Aham under his tuff exterior and kokila control

is a emotional guy, he has built this wall around him to cover up his pain, hurt whatever. Kokila did not allow him to be a kid to enjoy his life, she groomed him to be a business man and to take over a empire which her husband did not have. Kokila is living her dream through her son. As much as i love kokila i find she is not giving freedom to her child she has kept them under a tight leash and one day that leash will be so tight that it will cause them to stop breathing..
Aham mother overrules him, she is the only person he listens to and this is where the bigger issues lies. There will be a explosion sooner or later and when it happens kokila wont know wht hit her.
We know Gopi she loves kokila like her own mother,(she also loves Aham with all her heart) but if and when Aham and Gopi do get together what will happen as they have a third person in their marriage who will tell them what and when to do, (including SR) and children etc.😆 They will respect kokila not hurt her in anyway but kokila also needs to let go..

This is great analysis of Aham and his relationship with his mother. I totally agree he has kept it all in since he was a child and has built an impenetrable wall around himself and his heart. That is why he has separated himself from the other family members. We don't see him having fun, making jokes, or relaxing or interacting with anyone! Everyone in the family walks on eggshells around him including Koki! He is probably very frustrated and Gopi is an easy target. That is not an excuse to abuse her but it explains a lot.

He is like a volcano under that stony exterior. And it is going to erupt!! Can't wait..it should be exciting if they do it correctly.

hmm yup you are very much right but kya karen she loves his son a lot that she thinks only she have a right to think about him as only she can fulfill his needs and knows him better