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Sammy

@-ArohaAngel-

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Posted: 14 years ago

Before you read what i have to say...i want to clarify that i do not support adultry, EMA, or rape as a matter of fact. and what i am saying is not for either couples.

Reality, real, life....thats what they are showing, if they show that is. Adultry happens, so do EMA and so does rape...so does murder and girls get beaten up. A few months ago, Ladies special came, the guy beat up his wife, she was motivated enough to report him...eventually. IT was real and addicting because it happens. I'm not saying that adultry should happen, im just saying that it DOES happen. Instead of arguing for whos wrong and whos right...AR fans you may rejoice that they are together, SR fans, you may be disgusted that ridhima did this...or infact armaan stooped that low...the thing is, in real life...people do stoop that low, EMA's do happen and so do the other things...Indian TV is finally getting some sense of reality. You hardly walk into hospital that create love stories instead of treating patients. Besides if you think that people will support adultry if they show it in dmg...then you are wrong...look at kank..people didnt go out and start having sex with someone else...look at jab we met's starting..shahid's mom ran away...and if you really think DMG has a better effect on people, then go look at hospitals where doctors are still doctors, still treating their patients and not having fancy eye lock sessions with a fellow co worker, or look at your parents....this maybe rude, but you prolly watch show with you mom right? just because she sees in DMG she wont go and commit it....TRUST! is what is needed, fine ridhima broke it...but so have soo many males and females out there, that if they put them together, they would need a whole new country the size of France. Disgusting, but true...it happens....INdian TV is showing reality....theres no more medical cases in DMG..what hospital has that? half of you american...yeah you watch house...no matter what theres ALWAYS a medical case...you are in a hospital for god's sake and not a love park...sure love story was always supposed to be and is a big huge part of show...but so were medical cases...theres NOTHING!! in past 3 months has there been a medical case? name one...a real one!!...thats not how it works in real life and people make mistake...so did AR...deal with it!! making posts that insult either couples won't help...accept that it happens and the shows getting a little sense of reality.

I used to love the show..but there are soo many things wrong with it now...im not even sure i like it anymore...

-Sammy.

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Jhanvi

@desigrl05

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+ 4

Posted: 14 years ago

My argument is that why cannot they promote positive things, why always go after the bad..agreed this is good to make people aware of such things and it does happen, but where is allt he goodness gone? why hide that and show that all is fail ...

i think indian tv should show the importance of relationships in a proper nonillicit manner to send out a positive vibe...

i think for all the EMA we have ekta kapoor for that..i was hoping dmg woudl set a positive example to other serials and show the characters proving a certain point that things are not at loss when all is bad that u can get up and start again

so point being: why show a negative vibe when u can send positive ones?

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Harpreet.M

@Harpreet.M

Dazzler

Posted: 14 years ago

but my question is, WHY GET MARRIEEDDD TWICE? i know adultry happens in reality but who gets MARRIED TWICE, wait by personal CHOICE, and not even a week later commit adultry?

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prerna4rishav

@prerna4rishav

Stunner

+ 6

Posted: 14 years ago

If we are to deal with Reality..

1.We have to stop fantasizing the character of Armaan as God..

2.We have to put him behind the bars as in REAL world, for adultery, it's 5 yr punishment ( Thanks to fary )..

3. We have to teach AR a nice lesson and call them criminals..

THESE are REALITY.. And talk abt reality, people who commit crime, we dont go gaga over them.. Before 5/6 yrs ago in India, Dhananjay was sentenced to death for a Rape case.. SENTENCED to death for such REAL deals.. These are reality..

So either call them criminals and get them punished, or stop making excuses..

P.S -- TM it's not for u.. I think ur post was innocent enough.. But that is for those who have only THIS excuse in their old jholi..

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Sammy

@-ArohaAngel-

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Posted: 14 years ago

because along with positives there are negatives...and if you hide them...they only increase...your giving it a chance to multiply like a hidden bacteria in your body...While the pretty face...puts make up on and still looks pretty!

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Sammy

@-ArohaAngel-

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: prerna4rishav
If we are to deal with Reality..

1.We have to stop fantasizing the character of Armaan as God..

2.We have to put him behind the bars as in REAL world, for adultery, it's 5 yr punishment ( Thanks to fary )..

3. We have to teach AR a nice lesson and call them criminals..

THESE are REALITY.. And talk abt reality, people who commit crime, we dont go gaga over them.. Before 5/6 yrs ago in India, Dhananjay was sentenced to death for a Rape case.. SENTENCED to death for such REAL deals.. These are reality..

So either call them criminals and get them punished, or stop making excuses..

P.S -- TM it's not for u.. I think ur post was innocent enough.. But that is for those who have only THIS excuse in their old jholi..

ther hasnt been a rape...its a moral crime...they are not criminals....they are sinners..theres a difference...and like i said im not supported either couples... and how many of them actually go out there and do something about it? under 5%....police men do these kinda things themselves....for all you know the country needs to get its reins in control

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-MERRY-

@-MERRY-

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 14 years ago

i agree with desigirl.

they show the samething all the time (rape, abuse,adultery) thats y i hated ekta's shows. a couple can have a normal and decent story u know. dmg was something different but not anymore.

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prerna4rishav

@prerna4rishav

Stunner

+ 6

Posted: 14 years ago

Agree..

But that just adds one more example to the corruption.. And we dont go gaga over those EMA doers.. Do we?

That's what my point is.. If they r doing EMA, they can NOT be supported or excused.. it depends upon the spouse of the girl/boy who is married to him/her, that whether he/she wants to punish them or not.. But he has FULL right to do that.. And if he doesn't, still it doesnt make it right..

What is wrong, is wrong.. in ALL circumstances!

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.driftingaway

@.driftingaway

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Posted: 14 years ago

But the problem here, is that the creatives are glamourising the concept. EVEN WORSE, they are trying to show it in a positive light. AR could have gotten together after SR's divorce, if Riddhima wanted Armaan all along why did she convice Sid to remarry her? It was completely consensual the second time round, so why the sudden change now? Why is riddhima acting so selfish? Why is she stringing sid along? AR were the main protagonists of the show. Riddhima is still the main protagonist, what message are the CV's passing on by making the main character of their soap indulge in adultery with her ex boyfriend? that too, a week after her marriage. 😕 DMG is getting further, and further away from reality. They aren't showing infidelity for what it really is; Sin, unethical, ugly, and immoral. They arent showing the raw consequences of AR's actions. They arent showing what a broken marriage looks like, and what betrayal by one's spouse feels like. Instead they are playing ishq leta in the background while Riddhima get's out of the pool, thinking about her ex, whilst she is on her honeymoon.

Edited by driftingaway - 14 years ago