What does Dutta love about Naku?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Here's a topic that goes kind of hand-in-hand with the Dutta in love post.

In your opinion, what is it that Dutta loves about Naku?

Does he love Naku for the person she is--giving, loving, honest😆--just kidding. She is honest when it comes to her opinions of others and him.
Does he love her because she loves him so much, gives him caring, attention? Or is it a little of BOTH?

We've talked in side conversations about Dutta not knowing Naku as well as he would like, and that would come with time. Once the secret is out, then there is nothing between Dutta and Naku. It's all laid out on the table. Earlier in the show, he would remember her telling him she loves him and would love him time and again. That she wasn't ashamed of it. Then she saved his life again, took a fall off a cliff with him, was kidnapped by Anna but had vishwas that her pati would save her, etc. Perhaps, this SHOWED him love in its true light--compassionate, giving, doing. And hence he understood it. But I ask again, what made Dutta fall in love with Naku? What was that which made him realize that what was in his heart was love? And, as I mentioned above, does he love Naku for the type of person she is or because she gives so much love, which he desperately wanted in life? Or is it a little of both? If a little of both, which of the two is more the explanation? 😃

I know this sounds like a weird topic. But let's think about it. As much as I think Dutta loves the type of person she is, loves her for herself, I also think it has more to do with her smothering him with love and sacrificing for him. Love is after all what Dutta has treasured inside (his heart) yet reviled on the outside most of his life, and I daresay it is his--and most people's--Achilles Heel.

I'd love to know your thoughts.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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The question I ask myself a hundred times in a day:What does he see in her???? I honestly have no clue but its a nice topic gp I'd love to hear what our members have to say about this one.Bring it on,Ladies....😊😊😊😊😊😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
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hey i cant put it in words..but nakku has given him something that no one has given him...she treats him differently..weather its love, or her caring attitude..she makes him feel special!..he has not loved nakku for 1 reason ya..its many things put together that made him fall for her..😊...
u need a number of ingredients to make a think he just only then it turns out to be delicious..same is the case with nakku...i dont think there is a particular reason but he just loves her because she is nakku😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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form the first day dutta naku pe bharosa karte hai. jo o kisi pe nehi karte the. naku ne use bharosa & pyar dono di hay. jo uske jinde gi ke sabse bari kami rahe hay. he can realize himsalf infront of naku. Naku hamesa dutta ka mirror banke samne aye hai. mujhe lagta hai isliye o naku se itna pyar karta hai.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Well he actually mentioned all the things he loves about her😆
Her Innocence, the Truth in her words when she speaks, her Good Intentions, the person she is.
Naku is an extremely nice person. She's genuine, whatever she does she does for the good of other people.
She has had her share of pain and hardship but it hasn't turned her bitter. It's actually made her more Positive. He loves that she trusts God so much and believes that whatever happens happens for the better. He loves her courage, that was one thing he admired about her from the beginning. Loads of things.
And yes, he probably does Love her for the way she Loves him. Why wouldn't he? She Loves him the way he's always wanted to be Loved.

Aisha xxx😉
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Posted: 14 years ago
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gud topic but ermmm kinda hard we knw dat he dsnt care about naku's luks he likes da dark naku anyways wat is love there r differnt types of love but in dutta's case i think her being kind and considerate always thinking about others b4 herself has made him fall 4 her i think da day she saved his life at da begging she made a place in his heart 4 her courage as he sed he respects people who have courage and plus naku just being naku if dat makes sense😆and a girl who loves him despite of his buisness as a don dat must shock him because wen supriya ran away and naku admited dat she loves him he cud tell she ment it coz of da luk he had on his face anguish and being torn knwing dispate all he does someone can actually luv him 4 wat he is so afta all dat torture dat he did 2 her blaming her her nt getting out of da car wanting 2 be wid him even though they cud have died naku feeling duttas pain and only wanting his happiness she is pretty much selfless and dat i think has made dutta's heart go out 2 her and he 2 has fallen 4 her which i luv he didnt care about her appearence he fell 4 her inner beauty as naku dosnt care about duttas lifestyle dats wat i think
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: sana786a

gud topic but ermmm kinda hard we knw dat he dsnt care about naku's luks he likes da dark naku anyways wat is love there r differnt types of love but in dutta's case i think her being kind and considerate always thinking about others b4 herself has made him fall 4 her i think da day she saved his life at da begging she made a place in his heart 4 her courage as he sed he respects people who have courage and plus naku just being naku if dat makes sense😆and a girl who loves him despite of his buisness as a don dat must shock him because wen supriya ran away and naku admited dat she loves him he cud tell she ment it coz of da luk he had on his face anguish and being torn knwing dispate all he does someone can actually luv him 4 wat he is so afta all dat torture dat he did 2 her blaming her her nt getting out of da car wanting 2 be wid him even though they cud have died naku feeling duttas pain and only wanting his happiness she is pretty much selfless and dat i think has made dutta's heart go out 2 her and he 2 has fallen 4 her which i luv he didnt care about her appearence he fell 4 her inner beauty as naku dosnt care about duttas lifestyle dats wat i think



Very interesting point. Let me ask you and the people who respond to this post:

Would you love Dutta even though he is a Don, a good-hearted one no doubt? He of course is haunted by his past violence upon others, but at the end of the day, he is a Don, and a Don is a Don is a Don, in some respects. Did Naku overlook this ugliness in him like he overlooked her ugliness (I hate using this word, but I just wanted to make a point)? And Naku does not care about his lifestyle, so in theory, Dutta could one day decide to kill a business associate and Naku would be okay with that? What would her Bappa think of that? I'm sure Naku could rationalize it.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: gp00



Very interesting point. Let me ask you and the people who respond to this post:

Would you love Dutta even though he is a Don, a good-hearted one no doubt? He of course is haunted by his past violence upon others, but at the end of the day, he is a Don, and a Don is a Don is a Don, in some respects. Did Naku overlook this ugliness in him like he overlooked her ugliness (I hate using this word, but I just wanted to make a point)? And Naku does not care about his lifestyle, so in theory, Dutta could one day decide to kill a business associate and Naku would be okay with that? What would her Bappa think of that? I'm sure Naku could rationalize it.

ok again an intrestin question but kind a hard one ok dis might sound a bit cheesy or cliche even but again der r differnt types of love and love is love u shud love a person 4 derselve nt wat they r or how they luk i dnt think either overlooked der ugliness if u get wat i mean they just luked at der inner self like dutta is a don a don is a don like killing is involved and a lot of vilonce naku managed 2 luk past dat and saw dat inside dutta there wat a beautiful human being as did dutta he overluked her luks nt because she did because he 2 dsnt judge a person or character at face value he 2 luks at der innerself i think naku has made her bed and frm da start it didnt faze her dat he was a don she knws his buisness rite frm da start and nws dat dis is how he is and will always luv him because she has seen him torturing people and shooting people 2 rite infrnt of her eyes so i dnt think at da last minute she will feel guilty and say i cant live dis kind of lyfestyle i just think wenever he will go out 2 atend 2 buisness she will pray 4 his saftey 2 bappa and cherish da moments she has wid him
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: nazia.icycool

hey i cant put it in words..but nakku has given him something that no one has given him...she treats him differently..weather its love, or her caring attitude..she makes him feel special!..he has not loved nakku for 1 reason ya..its many things put together that made him fall for her..😊...
u need a number of ingredients to make a think he just only then it turns out to be delicious..same is the case with nakku...i dont think there is a particular reason but he just loves her for being nakku😆



Hey Nazia,
Good points. Yes, Dutta is right--her courage, loving nature...she makes him feel special. Yet, I have found that people can think up reasons for just about everything, including why they love somebody. They are speaking from their heart, or so they think, and may totally believe what they are saying. There is no deception, nothing negative whatsoever. But sometimes, we don't understand ourselves and our underlying motivations that well. That's why I posed this question. I think Dutta does respect her courage, her faith in him, her positive attitude. But I believe very strongly that he needed to be loved and understood, like all of us. However, I think this accounts for a lot of his feelings for her -- she loves him so completely, so desperately that he feels that hole filling up inside him. How much is it love for Naku, the person, vs. loving "being in love and love itself"--that I do not know.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Our inner selves are not always manifested outwardly, but isn't what we allow to happen a reflection on our inner selves and the type of person we are?

For example, Naku had a crush on Dutta from the very beginning. I daresay there was an element of strong, good looking guy saves girl, hero-worship. Now if Naku accepts Dutta having a hand in someone's murder let's say or some bad enterprise, what does that say about her inner self? That it's ok when her love Dutta does something like that because he is good on the inside? Would Bappa make that distinction or would Naku rationalize it and say Bappa wanted it to be this way?😆 Now, not to defend Anna at all, if Anna killed someone, Naku would call him a rakshas, no doubt about it. Pardon the simile, but it's like the pot calling the kettle black.

It's an odd point I'm trying to make, but I question a lot of things, as you can see.😆 It's a habit I can't seem to kick.

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