Riddhima-Heart Vs Mind

Today we got to see GREEN BASKET Reloaded. And I LOVEEEDD IT. 😃⭐️ 😛

I absolutely LOVED Riddhima today. She was so damn adamant that Armaan should not be sent to panchgani with SHILPA that I was LMAO 😆

I mean absolutely NO argument by Sid was making a difference to her. Her answer to every question by Sid was "Armaan ko Shilpa ke saath kyun bheja??"...."Ha lekin Armaan ko Shilpa ke saath kyun bheja?"...."Shilpa theek nah hai, Armaan ko Shilpa ke saath kyun bheja?"....."Armaan tumhara dost hai,Armaan ko Shilpa ke saath kyun bheja?"......."Tumhara decision galat hai. Armaan ko Shilpa ke saath kyun bheja??"....................ROFFLLLL 🤣🤪.

Riddhima jee had SUCH A HUGE PROBLEM with Shilpa and Armaan going TOGETHER that when Shilpa entered the room I was almost expecting her to jump at Shilpa and beat her up for daring to go with Armaan.....What happened to u Riddhima ??? I thought she had made her peace with Shilpa during the LR kada scene. But NAHI..I was wrong. Looks like the ArSh dance rekindled the GREEN BASKET in her.😉
And man is Green Basket fierce, stubborn and adamant and wee bit scary. ⭐️😛😉

Poor Sid was so conphuusseeedd seeing his "wife's" behavior. He couldn't make head or tail of WHY every whiny complain of his was falling on deaf ears and WHY his "wife" had only one thought in her mind "Armaan". ???
Seriously is Sid that stupid that he can't understand where his wife's so called "concern" is coming from or is Sid still in denial about the reality of his "marriage"??? 😕. I would like to believe its the later. The guy NEEDS and reality check and NOW. 😛

Now coming to the main point of my post.

One thing that today's episode cleared was the difference between Riddhima's conscious and subconscious behavior.

Riddhima's instincts, her subconsciouns is still tuned into Armaan. Whenever she thinks with her heart its only Armaan that she thinks about. And we've been seeing that in the last couple of episodes. The moment Riddhima slackens the chains on her thoughts its ONLY and ONLY Armaan that occupies them, it is ONLY him that she is worried and concerned about. Like Sid pointed out her WHOLE BEING gets CONSUMED by Armaan. Nothing that anyone else does or says then makes a difference to her. Since the last 3 days Sid has been telling her to pay attention to him and stop thinking about Armaan but to NO EFFECT.

Compare this with her reaction to Sid. Riddhima had to consciously decide that she HAS to think about Sid, she HAS to give him time. That girl needs to be constantly reminded and constantly remind herself that Sid IS her "husband:, she HAS to give him time, she SHOULD NOT think about Armaan. 😆 What kind of marriage is this where the wife has to be constantly reminded that she is a "wife".??? Definitely NOT a healthy one. 😛

I think the last scene today was a perfect example of what effect both the men have on Riddhima.

Armaan is what is ingrained in her, he is what she NEVER has to make an effort to think about, Armaan is what comes naturally to Riddhima, he comes from her being, he comes from her instincts, HE COMES FROM HER HEART.

Sid is what she forces herself to think about, he is what she makes an EFFORT to think about, he is what Riddhima is fighting her natural instincts for, he comes from Riddhima's conscious decisions, HE COMES FROM HER MIND.

Once again the heart verses mind battle was played by Riddhima today.
From the looks of the precap mind won the battle for the time being BUT I'm confident that come what may HEART WILL WIN THE FINAL WAR. And we'll be all waiting to cheer when that happens. 👏😃

Till then lets sit back and enjoy this GREEN BASKET coz I for one absolutely ADORE her.😃

Pls reply

I agree.Sidhima's relation is a forced one where Armaan naturally comes in Ridhima.She is trying to do her duty as a wife.But......

Bang on Shruti ! 😃

i must say a very nice post

Originally posted by: armaanlover_7

I agree.Sidhima's relation is a forced one where Armaan naturally comes in Ridhima.She is trying to do her duty as a wife.But......

But....Ur whole life can't be a duty. One day or the other she will realize this fact and then she will hopefully listen to her heart. 😃

Originally posted by: basuvaishali

Bang on Shruti ! 😃

When her heart rules, its always Armaan and his thoughts that occupy her completely.

When she is jolted and reminded her of her marital status,her husband,she blocks her heart and all the emotions it holds and forces herself to think and say what she thinks is expected of her..Riddhima is a perfect example of how u shudnt be!!..honestly she has set an example,a proof to support the popular saying that says,'' whenever in dilemma of what to do in life,always follow your heart, it never misguides you !''

Waiting for the day when her heart will win over her mind..!! only that can put an end to the misery in the lives of all 4 characters in the show.

That quote is so true. Someone go and tell Riddhima this. 😛😉

Originally posted by: themaggie

i must say a very nice post

👏

Thanks 😃

shruti yeh ishq ka khumaar hai assaaani se nahe utar sakta

Originally posted by: sheenaluvskajen

shruti yeh ishq ka khumaar hai assaaani se nahe utar sakta

loved ur post

yeh sab voh kisse ko khush karne e liye kar rahe hai.......she a confused soul right now was back for moments n then gone back to her confused mode for some moments

she actually isnt considering whats SHE ACTUALLY wants

papa ne kaha toh yeh kardeya

sid ne kaha toh yeh kardeya

arre bhai riddhima tune kya kaha?? kabhi pucha apne aap se?? NEHE NAA !!!

toh ab puch lo

i cant say here BETTER LATE THAN NEVER but still keh he dete hun

jab Riddhima jaag jayege tab savera ho jayega

I completely agree with you. 😃

BTW I LOVE your emoticons. .........They are sooooo damn cute.
Where do u get them from. 😛

shruti i got it from sweetim