No Going Back Now...AR epi 9/17 - Page 7

Originally posted by: bheegi

<font color="#3300cc">Thanks Psarda. I respect your opinion. Yes, it did strike odd to me that Armaan did not attend the wedding but joined them for the HM. That's why I feel there might be a twist there. Why is Sid not surprised by Armaan's presence?

Coming to Armaan and Sid and whose love is superior? I don't think it's fair to compare because both men love her from the bottom of their heart. Calling Armaan's love just lust or physical is degrading it because if u have seen AR love story from the beginning, it's far from that. Yes, he did get carried away but so did Riddhima. That just shows that despite being apart for so long and also constrained by her marital status, they still have very strong feelings for each other. Their hearts, souls and bodies are in sync with each other. I don't see that relationship between SR...they are very good friends, honest with each other but just don't share that passion with each other. Yes, in a few months they would probably consummate their relationship just like thousands of Indian couples do but are they all passionate about each other? NO! The kind of love AR share with each other happens rarely and that's what makes it a memorable love story.

Armaan is NOT forcing her by any means. He is just making her realize her own feelings.He has done everything in the past to bring SR together but now that he knows that Ridz has still not moved ahead with Sid, why would he want the woman he loves the most in this precarious situation? He wants her to be happy and that's why he tried everything to make her move on with Sid but now he knows that her happiness still lies with him,not Sid.

Yes, Sid is a great guy and a wonderful and patient husband but what can Riddhima do if her heart still beats for ARmaan? Love has no logic. Even if ARmaan was a criminal and Sid a saint, she would still love Armaan....that's the way the heart beats.

So, it's not a question of which man loves her more, it's a question of whom does she love??

The fact that Ridz has stated clearly that she can't give Sid what he wants, is a clear indication of her true feelings. Why do people still want SR to stay married? Just because they have a good understanding? Just because they look good together? Just because they have gone through marriage ceremonies twice??

It's very clear that even if she feels more secure with Sid, she just can't get Armaan out of her system....so why hold on to this half hearted marriage? It's not fair to Sid at all.He is a great guy but deserves a woman who can be his completely, not in bits and pieces.

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Originally posted by: swapdmg

@Psarda di and bheegi di .. first of all thnks a lot for this decent conversation... u know first time i saw two person on this forum talking in a very nice way although both have different pov. u both r elder then me and have much experience of life... i just wanna say in this whole track of dmg is completely illogical... i cant understand why ridzi never take correct decision of her life.. i know marriage is most important in life.. but it was wrong when u just want to fulfill d duty of wife.. marriage is the union of soul not just a duty...

Originally posted by: swapdmg

I totally agree with you.

After the showing us the couple of days episode the CVs have made it clear Ridzie loves just armaan and she just forces herself to be a wife to Sid. Her heart is on one person and her dimag on other! I hope they get AR together and progress the story further instead of getting back to Square 1 and dragging it further which wud just lose the patience of everyone. Frankly i think ocnfused Ridzie has been testing the patience of every fan group and she needs to just tell the truth to Sid and get out of this marriage! I am for one glad that ARmaan is making some sense here he is right she shud not spoil all their lives by trying to stick to rules of society instead she can act like the girl of the 21st century and live her life and let others live theirs too!

Originally posted by: kirthik

yawn yawn.....

oops sorry ...the show has become so predictable and boring now that i stopped watching....

in fact i think the forum has more passion and drama and masala in it than the actual show......

i come to IF only to read them now😆