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I started watching some episodes of Pratigya with my mother and i was very disturbed by all the violence on this show. There is more violence on the show between the males towards the females than there is love.And when there is some scene of love people find it too much or unnecessary but no one says anything about the violence. Just because they are thakur doesn't mean its ok there's no excuse.
I know it is a Thakur family but still i feel like the director should say have a message at the beginning saying this violence is not accepted. Also because violence against uneducated and educated woman is a big problem, domestic violence in marriage is a big problem and because the husband's family harassing the bahu is also common they should say something and i don't think it should sound like the show accepts that.
I watched some parts in the past two months and i liked how Krishna supported Pratigya against the family and stood up for the right things with her. But when he said that Kesar should work for food and tried to slap Pratigya it made me angry 😡. Kya woh nahin samajhta ke usne baccha koya hai aur woh dukhi hai. There is no excuse for raising ur hand at ur wife. patni pe kabhi haath nahin utana chaiye. All his good qualities cannot make up for that. Not only that the sons don't even care if their mother is being hit. Aise to asli thakur bhi nahin kar te honge. Amma has no feelings and no care if kesar is going through the same thing. Yeh kaisi family hain? Kaise pathar dil wale hain.
As a guy i don't understand what many of the girls and women on here find so special about Krishna. So please tell me so i can learn? I think he has some good qualities- like he is very loyal to Pratigya, he loves her a lot, makes her laugh, he shows his love sometimes, stands up for her etc. Par ye toh har pati ko kar na chaiye. What i don't like and what makes him a bad husband is he changes his mood at times and can be mean to Prats, gives her no freedom to go anywhere if she doesn't tell him where she is going, ek baar bhi nahin poocha ke uske kya umeedan hai, kya sapne hai aur zindagi mein kya karna chahti hai, he doesn't understand her feelings about Kesar didi, unke sapnon ko nahin samajhta, uspe haath bhi uta ta hai. Ye pyaar kaise hai? If you were looking for a husband or a friend was getting married these are not the qualities to look for, right?
If Krishna was the perfect husband he would show more love to pratigya, he would understand her, understand her dreams, let her have a life outside the house, be kind and understanding to Kesar, he would do something special for her everyday to show his love. Make her feel special and loved in the house. He would stand up to his parents hatyachaar more than he does. If she does not feel happy, safe or fully able to be herself in the home like a good husband he should move out until his parents change (if they ever do) and get a job that makes her proud. If she wants to he should also let her get a job outside the home.
I don't like how he makes all the rules and Prats has to follow it. Husband and wife should both make rules and have an equal partnership. Marriage is a loving partnership not a parent-child relationship where only one person makes rules.
Why doesn't he do something special for her like make breakfast for her in bed, buy her flowers, take her out for dinner, sing her a song, show her more romance like in that scene on the roof- kya woh nahin samajhta unke liye kitna mushkil hai is family mein adjust karna, there should be more romantic interaction- jab woh pareshan hai to Krishna ko haath pakar na chaiye aur jab woh udaas hai use loving jhappi dena chaiye. Itne doori pe todi rehte hai pati-patni. He should write her kavita, prem patras and take her out for more one on one time? That's what i think all women will say is a good husband.
Agar woh ye sab karta to aacha husband hota. Pratigya is such a wonderful wife. I'm sorry but i think she deserves someone better than Krishna (like me just kidding). Or Krishna should become better to be worth her love. I hope this doesn't offend anyone, i'm new to the show but that is what i think husband-wife relationship should be from what i see in movies and what ive seen in real life.
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