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Posted: 14 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: Laila2009
In response to Ramas' post:

I still want abhi and simi to reconcile. But then she has to be taught a lesson that she can not get away.

Why would you subject someone like Abhi to a woman who cannot show any love for a man who has done so much for him? Don't you think that's wrong? She never has cared for him and she never will. Why don't you wish better for him?

Simi should not have said abhi psycho in that tone and infront of mili.

I agree, and you still want him to live with her?

But unfortuntaely all fall out goes in front of every one.

Your English makes no sense here, so no response.

I am sure Simbhi will reconcile. marital bonds are not broken that easily and yes couple loose it now and then. But that does not mean they break teh bond.

What marital bond? This relationship is one sided with Abhi doing all the work. Just because Simi calls herself Simi Tarneja or makes him breakfast does not make this relationship one sided. She doesn't even love the guy; she deserves morons and sick men like Bhalla and Nakul as she too is a very sick woman herself and to endorse her as a heroine is clearly horrific.

Abhi knows very well this is mili's ploy to separate them. He love simi and understand simi is a emotional fool and naive and easily taken by others. he loves her more than anything.

When love is strong words don't mean much. That was pretty obvious from today's episode. Abhi is staying away so mili won't harm simi. he loves her more than ever.

Ramas, I did not watch today's show so please let us know HOW you KNOW this? Did the writers send this information to you or is this YOUR perception of the show? Because there is a difference between what is fact and what is one's perception.

Also so what if Abhi is expected to love Simi in this show? It shows this is a seriously disturbed and dysfunctional relationship. Moreover, strong or bad words have destroyed even the BEST relationships. I suggest you read up more on what destroys a marriage. It is clear that you have no knowledge of what is verbal abuse in a relationship and what Simi said was wrong and unacceptable and can and should lead to the demise of this relationship. Abhi is hopefully staying away from Simi because he has lost respect from her and not because he is trying to keep her safe. And again, so what if he loves her more than ever? What does this have to do with anything.

But he needs to teach her lesson to be strong and smart and recognize people for what tehy are.Only abhi can make simi smarter.

No-one can make her smart and if she is a dunce then why did he marry her in the first place? Makes this relationship all the more ridiculous.

We all know abhi is not going to stay away from Simi. But then simi should know she will not get away insulting him.

We know this is your wish and that it is going to happen since some very bad writers write this story to make it possible. So what are you suggesting that Abhi do - slap her like he did Mili?

PLEASE NOTE: If the genders were reversed in this relationship, we'd all shout and point fingers towards Simi as an abusive person in this relationship. Abhi is a tragic victim and so what if he loves his wife? I would like to know does his wife love Abhi and where? All she does is call herself Simi Tarneja and cook him breakfast. THAT a marriage does NOT make.

Sorry.........no comments

Edited by WithlovefromUSA - 14 years ago

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Laila Banu

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Posted: 14 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: WithlovefromUSA
Sorry.........no comments

(The above response to my post). You do have a comment hence the reason you respond to this post. Why don't you be so bold as to say how you really feel?😛

Edited by Laila2009 - 14 years ago

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Laila Banu

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Posted: 14 years ago

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We know this is your wish and that it is going to happen since some very bad writers write this story to make it possible. So what are you suggesting that Abhi do - slap her like he did Mili?

Ramas, there is no justification here. Just because someone has poor anger management skills does not justify slapping them. This is something that should not be happening. If Mili is not talking, and won't talk, do you think slapping her - and that was a very loud slap - more like a thump, resolve anything NO.

PLEASE NOTE: If the genders were reversed in this relationship, we'd all shout and point fingers towards Abhi as an abusive person in this relationship. Here the roles are reversed where Abhi is a tragic victim. So what if he loves his wife? I would like to know does his wife love Abhi and where? All she does is call herself Simi Tarneja and cook him breakfast. THAT a marriage does NOT make.

Laila let me reverse the situation for the point of argument if abhi had called mili this way and say he has done something to vishal and can not come back or she can not talk to him and if she had slapped him then wouldn't we call mili a hero and that abhi is sick psycho who deserves many slaps.

Raksha, This response completely avoids what I have posted here and if you want an answer the answer is it would have been stupid of Mili because if she slapped Abhi, he would have been able to slap her RIGHT back since he's stronger. Thus logically your response does not make sense in light of things.

THe piont of my post here to to point out that the relationship between Abhi and Simi is ABUSIVE and you've completed ignored that point.

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Posted: 14 years ago

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What abhi did is justified because mili provoked him any prson who happens to love his wife and then some calls him and tells him the way mili usggested as if she killled him or something. The person will go out of mind and will want to know waht happned to his wife. it was a reaction out of pain and anger.

Let's examine what is being said here .. it is fairly obvious that the author is STILL horribly confused .. the statements here advocate that all reactions resulting from 'pain' and 'anger' are justified!! Which means, that the next time I get livid about an issue involving a 'loved' one I would be within my rights to go on a murderous rampage ..

In the Simi/Abhi fiasco, why would a purportedly rational being (who has continually taken a mighty thrashing at his wife's hands since they met, and yet retained his sanity) take matters into his own hands??!! Why would he not report it to the Police?!! THAT Is what is wrong with countries such as India .. people beat strangers - out on the streets - with virtual impunity!!! Try doing that here and see what manner of 'restitution' is involved if you're found guilty of battery and assault!!

The confusion does not stop there however .. the author suggests that a loving/doting husband (by her own admission) should tell his wife to rot in hell .. good thing there's no such thing as hell (although how 12/24 is different from one is difficult to say) .. or that she stick to her 'sick' family .. I posit that it would be better for him to tell her that there are irreconcilable differences, and that they should get a divorce .. as far as I am concerned, a far more civil approach to things ..

But the 'prize du jour' for the most addle-pated response (in my un-humble opinion) must go to the 'no comment' one!! Amazing!!

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