Originally posted by: solembaum
I think I posted in multiple posts yesterday regarding this topic and I would say the same again here.... I wouldn't say Riddhima was completely wrong... but it definitely shows riddhima in an extremely poor light that in spite of all the experiences that she has gone through in life, she still found it necessary to talk abt someone's upbringing!!! My team member behaved inappropriately in office, I will definitely scold him/her... But I would definitely not ask him abt his upbringing or cast aspersions on that and as far as I know at least in my work place people who take a professional issue and make it a personal one are not respected that much and it just takes away the point that they are trying to make while the other person will completely focus on the personal hurt/insult as the case may be! Shilpa deserved a dressing down, but a professional one.. Riddhima had no call to bring her upbringing there and it doesn't reflect well on Riddhima... someone said abt Dr.Kirti!! She would definitely have roasted her for doing what she did... but Dr.Kirti in all the 3 years of the show never got personal or questioned anybody's upbringing although she was really really strict and even harsh at times with them.... Now that is being professional... and dedicated.... But RM did not seem that way to me.... and this is not the only time she did it either.... she has consistently done this.... I was with her till the part where she brought in the family! Irrespective of whether shilpa has a family or not or whether she has a heart breaking story or not RM had no business bringing in the family there.... But... having said all that, yeah it is the CVs building up for all the drama and the characters are just doing what is written for them!! But then that way you cannot say anything abt any character on the show because they are all just doing what is being asked of them... so that way no character should be bashed or questioned !! But unfortunately discussions never remains discussions here... it always deteriorates to bashing and some people from both sides specialize in that!!!
Yeh it is a shame, and i'm relatively new to the show in that it's only now that i'm following it from the episodes dating back to Jennifer's entry in 2009 and i have to say i love the show. It has a great mix of characters, romance, comedy and story suspense.
And i love all the actors that seem to be doing such a great job, but i'm astounded at the amount bashing and negativity that's going on.
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