tolerate the judaai.it will be interesting to watch......