Hi all,
I know everybody's been bashing saloni for hiding the truth form nahar. even i did at one point. but i rethought the whole thing logically. sure, saloni didn't do the right thing by not telling nahar. she should have trusted her husband, because he has always helped her out. But I don't think Nahar has any right to be mad at saloni, because what exactly is he doing? he seems to be hiding many more things from saloni. and i don't think we can blame saloni entirely, because the matter is so sensitive. shubhra has gotten pregnant before marriage. and in our society it is extremely sinful and shameful thing to do. and saloni has just married into the family, where aditi already has bitterness towards her. So, she probably didnt' feel comfortable telling nahar about shubhra, because she might have thought that nahar would think her sister has so sanskar and ultimately it goes back to her parents and their upbringing. It's a very natural insecurity that anyone can have. Although I do think she should have talked to Rewa because saloni was the one who wanted rewa and neel to be together earlier. I think this is the only place where she has made a mistake. But as far as trust and sharing everything is concerned, i don't think nahar has a right to lecture saloni on those matters, because look at himself!
Saloni's in laws also have a right to be upset, but i don't think tara should have said that saloni is biased towards her maika. It's not bias, it's love, and even if it's bias, it's justified. it's saloni's parents who gave birth to her, brought her up and gave her a good life, not her in-laws. So I think our society is still very unfair in that sense that it expects the girl to forget her maika after marriage. it's pure nonsense.
please post your views
Anupamaa
