I'm surprised half the main characters don't need therapy.😆
In fact during the whole serial, only Deepa's family is normal. Well, it was normal...until now (her daddy has cancerðŸ˜).
I know there has been a lot of debate over TA's shifting attitude but that's how a person would act. As much as we want to believe that TA is this awesome, great, self sacrificing guy...he has his own beliefs and likes. In this case he likes Thuls, no, he loves Thuls. Even if such love means hurting Charu, he can't do anything about it. This holds true when he constantly goes after Thuls, even though she avoids him. He, in this case, is being honest with his feelings. The only negative would be his not telling Charu. Charu too, acts very similar to TA. She likes him and wants to marry him, despite what her parents want. She is being true to herself.
The only person not being true to their feelings is Thuls. She loves a guy, yet, she is prepared to let him go. Yes, in the long term it's self sacrificing and noble. But where does it leave her in the end? She will make her life miserable, TA's life miserable, and by extension possibly Charu's as well. And if Charu is miserable, her mother-in-law is miserable, her family is miserable and by extension Lav/Nitish's lives are miserable. Seeing Thuls suffer will make her Patti's life miserable, her dad's life miserable and Deepa/Kalyani's lives miserable and Pavithra's life miserable.
In fact the only people who will be the most happy will be her step-mom, step-brother and (again) by extension, Sudha.😃
It's just funny how every time Thuls and TA want to be all self sacrificing and noble, they always fail. So, putting this together with the fact that arranged marriages fail in this serial, TA and Thuls will probably unite!😛
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