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Posted: 15 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: Yuvrajjj



I'd like your views on the other half of my post, what dya think? I'd be glad if other members also poured in their views, especially Prabha. 😊

Other half - see, I am a fan since the beginning, used to seeing the trio in my drawing room every week and they are like family to me. I cannot imagine life without seeing them once a week.
When you admire someone so much, you are hurt when someone speaks against them. Many people on this forum are like me.
This is not a casual K-serial coming for a season like Maan Rahe Pita and disappearing without a trace.
You are welcome to post what you like without any personal attacks. About the Women in CID thread, I was surprised that you don;t like Asha...but I didn't attack you for it...I just asked for your views on why you don't like her.
We are all different...and that's what makes us more human.
I am out of this thread for today.
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Posted: 15 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: Yuvrajjj

I'd like your views on the other half of my post, what dya think? I'd be glad if other members also poured in their views, especially Prabha. 😊



OK I am here.

First things first. This thread is open since Jun 2010, way before you joined in. Every now and then when some of the senior members feel that discussions are turning into arguments often, we get this thread back up reminding members that - We are here for fun, if anyone is annoying you, just IGNORE, we don't need to get into arguments to prove our points. Just agree to disagree and move on. I don't see what is so wrong with that, its a gesture to keep the place peaceful. Since that is a General Post it is meant for everyone, and its upto individuals to agree or disagree.

Here on this forum about 20 members are active most of the time and most of us share the same views. So when one says XYZ, people add their points and discussions goes ahead and since most of the times our views match, it may seem like a group but that is not necessarily true. Its not like we who seem a group do not have our share of disagreements, we do but we agree to disagree and move on.

Suppose you and me have a discussions on TRIO or a Recent case, you in favor and I against, or vise a versa, after a point I choose to let it go since either of us are unable to convince the other, why should that be intolerance. When an opinion is in minority, it will always feel that people are against it though that is not really true.

I have been here since 2005, I have seen discussion here, there was a time when my opinions were in minority and I accepted the fact. I did not force them on anyone just kept them to myself. Today the newer lot is mostly sharing my opinions and so they seem in majority. This cycle will continue as old fans drift away and new ones come in. So if one feels their opinions are not shared by others, they need to accept it and not hold it against others. Share your views but don't expect each and everyone to lap it up.

With this the matter is closed as far as I am concerned.
Edited by prabha. - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
#33

This is exactly why this thread is for, to remind people that we are here for FUN and NOT to the play the unnecessary music. AGREE TO DISAGREE and LET GO. Else if things go out of hand Admins take charge and we would not like that to happen to anyone. We have seen enough members being banned already. Keep the place peaceful. After this its an individual choice.

Edited by prabha. - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
#34
well, i never have the feeling that i am above criticism 😊
And i dont care if some body critisize or insult me ....because iam not here to create problem.

I never insulted anyone here, from the day i joined if.

And i believe in the fact that to escape criticism , say nothing.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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ok....i though your comment ' keep your nose out of ' was to me.
So It was to the cid team, as you said... 😆

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