A question for all of us???

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hey guys ,I have been thinking about the last weeks episode & I felt that we all are missing the main point. We had seen milli almost raped by nakul.She was devastated & traumatized by that event.Abhi stood by her giving her emotional support to overcome that. We saw milli with the help of abhi,her family & ngo was able to put nakul behind bars.

But what is milli doing now?? Instead of being Great full to Abhi ,she herself is emotionally raping abhi.She is forcing her love on him, even though knowing that abhi loves simi & is married to her.Abhi is disgusted & scared of milli's behavior.

We all know that when a person is raped, they not only have physical scars but are scared emotionally too.In matter of days the physical scars disappear but emotional scars never disappear .Milli is giving abhi emotional which will never heal.

Does anybody think here that abhi will be same again like before??No ways he is never going to be playfull & bindass.He will think twice before he helps someone. He is not going to be comfortable with female friends,all thanks to this crazy milli.

Milli who underwent such truma is herself traumatizing others. She is not only emotionally raping abhi but also raping her relationship with her simi di,the morals & values that her parents had installed in her upbringing.

We in society can punish a a person who physically forces himself on others.but what about the people who under go this type of emotional torture as abhi is going through.Is there no laws for such torture?How can they get justice & how will the guilty get punished by the law.

Can you Mr.Neil Bhatt being a lawyer can enlighten us on this issue?Iwould like to have all of our kbains view on this issue.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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i agree with you. poor abhi will never be as bindaas and chilled out as before. hes so scared and hurt. i just hope that the entire situation strengthens the relationship between abhi and simi. even though milli has been through a lot she should understand abhi only loves simi. i never thought she would be so cheap and mean. i have a feeling that the creatives of kb are planning something big. hopefully this track ends soon.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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you are so right sauris this incident of Mili is going to have a permanent scar on Abhi. He will not be the same again. There will always be a certain amount of reserve when he is dealing with other girls. The trauma of Abhi cannot be seen by everyone. All the time he is making other people smile, uska dukh to sirf simi hi samajh sakti hain. I only want him to share everything with simi. If in order to save simi from more sadness he does not tell simi about mili's blackmail it will create more problems only.
the only positive thing i see from this mili angle is if Simi comes out in full support of Abhi, their relationship is strenghtened and their love for each other only deepens. Abhi will heal with simis love and support par waqt lagega. Thinking about this this is a big emotional trauma on simi too. The only sister who truly cared for her has become her worst enemy.
i seriously have no clue what the heck is going on. Cv's are confusing us more with this dowry angle. I wish they would show us some promos so we can have a clue as to what they r up to.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Sauris....good post
Kalabhi ...too good.
I was thinking about this because he is so terrified by her behaviour, he smiles when he is with Simi as he was gifting her. But the fear when he woke up after that nightmare, he was in sweats and the way his hands were shivering and his mouth all gone dry showed the amount of tension he had.
The way he had previously said he will explain to Mili his own way but just was panicking when he learnt the truth. He was totally shattered when his uncleji whom he adores had to bring up the issue, the way he said...I swear Simi, I dont even know, what behaviour of mine made her feel this way......., the way he told Simi ...We cant handle this at all...., all showed his inability to cope up with this utter shock.
He has treated her like a best friend all the time because she has helped them in the past, he felt guilty that he could have averted the mishap that happened to her. He already had told Simi that he is trying to overcome that guilt. he may not be expecting this in his wildest imagination. His fear was brought out in his dream when he is sighing in despair the way Mili asks him so what if he is her"jeeja" and his main fear seems to be what if even his uncleji will come to think of him.
The way he is not even able to smile while Mili is ready to leave home all goes to show he is terrified beyond words about the blackmail Mili is meting out to him. He despises her at this moment which is evident the way he throws the necklace over her by turning his head away and closing his eyes too.
He is terrified by her behaviour at the same time he has been bestowed with the responsibilty to save Mili from some untoward incident.
Poor guy. He should have told Simi about the discussion he had with Papaji and what Mili is asking him to do.
Neil's performance was absolutely mindblowing. Looked like with one nightmare, Abhi has developed dark circles under his eyes. Abhi and Simi require an outing where the rest of the world should not be existing around them.
Lets hope Simi supports him all through and does not revert back to the "betaal" style of "Vikram aur Betaal"
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Abhi is not going to trust any one now or get closer to any other woman now But then it is best for him no more hurt from others.
It will be sad though that deserving woman will not be helped by him.
Yup he is heart broken. Poor guy thought he is helping a friend in distress and mili is taking advantage
She is emotionally raping him actually forcing him to do what he does not want to do Mili deserves a punishment big time.
I am just afraid to think what else she will make him do.
I hope abhi tells simi how mili is torturing him.
I hope they end this now with mili asking for apology from every one especially from abhi and Simi.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Milli wasn't acutally raped. It was attempted rape & I understand assault would still have been hard for her. But she had already gone thru the sad phase & when they put Nakul in jail, she was happy & seemed to have overcome her depression. This track is just lack of creativitiy on the shows part. Trying to get TRPs? Abhi should have known his place from the start as to how he should behave with his wife's sister. He was too friendly with her, he brought this on himself. But Milli is no saint either. She actually knows she's wrong to have such feelings for Abhi but she still behaves this way. Maybe she's been taken over by a bad soul & the next track in KB will be of black magic, ghosts, witches etc.....lol! Abhi/Simi need to move out of KB, Abhi is only here because Manju asked him to stay in return for Anuj. But Abhi/Simi are married grown-ups and they need to think what's best for them. They should move out & live on their own, they can afford to so why not?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: asiaheart

Milli wasn't acutally raped. It was attempted rape & I understand assault would still have been hard for her. But she had already gone thru the sad phase & when they put Nakul in jail, she was happy & seemed to have overcome her depression. This track is just lack of creativitiy on the shows part. Trying to get TRPs? Abhi should have known his place from the start as to how he should behave with his wife's sister. He was too friendly with her, he brought this on himself. But Milli is no saint either. She actually knows she's wrong to have such feelings for Abhi but she still behaves this way. Maybe she's been taken over by a bad soul & the next track in KB will be of black magic, ghosts, witches etc.....lol! Abhi/Simi need to move out of KB, Abhi is only here because Manju asked him to stay in return for Anuj. But Abhi/Simi are married grown-ups and they need to think what's best for them. They should move out & live on their own, they can afford to so why not?

oh god is this what we will be left with, black magic, crap etc. What a lame excuse for milis behavior . When did a ghost take over mili i wonder, when she was running in the jungle away from nakul. It did take a long time to posess her.🤢 The fact of the matter is there is no excuse for mili's behavior. The cv's wanted to change her character and they did so. They will also not justify all they will say is "love is blind". but I would say love is not only blind it has become selfish, menacing, harassing. loathing and fearful and disgusting. My dear Cv's to love is not to posess, it is to give. If mili really loves Abhi, as she claims she does, she needs to shut up her stupid mouth and get out of Simbhis life for ever.😡😡😡
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I agree, with this track, not only are tha CV's ruining Mili's character, they are ruining the character of the fun loving Abhi😭
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Sauris.: great thought.
Asiaheart: I agree totally with you. All this thing is lack of creativity. In the very beginning I had thought maybe the whole serial is abt how Abhi and Simi manage to get married atlast. But they got married soon enough in the start and now we are left with this in the name of taking the serial forward.
Mili was shown as being very mature and a very loyal sister. I am not saying she cannot have feelings for Abhi, but she can definitely curb her emotions. What she is currently doing is not in line with her characterisation. A beautiful bond between the sisters has been abused. A bond between jiju and sali has been abused.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Totally agree to what Sauris has mentioned in the post.....Abhi surely is undergoing a lot of stress and is emotionally being blackmailed by Mili.......he is desperate to get rid of Mili's stupid and crazy advances towards him...And his desperation is evident by the fact that he has agreed to pay the Dowry amount to vishal's parents against his rules; the act which he would not have done had the circumstances been normal.......
Now as far as his emotional blackmail by mili goes only Simi can avert Abhi from further mental tortures by taking a storng stand and decide to leave Karol Bagh and try find a new home away from her Maayka and her Sasuraal.....by this she can support both her husband as well as her family by staying away from both Matarani and the crazy Mili......

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