Armaan is NOT interfering in anybody'S LIFE!

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Dear fellow IFians and DMGians...😳

I have gone thru so many posts where people are abusing Armaan left and right!

NOw, I am trying to be non-biased towards the main protagonist of DMG here..😳.but still some thoughts linger on to my mind..😃..some questions remain unanswered and so I am throwing this post at you.😃

This is not an AR topic..everyone is free to share their views.😳
But I also do not want this post to be the start of world war 3, 😃so I expect decency and non abusive comments here.😲 If you cannot do me this favour, I wud appreciate no comments at all and shall respect your views anyways..😳


Okay, so let me ask my questions:
If Armaan goes Street fighting, does that mean he wants ridhima to feel so called "guilty" and spoil her relation with her Hubby?...NOPE 😳...he always has wanted to go to the street fight WITHOUT RIdhima's knowledge.😳..HE wants RIDHIMA to STAY away from his choice of fighting. 😊ANd BTW, there are proffessionals who are into street fight in real life and their personal life is not jeopardized. 😃There are poeple who love boxing, karate, and games like these do exist in this world and there is no hoos and haas in the family of people who play these sports.😃 SO if Armaan, who used to play this sport before meeting RIdhima WANTS to get back into it, for watever reason.. why do people need to interfere and say..dont go street fighting..he aint a kid..he is mature enuf to handle his life.😳.its like for example..if KSG is going for KKK3, can his close ones blame Priyanka Chopra or anyone else for his decision?? NOPE>.its his life..its his choice..😉.
SO if Armaan goes and does street fighting, why care and blame him that becoz of his actions, somebody is feeling guilty..😕

Okay, now lets talk about this somebody feeling "Guilty"!
According to some fans here, RIdhima has moved on..considers Armaan to be just a "Friend" and feels guilty if he goes street fighting...😕
If i try to analyze this sanely, i find this reason absolutely foolish.😃 If she just considers him as a friend, then act like one..🥱
If you are married, you cannot give KASAMs to your Ex for not fighting.....wat does that mean?.."Armaan, I feel guilty if you fight so tumhe kasam hai meri..dont fight:...and then her hubby comes and gives armaan a so called reality check that RIdhima aint moving ahead with him coz she cries and feels guilty about Armaan street fighting.😲....I think SId needs to go give his piece of advice to Wifey.😃.."you have LOST the right to be so CONCERNED of Armaan becoz he is just A FRIEND of yours..and now, you are in LOVE with me...NOT with him...so DONT feel guilty.."😳

Cant Sid see RIdhima's mistakes.😲..all he sees is that Armaan is at fault😕. If he believes that his wife is now totally moving on with him, trust her more and tell your issues to her. Tell her that you cannot see your present being spoilt. 🥱Isnt that the base of a strong marriage..where the husband and wife sort things between themselves ratehr tahn blaming others.🥱 Or is it the nature of the MODIS to blame others..be it Ridzy blaming SHilpa or Sid blaming Armaan..😃

And now, I come back to armaan being blamed by SId that RIdhima is guilty😲...
Well Sid, she is not guilty. 😳Its her love buried deep inside that still craves for Armaan's safety.😃 Becoz if those tears were for being guilty, she doesnt need to be so.🥱..coz Armaan never even wanted her to know that he is going to street fighting.😃 He cud have easily won that match if it were not your kasam.😲 ANd he opened his mouth just becoz you were accusing shilpa for his state. 🥱And wen Armaan said that its becoz of you that he suffered, it was not to make you feel guilty.😃 It was to clarify that no girl is important for him. and did you notice he said..."mere liye sirf tum important THI"..he tells that becoz today, he is aware that you are married😲..and you plan to move on...so why feel guilty wen he is in a boxing ring after knowing that you are gone..😳.I agree that he is still struggling to eradicate the strongest feeling he had for a girl..and that girl was you ridhima. 😳..but you do not feel the same for him right? SO why cry? why shout or accuse Shilpa..and why show your right to a girl that NOBODY knows Armaan more than you??Is this all becoz you feel guilty.🥱..or is it something else???😳

Cud it be just becoz you regret not waiting for your Armaaan? Is it the guilt of getting married to Sid? Is it the guilt to see your ARmaan with another girl? Or is it the guilt that Armaan, who had cahnged so much for you, is now goiing to his original "hobbies"? Or is it the guilt that you are not able to move on clearly with your husband becoz you still linger on to your feelings for armaan?
By the way, if your answer to all the above is yes, then Ridzy sweety..thats not called guilt...its called love.😳

Hmm....i know this post sounds very controversial😛...but trust me...all DMGians can still discuss here without bashing. 😉I request everyone to maintain the decency, where all of us can AGREE to DISAGREE..😳

Coz firstly, we all are DMG lovers, arent we??😳

Love,
Pri
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Actually armaan is centre of life of every characte SID-RIDZ-SHILPA-JP,,,,,,So whatever he is doing everyone affected & so actually this all characters are interfering in armaan's life

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Posted: 14 years ago
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he isn't interfering but being cruel or vindictive.. but it's true - your life is connected to the lives of others. Your actions carry consequences or benefits for those who surround and support you.

I understand the hurt and even the immaturity (he fights b/c he knows it will get Rid attention) - but there needs to be a stop. Only then can he be happy.

PS - I think it is Ridhimma who needs the next reality check - she has to soooooooo butt out!!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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👏 👏 👏 👏 ..ausum post yaar..wht wonderful writers we have in this forum..!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: RaatkiRani

he isn't interfering but being cruel or vindictive.. but it's true - your life is connected to the lives of others. Your actions carry consequences or benefits for those who surround and support you.

I understand the hurt and even the immaturity (he fights b/c he knows it will get Rid attention) - but there needs to be a stop. Only then can he be happy.

PS - I think it is Ridhimma who needs the next reality check - she has to soooooooo butt out!!!

excuse me how armaan lyf is connected 🤔😆😆 he wanted to have a stret fight thats it n about connected i would like to tell wen sid asked ridzs to become amm's wife 🤢 for his mummji that is called connected where bcoz of his stupidity armaan's lyf was badly destroyed n some of ridzs lyf too 😃
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Posted: 14 years ago
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👏 👏 BRILLIANT POST !!
Theres nothing more I can say then what you did.I totally agree !! people think Armaan has no life and no heart thats why they keep hurting him no matter what .Everyone is concerned of how Armaan affects their life ,have they ever thought how Armaans life is affected by them.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ankita.M

👏 👏 BRILLIANT POST !!

Theres nothing more I can say then what you did.I totally agree !! people think Armaan has no life and no heart thats why they keep hurting him no matter what .Everyone is concerned of how Armaan affects their life ,have they ever thought how Armaans life is affected by them.



Cent percent agree !!! Many people can say that they dnt ever be like Armaan in real situations .. But I really want to knw who act like that .. like nothing is going wrong in their lives ....


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: RaatkiRani

he isn't interfering but being cruel or vindictive.. but it's true - your life is connected to the lives of others. Your actions carry consequences or benefits for those who surround and support you.

I understand the hurt and even the immaturity (he fights b/c he knows it will get Rid attention) - but there needs to be a stop. Only then can he be happy.

PS - I think it is Ridhimma who needs the next reality check - she has to soooooooo butt out!!!



thanks for sharing your views sweety...and about getting Ridhima's attention..No dear, he never wants RIdhima to even know that he is going on a street fight...so he does not do that for her attention. He surely needs to try being happy, i gree with you on that...but there does come a stage in your life that watever you think, watever you do cannot make you feel Happy..and i clearly can see that Armaan is not ready to move on...is it necessary taht if RIdhima is ready to move on, so should Armaan?? Cant his love take more longer to fade away than hers?? Its not a contract that can be called off at a click of a button..it was love, and he cannot forget her so soon..but he surely makes it a point of not letting ANYBODY know that he is going on a street fight...its always been a co-incidence that SHilpa or RIdhima have ended up knowing of his fight..so actually he is wanting to be left ALONE...coz he is lonely...

sorry, for the biiig bhashan ...
Edited by IloveARLove - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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awesome post yar 👍🏼👏❤️

U r right!!!😉 maybe ridz think that shez feeling guilty but its her love that she accused Shilpa again and again and awl tat wat she did!

BTW i loved the way Ammy answered that lady k har baat pe Shilpa ko blame mat karo!👍🏼


These Modis have a habit to do that!!!😆

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All i want to say is Thank you so much for this awesome post.

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