Originally posted by: Lennie
Hey Pocu
Havent you all noticed that something in Ridz is feeling so down, like something in her has broke alittle since friday, after what Armaan said to her, the whole vibe is gone off her - look at Ridz and see how she is Yes from where I see I feel she looks broken, just a little more than she has been ever since her birthday. But even before that, her married life was far from normal.
More guilt and she is hurting both ways
she is hurting herself and all her loved ones too and from where I see, she is aware but is not able to stop it. Pardon me please but it almost appears as if she needs psychiatrist.
Dont know what to say other then Ridz has confused alot of ppl that are confused with her already lol, which i dont kinda find her confusing at all esp if we try and judge as a whole person and how she has been, this is Ridz Modi not anyone else, she knows where she is at and who with but these like Sid says her mind is full focus on Armaan and she is rather not giving attention to where it needs to be her husband and also think of her other friends as well.
Her Armaan concern/worry/guilt/mother complex/jealousy is making others life difficult. Honestly, did she even realise, she was the one who had wholeheartedly committed to Sid about giving her marriage the best shot? Even when they did move into the penthouse, it was far from the best shot. I mean always making ur hubby run behind u.......seeking undue attention and in ur turn giving none...... was not really normal. Things have only moved from being bad to worse. And in cases where an individual realises her mistake but can't improve upon it even when they know its potential impact, then they definitely need expert help.
Jealousy so does not work here at all, in any of the angles
perhaps..though I am not sure.🥱
Imagine seeing your ex who just told you how you are the cause of him being like this two days ago, and then knowing that yoru husband had a chat with him and then seeing Armaan coming in with a girl all of a sudden, does not make sense esp to Ridz who says she knows Armaan well, and it does look like an unsettling route one minute this and the he is one minute like this lol
Now I don't know wot is unsettling here. Aren't we advised by our family/friends etc. to go out enjoy/ take a break/go to party after our low periods. I have no experience with break-ups but definitely I had my share of lows........ loss of my grand-ma and when I refused to come out of my shell, my Dad lectured me real bad and next day wot do i do? I go to a family friend's party and try to enjoy and eventually feel better......SO. Thats a common therapy many people adopt. If you smile long enough, your heart finds a reason to smile. Its not rocket science and I am sure they must have been taught this simple theory in medical college( one subject of psychiatry perhaps in a semester????)
Armaan never said she is his girlfriend. He introduced her as friend. Can't he have a friend? And he paid most attention to tht gal coz she was new in the crowd and dinn know anyone except Armaan!!
And thing Sid is not able to stand and pricking him is why everything and anything is relating back to Armaan this and Armaan that, even the party and why she is coming in the first place, everything Sid is seeing is Armaan from Ridz view and her talk
As for Sid, he is worried about Armaan too but Sid knows when to let go, and today he said Armaan is fine as of now judging by seeing him ok at the party, so he tells Ridz - pls concertrate on us for atleast few minutes, as her whole focus is shifted to Armaan lol
I can fully understand why Sid is feeling thus.
Now that Sid has opened up, he is i feel gonna have a hard time, keeping his emotions in check esp as his pain is increasing and Ridz indirectly is making Sid feel the things he knows he shouldnt feel which i think are going to seep in - jealousy, insecurity, anger and mor epain, coz Ridz is letting her concern overtake again, in way this new Armaan is giving her more reason to worry and concern about, coz something is not right as this is what Ridz is seeing and all of a sudden lol
Yes, But Armaan is NOW doing wot any normal person from break-up shud do and does. Going to party, trying to enjoy. And even if I was Ridz, I would feel "OK! So you were just 2 days back accusing me left and right . And yesterday my hubby had some mysterious talks with u and now u try to prove to me tht u are moving on with this lady in black, the long legged Shivani. I dont like her. She does not look good. she is not gud enuf for you. But wot the hell! Why shud I judge her, you are anyways doing this to prove to me that u are moving on. Atleast you are not hurting urself . Atleast You are not crying somewhere alone. I can see a smile on your face and that makes me feel, things are not as bad . Sure u accused me and I still feel guilty. But Armaan pls try and go to more social gatherings and this will help you. Now let me take care of Sid. He has already expressed his displeasure twice. Before he gets to batameez mode let me talk to him atleast. Sure I cant go all out and sing and dance with him. But atleast I can talk to him" *PHEW* So this is wot my monologue to myself would be if I were Ridz. This is how I would feel!
I like ArSh lift scene, the words and everything meant alot to what ArSh are and could be, i saw for the first time how well they fitted in, how well Armaan can be for Shilpa, who craves love and who is in such darkness, he held her and he didnt lose her, and then Shilpa kept his faith, believing in him, not losing herself
Also liked the ArSh scene in the party, i am glad Armaan himself noticed that another woman can be beautiful in red, lets hope he can see beyond her beauty and inside her one day and see how beautiful she is, you know it reminded me of what it said in Armaan's diary, where he says the most beautiful girl in the world, lets hope Shilpa will be it for Armaan
yes I loved how he checked her out
Is it me or Armaan is sub-conscious moving on, he hasnt realise it coz all his energy seems to go into what he is doing and when he talks to Shilpa and sees her, when Shilpa comes no one not even Ridz is in his view or mind
YES.........YES ........YES!!
For Armaan this quote
bingo----- loved this!!
For SR and ArSh
"Every great love starts with a great story..."
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