Poor Natasha!

@honeydew.

there is one thing i am convinced about these tv shows now...

whatever main leads do is accepted cos, they garner a place and love from their fans....as far as i remember Shantanu and Natasha did share a perfect relationship... before khanak entered...no one likes entertaining another person in their personal space, especially when you know your own position could be threatened... thats basic human tendency.... Khanak was forced by circumstances to marry shantanu... but i would have respected her a little more... if she had kept her distance...and marriage, doesnt give you a license to do whatever you want... just cos you are legally bound together... that means... human relations and emotions are created by society and not by the heart... i kinda dont agree to that...
leave the fact aside that khanak is a bechari...or from a village and the fact that... they are the leads of the show ( i know its hard.. but still ...) wouldnt u hate a woman who walked into your life, by force, took away the man you loved, your comfort zone... all with no fault of yours or hers....!!
yes .. when you two people live under the same roof, are of the opposite sex,attraction happens.. its natural human instinct... what i have a problem with... is the way shantanu has moved on.. he look no more than a casanova to me.. with a weak hard... kal natasha pasand thi.. to aaj khanak... the transition should have been smoother.. esp before that gaana... they should have shown scenes where the guy was fighting with himself.. tehre was no ounce of guilt.... from his side.. that he had promised a girl, that he would come back to her in six months.. but now is happy with another... if he were a sensitive person at heart... he would have thought about natasha as well.. but he didnt.. and thats somthing that i have issues with... if you wanna know shantanu is not an out and out positive guy... i am ready to buy this.. but the moments between them and the romance between them shouldnt be the only reason why he should fall in love with her.. atleast not this time around... what diff would there then be between a natasha and a khanak? tomorrow he will find someone else .. he will move on again? with the way his character has shaped up... i dont see any reason why... he may not sway with the wind once more.....

love,
niha

Originally posted by: sshriyaa84

@honeydew.

I can understand ur feelings for natasha.yes.,she did not do anything to deserve it

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Reg shantanu he owes his very existence to khanak.

It was she who saved him from the brink of death

Temperament wise he is a fun loving young man and natasha is too serious for him.Yes agreed he loved her in the beginning but now he finds that he is into discovering the other side of his persoanlity namely the caring and unselfish side along with the humour that was hidden so far

.And the best thing is he seems to like that change in him a lot.T

hat is why right now he is not into natashabecause natasha's absence from his life does not seem to have any impact on his emotions.And above all he subconsciously is too much aware of the fact that he is married to khanak.

Tthough we all claim that love is only once and all that.,it is applicable only for soulmates.Once if u have ur soulmate then no more looking back.,but till then the monkey mind humans have it will change and there is nothing wrong in that.,as long as he/she does not cheat him/her after having physical intimacy and all that. This is my view only.

As for shaatanu khanak appears to be his soulmate.so he connects with her readily.It is defintely not an infatuation at all.His soul sort of connects with her.

coming to khanak:

yes she is a village girl.,but the very fact that shantanu is her husband makes or draws her close to him.U know village girls more than any one value husbandsmore than their life..She is comfortable with him like any other married girl.

And what do u expect her to do for natasha?she is doing her best., pushing her husband to her.It is entirely in shantanu;s hands to accept natasha or not even though khanak pushes hard.And do u expect her to give up all emotions and lead a saintly life.Why should she?

We place in our country husband/wife relationship on the top most pedestal

.Infact i feel natasha lost her dignity by moving into shaan's house as a girlfriend when his wife was there.She could ahve waited for six months.she did not

.Indirecly her overprotectiveness of shasn landed herslef in the situation she always sort of dominated in the relationship and never made shaan realise his mistakes and grow up as a man.

Above all shantanu and khanak are destined to be together.,andin my personal vew iwe as humans however hard we try can never change destiny. especially in matters of heart.If shaan says to natasha he no mor eloves her thene she has to take it and move on.

I k now it would be too hard for her but still she has to do it.,becaue love cannot be compelled.

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reg.,precap the main scene is yet to come so i cannot comment on that.hoewever he himself had admitted earlier that it is for the first time he has the feelings like that.which means the earlier love with natasha was an infatuation.So if he declares his love khanak now what is the big dea

l.e

It is shantanu's life whether he wants khanak his wife or natasha is purely for him to decide.Just because natasha loved him for long she cannot stop him from loving khanak.And more than anything they are hubby/wife whatever be the reason behind marriage.A marriage is amarriage and the bond is not that easy to break or give up.

I have written my mind only .no offence meant. to anyone.

Hi Neha....Are you new to the forum?.....If not sorry, I forget easily😃.....

@honey dew.

hey!! i watch the show too.. just that, i dont get pushed enough to come and comment on it ... i have commented only once in a while... but i have been pretty active on other forums so i know what it is to like a jodi on screen... and tehre is no particular reason why you like them....
as a viewer who has watched the show from day one, i kinda found his attitude towards natasha a little insensitive.. and his moving a tad bit too fast....
yes natasha is the good/proper girl stuck in between two fun loving people.. but thats not really her fault... i just feel they should have transitioned the whole thinking and realisation process for a longer time...anyway.. i am pretty convinced after todays episode.. and i hope they take it slow....

Originally posted by: missfilmy

<font color="#cc0000">@ Honeydew: I do agree with some of your thoughts. You are absolutely right. We love the lead pair so we want them together.

Its not that we were fan of Shaan and Khanak from the beginning so we want them together, it is the way the story moved on. We really love to see Shaan and Khanak together and we feel that they did share a very good chemistry.

I know love is more important than marriage and Shaan cannot ignore Natasha like this. The creatives really need to show Shaan feeling bad about Natasha.


Shaan is not a perfect guy. But Natasha is always good. You can't expect all boys to be very very good. There are "Burthals" as Shaan in the world. Whatever Shaan is doing is natural for his character.

If you check RBO from the beginning you will find Shaan as a naughty boy and Khanak as a naughty girl, none of them are perfect. But Natasha is a good girl. Love doesn't happen with good girls or boys it happens with your soul mate. And I feel Shaan is not fit for Natasha, he is more fit for Khanak as according to me she is also a "Burthal", she is also not perfect.

As you said Khanak being a village girl is coming very close to Shaan. Its not because she is his wife but she is very very childish as Shaan. If you remember the scene where Shaan fell from the camel and Khanak was laughing or they were fighting for buying the same bangles. Khanak was married at that time and she was not behaving like a married village girl.

So you are right, Shaan and Khanak are not doing the right thing but they are actually made for each other, both "not perfect" as Natasha.</font>

<font color="#cc0000">Natasha deserves someone better😃</font>

i think shaan was pretty mean to khanak in the initial days of their marriage. he has never been insensitive to natasha. in fact, he insulted khanak on numerous occasions just to please natasha at that time. natasha is a good girl but she never asked shaan to be polite to khanak. in fact, they both used to make fun of her and natasha used to get really mad if shaan as much as spoke to khanak nicely. so i guess, we all have our way of looking at things😊after today's episode, i hope that you don't still think that khanak is selfish. shaan, yes, perhaps. but definitely not khanak😊

Originally posted by: -honeydew-

hey!! i watch the show too.. just that, i dont get pushed enough to come and comment on it ... i have commented only once in a while... but i have been pretty active on other forums so i know what it is to like a jodi on screen... and tehre is no particular reason why you like them....
as a viewer who has watched the show from day one, i kinda found his attitude towards natasha a little insensitive.. and his moving a tad bit too fast....
yes natasha is the good/proper girl stuck in between two fun loving people.. but thats not really her fault... i just feel they should have transitioned the whole thinking and realisation process for a longer time...anyway.. i am pretty convinced after todays episode.. and i hope they take it slow....

i absolutely love shaan and khanak together, but i do realize that he is being an absolute jerk to natasha....he should just go up to her and tell her that he is not in love with her anymore, but is in love with khanak now....tht would be the right thing to do