Feeling bad for everyone!

Ok i wanted to share this because i feel it should be said with all the bashing and hating going on:

I feel sorry for everyone!! The whole situation sucks... I don't know why everyone is bashing on everyone... I feel everyone is trying their best to their limits. They are human and aren't gonna be perfect! All of them have feelings and have been hurt.. their actions are some what justified. I mean Sid is doing his best trying to be a friend to Armaan, but who can blame him for being a bit insecure or jealous (whatever you want to call it) about ridz attention to Armaan. I feel he's rite in this position. Its easy to say that sid is being immature... but really I think he's being mature.. he wants to help his friend, but also doesnt want to lose his wife!!! His intentions are good, it mite not come across well but thats because he's a human and we arent very rational when mixed up with emotions!
Armaan he's in the same boat I feel, his situation sucks too just as much as sid's does. He cant move on, but he should and wants to for ridz. Sid said stuff to him that he needed to hear, because they are friends and Sid cares for Armaan too and wants Armaan to be happy (he feels that Armaan can move on like maybe how ridz has and sid himself has about Tamanna). Armaan said stuff to sid to make him get with ridz earlier. Whatever the case may be... it got him to stop street fighting which was hurting Armaan. Maybe again it wasnt the best way but when do we all choose the rite way to... in emotions we do the best we can and thats what sid did.
And Armaan situation just gets more complicated which in a way is his fault also. But more its just the sucky situation life has put him into. He now is going to act to like Shilpa for ridz sake, when we all know this happened before (remember the bet). Yesh we all know know he doesnt want to hurt shilpa, but sadly we all know he will. Again we cant blame him because his intentions are to help ridz and sid. Here Armaan is trying to help ridz and sid and in this helping he's about to hurt shilpa, there sid is trying to help Armaan and is unintentionally hurting Ridz and somewhat Shilpa.
Then we come to Ridz, the situation gets worse here because she wants to see Armaan move on like she somewhat has moved on, but she forgets its not that easy. Now she feels what Armaan did, i guess which in anyway hurts like hell. She obviously love Sid, but that doesnt mean she has forgotten Armaan or his love. Thats her 1st love and its usually never forgetable (in thats a word), but that doesnt mean people dont move on, people cant have happy lives... you learn to accept and move on in a new happy and joyful direction in life, which takes time and understanding. And her new direction is Sid (who to his best ability is very understanding and is doing a great job, but again we all have limits as we are human not God) and she so does want to, but nothing comes easy. She is no where to blame because she's trying to make the best of her situation that she is stuck in and trying to do the best and right thing. If she just lets Armaan suffer then thats messed up of her and if she ignores Sid (which i know many feel she is, but i think shes balancing the best she can)... we forget that shes not perfect!! So i really applaud her for her strength and courage and her love!!
Then comes poor Shilpa who has come in this big mess and keeps getting more caught in this web. This web of Armaan, Sid and Ridz. All she wanted was to get close to her sister, but there goes this thing called love... that comes in the oddest of all times and when u least want it. But its there and no matter how hard she tired not she fell for Armaan. I feel Sid isnt using Shilpa because he thinks Shilpa is a good person for his good friend ... And Armaan has no idea that Shilpa likes him because I feel if he knew he would not act to like/love her i guess for Ridz. Here Shilpa could probably help Armaan out and even maybe help him move on, by being her, but Ridz kinda scared her (just looking out for Armaan ... again good intentions) and Shilpa just wants her sister to like her.
So i feel bad for everyone and feel no ones wrong... this is what we call life and seriously I feel everyone is trying to do something good for someone/everyone and in this helping and sacrificing they just hurting themselves more than anyone else, but if they didnt then I would feel they are selfish, but here no one is selfish here. Everyone is trying to make everyone happy... and i think thats beautiful. Its bitter sweet however that is what life is about!!

p.s. I would love to hear your point of view, but please dont bash... there are toooo many groups and bashing... pick another topic to bash... but everyone is entitled to their pov and so am I, you dont need to agree, but no need to bash. I am open to other pov... but maturely please.. i would love to hear know what people think.