Friendship- a forward step in their relationship..

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hey a lot of u guys are saying that though maaneet are beyond the level of friendship n all...bcoz they are way more than dat....this friendship is a forward step in their relationship.... though the feelings they have for each other are way more than friendship....

can i ask one thing.... have these two ppl ever had a relationship than being a boss n secretary??? even now though he is saying dat she is his fiancee 2 everybody... she believes it is a contract one na.... he is still her boss... not anything else......so only a boss n secretary relationship.... they r still strangers in dat way...

something is better than nothing.... i think dis is wat Maan's mind must have been thinking.... he wants 2 be in a relationship with her..... a much more deeper relationship.... he wants her as his lover as his wife ... his soulmate.....n wat relationship other than being friends is better for them....a couple who are best friends will always be a good couple ....... friendship between a boy n girl is d baby steps in taking a relationship further..... a level of comfortableness will be with them na...... they can talk bout their pasts....with a feeling dat they have their friend 2 support them ..... so he is taking a step forward for their relationship....

geet asking for friendship shows she is willing 2 have a relationship with maan other than being his secretary or fake or should i say contract fiancee.....dis is basically a foundation n dat too a strong foundation for her 2 move on in her relationship with maan.....dis girl doesnt have any friends except pinky n pinky too becoz she is a childhood friend....she needs a friend badly whom she can trust a lot, whom she can care bout n a friend who will care bout her.... the girl is moving on guys.....

maan being friends with geet..... dat is a surprise coming from the great Mr. Maan Singh Khurana..... the guy doesnt have any friends guys...... he doesnt talk 2 anyone like a friend...he doesn't like 2 have friends..... even 2 dadimaa he talks like a dutiful grandson... with love n affection...... him agreeing 2 be friends with someone.... is just d 8th wonder of the world.....quite an unexpected surprise....dat is a step forward for d guy in opening himself again 2 d world..... he is opening up 2 emotions.... he is now opening himself 2 love affection friendship n all.....


so dis friendship is not a backward step in their relationship.... it is a forward one.......

foes turning 2 friends.... n then lovers n soul mates.... their relationship is slowly progressing from being a candy floss romance 2 being an intense n eternal one....they r gonna make history one day....

the girl who once said love wont occur for this guy who used 2 think of him as an enemy ..... he is slowly gaining more n more respect n a place for himself in her heart n mind..... till now she is just her boss..... their relationship is getting deeper....

so please take dis friendship track in a positive way...


sorry if i offended anyone....
nivu.....

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I also agree, friendship is the first step of starting a relationship.😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I see your point ...and I agree... i think the way the scene was abruptly portrayed , had something to do with the forward/backward confusion.... remember , the previous night when Geet was crying and Maan said tum akeli nahin ho main tumhaare saath hun... that time also they were so close ...and that was also deep "friendship" , soul-to-soul ...I did not feel the sparks of attraction that usually fly between them , but the shade of two souls in contact deeply with one another ...hence the next days's "friends" , which came abruptly in the car (I thought) , seemed "step backwards" at that time..... But the way you ahve seen it has its own sense and in that , i totally agree with you , this "friends" is their first , accepted , mutual relationship ...
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yeah.... even though d friendship is like baby steps 2wards their relationship...... this is d biggest step in their relationship too.... slowly their relationship is growing more n more strong... d trust n comfort level with themselves is increasing.....till now i felt both trampled on the other's personal space... even though they are in love with each other.....but now they themselves are letting the other 2 invade their personal space.....both are opening up themselves 2 each other

n who knows..... maan though he feels for geet may probably misunderstand geet when d truth comes out if it comes from NT or Dev....bcoz they will surely twist te truth n say it..... now dat maan is her friend he may use it 2 know bout the reason, bcoz of which she is holding back from being with him,in a way which geet unknowingly lets out her reason for staying away from him.... which is her past.... bcoz he is her friend she may slowly open up 2 him n tell him her past herself... in dis way maan wont misunderstand geet..... he will stand by her n support her..... she may not feel he is obligated.... she may feel he is doing it out of his own free will which may increase her respect for maan more....

two strangers cant become eternal lovers with a short span of time.... but they can become good friends in d short span of time....till now maan geet love story hasnt really started.... after yesterday's episode when she extended her hand of friendship..... d love story has started....both of them are coming out of their pasts n are gonna look out for each other more, care bout the other more, love each other more n respect each other more..... not that they aren't respecting or care bout each other, they do... but doing it for friends will only increase d level they care or respect or love the other person....

a few episodes back she said "gher ka joota nahi khaya jaatha hai..." during d dinner scene where maan eats from her plate... he had said " apno ka joota kaa sakthe hain"... it was a confirmation of his feelings for her.... even then she was still a stranger 2 him as per geet's pov... now she has made maan her apna.... geet ne maan ko dost bankar use apnaya.... dis should have been celebrated instead of thinking their relationship is going backward.....

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