What can Kesar do?? - a realistic approach plz!

Posted: 15 years ago
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There was mention about Kesar not fighting back for her rights and getting beaten / humiliated from every1. She is reduced to punching bag for all.
My concern was - wht is kesar to do??
If she revolts back she has no one to support her, her maika people are least bothered, she has a husband like shakti and married into an animal kingdom.
If she is surviving this long with the animals because she keeps quite.😒 Sadly but this is the truth!
Shakti nor his family will think twice to burn her alive if she even tries to go against them. She is not allowed to go out of the house to seek for police help morever even police are in SS pockets!
So wht is Kesar suppose to do?😒
her only option would be to win shakti's confidence and seek his protection but can a guy like shakti ever earn to value a woman!😕
your thoughts - please

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Posted: 15 years ago
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shaki is an idiot ....he hates his wife because she is dark .....but he can sleep with her n get her pregnant
it kesar has a light skin child...may be shakti will start treating her little better....just a little
but her only hope is her family....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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shakti can never love kesar.................did ss start lovin amma after so many years...............no never..................
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Posted: 15 years ago
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so true--she must get sum support frm her fam only then she can get a stand of her own--am sure prats will get her fam into pic sumtime or the other, wid krishs help---but the girl is really innocent and she also never lies--i hope she doesnt own up to her part in letting prats escape--she will be butchered!! this amma is also one big spy dog and shakti is such a donkey------he actually forgot were he kept the keys-- 🤣 🤣 hope kesar doesnt get nervous and open her mouth 😭
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: gees

so true--she must get sum support frm her fam only then she can get a stand of her own--am sure prats will get her fam into pic sumtime or the other, wid krishs help---but the girl is really innocent and she also never lies--i hope she doesnt own up to her part in letting prats escape--she will be butchered!! this amma is also one big spy dog and shakti is such a donkey------he actually forgot were he kept the keys-- 🤣 🤣 hope kesar doesnt get nervous and open her mouth 😭




@gees did u c pic of katra naresh that i posted........................ 🤣
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: nisha2010




@gees did u c pic of katra naresh that i posted........................ 🤣

----------------------------------------------------------------------------yes yes nisha i did and posted my comment on it----i dont think u checked it out---------it was mind blowingly hilarious--u got a gr8 sense of humour --fun to have u around--lub u 😃
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: gees

----------------------------------------------------------------------------yes yes nisha i did and posted my comment on it----i dont think u checked it out---------it was mind blowingly hilarious--u got a gr8 sense of humour --fun to have u around--lub u 😃



awwwww i missed it...........i'll go bk and chk it out...........................its fun to b wid all u frnds................ 🤗
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Kesar's only hope is Kesar herself.
If she can't find it even herself to fight back or resist or do something then she never will. She is in her own system which works for her, and dare I say it, is happy with her lot in life.
Sad but true, a lot of abused partners bury their head and prefer to just let it slide. It is usually people who have been systematically abused for a long time - we don't know her home life but she is quite, soft spoke and patient and biddable, so maybe her maika was like that - that they start to fear the unknown i.e. leaving the abuser or upsetting anything that brings changes into their life. They cling to what they know rather than face the unknown. In this case Kesar has no support at all either from her maika or her sasural (and no Prats can't do anything for her if she is not willing to change).
I only hope if she does give birth, then she decides to act for the future of her child - a brigher and more postive one than she herself had.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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wat abt a simple plain kick..........everytime kn comes near her she shd kick him................ 🤣 🤣 🤣
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

Kesar's only hope is Kesar herself.

If she can't find it even herself to fight back or resist or do something then she never will. She is in her own system which works for her, and dare I say it, is happy with her lot in life.
Sad but true, a lot of abused partners bury their head and prefer to just let it slide. It is usually people who have been systematically abused for a long time - we don't know her home life but she is quite, soft spoke and patient and biddable, so maybe her maika was like that - that they start to fear the unknown i.e. leaving the abuser or upsetting anything that brings changes into their life. They cling to what they know rather than face the unknown. In this case Kesar has no support at all either from her maika or her sasural (and no Prats can't do anything for her if she is not willing to change).
I only hope if she does give birth, then she decides to act for the future of her child - a brigher and more postive one than she herself had.



Imagine her the mother of a little girl, what kind of a role model will she be when the child watches her being abused by her father who behaves like a 🐷. Krishna is the only one who treats her with any love at all. Amma being a abused woman gets pleasure from seeing other women in the same boat as her. She was thrilled Krishna slapped Prats at the havan. She will be a bad role model for the baby girl too.

Krishna once told her she should go to her maike for the way KN treated her if Prats could leave for just one slap from him. Hope Krishna can help her get away to have her baby. Recently Prats said the time to deliver the baby was coming soon. Let's see what they do about it for Kesar's sake.

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