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Posted: 14 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: Rolzz

Cant believe people actually blame Maan or Geet!!!! What were they expecting??? Maan to take Geet to the nearest Registration office and get married to cover up her pregnancy!!!!!!! Ridiculous!!

😆😆..there were manyy who were also expecting a couple of kisses on the way to the registrar's office...and plenty more
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Yep!! I've expected Maan to be shocked and hurt and it isn't Geet's fault,he said he believed in the truth and he told him.So it isn't both their fault and they have two different point of views.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@Eveline: Agree with you. The situation that both are in is a difficult one. If you don't mind, I am going to post something for the others who are against MSK here on your thread.

@All the OMGish Fool Girls: Polki is really proud of how you all are justifying munda's actions. You all make me proud.




@All who are feel Maan was wrong. Stop calling him names and listen to rational reasoning.

Many of you have accused us of defending him because we are in love with him. Wrong, some of us are a lot older than most here in the forums, we are not crazy in love MSK fans. And most of us started watching Geet and stuck with this show because it explored the truth of humanity, the good and the bad. We sympathized with Geet, when she was left by Dev at the airport, we cried with her when she found out that she was pregnant. We cheered her on from our couches as she fought for her rights, i.e. to bring an innocent child into the world. We were elated when she started working for Maan and over all we were overjoyed as we saw Maan support her. We all were excited as we saw them fall in love with each other, yet we were scared to think of what would happen when the truth came out.

Yesterday was the day, the truth came out and all of a sudden many of you were mad at Maan's actions. Never did you all put your selves in his shoes and try to comprehend where he was coming from, what was going on in his heart and head. We are defending him because what he portrayed is raw human emotion.

There standing before him was the one person who had managed to break down the wall he had so carefully built around himself, the wall that kept him safe from all emotions. He let his guard down and allowed himself to fall in love (we all witnessed him fight his feelings) And this person whom he was attracted to because of her openness, her caring nature, innocence was telling him that she was pregnant.

He had built this image where he was going to hear the 3 most precious words someone in love can hear and he heard 3 totally devastating words. He was is in shock. He doesn't know what to think, feel or even say. He is going through a array of emotions all at the same time. It is perfectly normal for him to react the way he did.

Afterall he is only human, just because Geet ko usme Rab dikhta hain, doesn't mean that he is really Rab, he is just human.

Initially when he heard the truth, he was probably in denial, how can his Geet be pregnant, how is it possible. However as he said to earlier to her, her eyes spoke the truth, when he looked at her eyes, he saw the truth.

The next thing he will feel is anger, anger at various things. Anger that she is pregnant, anger that she actually belonged to someone else, anger at himself - that he allowed his heart to feel and fell for Geet, anger that she didn't trust him to tell him the truth earlier.

After that he talk to her, he will find out the truth. We hope from Geet rather than Dev.

On finding out the truth he will go into depression, he will be depressed that his Geet suffered so much, depressed that he wasn't there to protect her, depressed that he walked away from her after hearing the truth and probably depressed that once again Geet suffered. If he becomes aware of who the culprit is who betrayed Geet, he will blame himself for all the pain Geet has gone through.

Eventually what everyone is waiting for, he will accept. Accept his love, accept Geet's love and accept the baby.

Of course there is a lot more for him to go through during all these steps but do not fret that is what makes the show.. if he were to stand there and listen to her, it would be totally against his character. Were you expecting him to give a large smile and say koi baat nahi, ek ke saath me ek free.

Afterall he is MSK the angry young man that we all initially came to love. You cannot have him going against his character. This is the same MSK who will avenge every tear shed by Geet, so sit back and enjoy the show.

As Adi would say "Dost abhi picture baaki hain."
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@eveline ....U R so right ... nice post BTW.... yesterday every one was bashing either geet or maan ... but no one was thinking from Maaneet's POV ... I wanted 2 post something similar to what u have but U did a super job ... I myself could not have done a better job than U ...
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Posted: 14 years ago
#25
Both of them are right.Geet always wanted to tell the whole truth but when you are nervous you sometimes mess up things.And Maan was in a shock.He was not in himself.He was probably thinking that it his nightmare.So the reaction is completely justified.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: desigurl953

Okayz..I totally understand what you mean..I feel the same too but I can help it..Geet should have aborted that child in the first place...Any sane girl would do that...actually,it is kind of expected from a Indian drama actress...only in dramas people don't abort their child coz of maa ka pyaar and all that..I know 100 people are going to throw jootis on me but it is my true feeling...For Maan,I think he should reflect,think about why Geet did this....I know his reaction was kinda expected coz I mean this is a serial and moreover,they wouldn't want to solve things so fast...Now he will go home...lock himself up...cry...try to become the old angry self again and ignore Geet but though it'll be hard for him,he'll not show Geet anything..Geet perhaps would just leave but since Dev is there..she might first slap him and then tell him the truth...
Whatever that happens,I just hope all is well....I am really devastated after Friday's episode...I cried a lot in bed after watching the episode and drifted off to sleep..Such a horrible gift for EID....

So you mean to say that Geet is insane?And Maa Ka Pyar is just a normal feeling?I think you are not a mother.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Eveline :

Fabulous analysis ..you have indeed put yourself in their shoes to write something like this .

Thanks for sharing your thoughts !

👏 👏 👏 👏 👏

-R
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Posted: 14 years ago
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But looking at the majority of posts on this forum right now...i just feel this post has been a waste of time and effort...but still couldn't resist presenting their individual sides of the story in the hopes that some will understand.

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