Alekh is Ragini's brother dil se aur kayde se

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Friends Ragini loves Alekh as her own brother, to her he is Sadhna's legacy....and she protects him like that only, even if Alekh was normal it would have been awkward to see two of them married like few are suggesting.Since this story /track is no way hinting out about such possibility , can we not say such things and hurt others.I understand ke it happens.....specially if sister is unmarried...but Ragini and Alekh have such a sweet bond....it needs to be cherished....
the love they have......is platonic ....
so my request...
hum ne dekhi hai un aankhon ki mehakti khushboo
haath se choo ke ise rishton ka ilzaam na do
sirf ehsaas hai yeh rooh se mehsoos karo
pyaar ko pyaar hi rehne do koi naam na do...
love is not about husband or boyfriend..but it is so much more about your Dill ke rishte.....they can be platonic na.......thats what they share😃
P.S Anmol's love for Alekh shouldn't be underestimated and insulted by such comments😃😳

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Posted: 15 years ago
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also, Ragini is related to Alekh in two ways..she is not just his "saali" but she is Ranveer's wife and Ranveer was Alekh's younger brother. A younger brother's wife is looked upon as a daughter. And elder brother's wife is looked upon as Mother as per our customs an
d Rajvansh family and Sharma family are shown to follow traditions.
I know its modern age, these settings now might be labelled out of date...but in the show neither Alekh nor Ragini is sketched as ultra-mod
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i agree samiii...for me,alekh is like her kid yaaarrr.lolzz.she treats alekh as her bachcha.for ragini,tashi=alekh...how sweeettt..n alekh, he loves ragini as a saali/behen/frd a lottttt....n for ragini,alekh is her kid..i just love their unique realtionship,bonding...they r the besttttttt jija-sali/best frd everrrrrrr....even anmol-alekh's bond is nice.....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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well said...
the creatives are not that dumb to show such thing..
ragini has always respected alekh ..he is her jijaji..her sis sadnah's husband...
now she takes care of him same as her kids..he is like a grown up child for ragini..
that would be illogical to think of such issue..
yes anmol calling alekh bro and his love for him should not be ignored...
for me though its a fiction and anything can happen in reel here the creatives at least have not cross such limits and shown us ragini/alekh married just for khushi which would have made the show go down the pipeline as quickly as possible..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Sam agree! Even if we go back we would see when there was no sign of Ragvir's romance. When Sadhna got married and Ragini found about the reason of her marriage; with time after Sadhna who understood Alekh. She really took care of him in a very respected way I know When leap happened many suggested that and I really didn't feel good about that as I saw it from very begining how the relation was formed and he felt very comfortable with ragini when Sadhna told him She is my JIji!😊 then she played a role of a great Bhabhi when Alekh was out to prove himself he is wrothy of Sadhna!
I would love to see Angad and Parul in some other show but the way their relation ship is in Bidaai I would not want to see them opposite of eact other! The good think is that after Sadhna he trust Ragini regardless of Vasu thoughts about Ragini!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Sammy there should be dignity in a relationship
and Ragini and Alekh share a beautioful bonding like a friend, Jiju Saali, her sdahan's husband and above all he is like a brother also to her


She sees him like a child at this stage and loves and pours her affection as any one in that condition would do.
I am so glad that they never thought of making have any other sort relation or the idea of getting them, married it would be disgusting !!

The way he sees her like a person whom is more of a good friend and a human being to share sorrow and grief and she protects him as a child at this mental state he is in !!!

love is not about husband or boyfriend..but it is so much more about your Dill ke rishte.....they can be platonic na.......thats what they share😃
P.S Anmol's love for Alekh shouldn't be underestimated and insulted by such comments

Another thing even if Alekh was in proper state of mind he would be more like a great friend and respected Ragini as his beloved wife's sister and made that relation for life !!!

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

also, Ragini is related to Alekh in two ways..she is not just his "saali" but she is Ranveer's wife and Ranveer was Alekh's younger brother. A younger brother's wife is looked upon as a daughter. And elder brother's wife is looked upon as Mother as per our customs an

d Rajvansh family and Sharma family are shown to follow traditions.
I know its modern age, these settings now might be labelled out of date...but in the show neither Alekh nor Ragini is sketched as ultra-mod

yes sanskaar and also way ur relationship shaped before also matters, I feel requesting or wishing such things doesnt serve any purpose,so am so glad thta creatives did not folow this suicidal route👏
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: sami01

yes sanskaar and also way ur relationship shaped before also matters, I feel requesting or wishing such things doesnt serve any purpose,so am so glad thta creatives did not folow this suicidal route👏

if Ragini was unmarried or something, it was still ok. Just for you this example, you might be knowing already. In Ramayan, Ram's justification of Balibadh...because Bali captured his younger brother's wife and married her. Its not acceptable as per our tradition and religion,
I am not uttering it is a bad concept or good concept, but since Bidaai is shown to be based on Hinduism, I dont think creatives could have shown such a concept of Alekh-Ragini marriage.
Coming to Hum aapke hain kaun...in that movie, neither Madhuri was married to Salman nor anyone knew that she was dating him, thats why her marriage was proposed to her jija.
My intention is not to bring in religion here, but what I discussed is a full proof thing about Hinduism and Bidaai is based on this tradition. I feel hurt to hear that Ranveer's wife Ragini married to her jeth Alekh.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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yes Hinduism doesn't accept such traditions,and in serial Alekh and Ragini are shown as devotees of Hinduism so yes its not good example here......also not only this , Region plays different role too see what may be acceptable in Punjab may not be acceptable in Bengal within same faith.Eg in Bengal daughters touch parents feet , in Punjab they don't , so shows have to show general accepted traditions of region and faith both.I am glad bidaai creatives followed that.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: sami01

yes Hinduism doesn't accept such traditions,and in serial Alekh and Ragini are shown as devotees of Hinduism so yes its not good example here......also not only this , Region plays different role too see what may be acceptable in Punjab may not be acceptable in Bengal within same faith.Eg in Bengal daughters touch parents feet , in Punjab they don't , so shows have to show general accepted traditions of region and faith both.I am glad bidaai creatives followed that.

in some parts of India marriage between mama and niece are acceptable but not in other parts. I am happy that creatives show respect to these traditions..

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