Strained relationships...?

Originally posted by: Vrisha

Jayesh - if my guess about the slum girl is right, he has an attitude problem: he's not exactly a high roller. He's up to his neck in debt. If otoh he's just being greedy, then he's just being an average lowlife.

LMAO! I love you how said he has an attitute problem. I mean, I guess he's taking all that loan to help run his house, but honestly agar itna hi financial crisis hai toh why doesn't he talk to Savita about it and both of them figure out some less expensive living condition? Or is he of the thinking k a man provides for the house and a woman works - and the two cannot mix? If so, then attitute problem k saath saath he's also a chauvinist! *hmph*

Aditya's condescending attitude towards Jayesh was uncalled for, but as far as Sakshi goes, remember - she was an s/w engineer, and quit her job on her own to take care of her kids. Now she wants to run a daycare. Aditya may not be to thrilled by that sort of a career path on her part - it's one thing for her to quit and look after her kids, but another for her to do something that pays a lot less than what she used to earn. And if, as the description goes, he's very goals focussed and success driven, I can see where he's coming from. Particularly since in many marriages, a lot of wives would put a lower threshold on what their hubbies can earn, and refuse to put up w/ a standard of living that falls any lower. So can't say I fault Aditya.

Oh, I guess that could make sense. That Aditya doesn't want Sakshi going for a lower paying job when she could very well get a higher paying, respectable one. But I wonder why he didn't understand that she was doing that to keep her father's home working and inviting. I mean it wasn't for the money obviously because she's never complained of her financial situation with Aditya. Toh why wouldn't he take a moment to consider k maybe her need to open a day care has more to do with the place it's being opened in than the cash it would bring in? For someone in a love marriage, I found that to be something that showed how ignorant he was towards his wife.

Rohit - this dude lacks cajunes. Why can't he shamelessly ask for something he expects his wife & mom to? Let him tell them that he wants the entire property, for whatever reason, and let's see their reaction. And I'm mad @ Shradhya as well - given the threat she got from her FIL on not to return, she knows that her marriage is all but over, so why not fess up to her 2 tai-jis on what's really going on, so that they can help her out of this? I know this serial is new, but hate it being dragged.

Bwwaahahahaha! You're right! Rohit really is a whimp! I mean open your own mouth and assert your self damn it! You want it? You ask for it! He's been damkao-fying both his mother and his wife and that is just so cowardly! About Shradha not telling her Tayis anything - I don't think Shradha thinks she CAN get out of this relationship. She can get pissed and work around it but she can't really step away from it. SO even though she's asserting herself and telling him she won't do it - and NOT apologizing for that - she is still not going to go ahead and try to end this relationship entirely. Once the issue ends, she'll just go home and put up with his nonsense until the next issue arises where she'll put her foot down and then deal with whatever moronic "punishment" he comes up with - like this time it was that she couldn't return to the house. At least that's what I feel.. 🤔

Mohan - as I speculated in the update thread - was unhappy @ the end since Shreya is now going to be @ her maayka w/ her sisters, meaning his Mumbai trip w/ her, and she's not w/ him. I have an ugly feeling about this - I think sooner or later, he'll snap and just cheat on her, and when discovered, he'll tell both Shreya & his parents that due to all this joint family pressures, he never gets time w/ Shreya, and since she doesn't care about his feelings, he decided to go w/ someone who does. Before that happens, I'd be much more comfortable if Mohan tells his family his problem w/ them, and reminds Shreya that she's his wife first, and his family bahu after. I expect some reciprocation from Shreya

Wait.. Mohan was unhappy? When? I didn't see him look unhappy - in fact if anything, I thought Mohan was the only one that didn't have an issue with how the things were progressing? *confused muh*

And I don't think Shreya's not giving him time - I think both him and her are not being able to give time to each other. When she's at home he's at work - when he gets back, so do the rest of the men from the family and then it's cooking and cleaning and feeding and serving. I don't think he holds their lack of intimate moments against her - she might not show it, but I feel she's just as frustrated as him and he knows it. Now, if he goes ahead and does something stupid like have an affair, then it doesn't even matter whether she was ignoring him to begin with or if she was just as frustrated as him. He'll be at fault regardless. If you get married, you put up with it. There is no clause in marraige that says if I don't get enough at home, I have a right to look elsewhere.. *annoyed muh* Sorry.. I hate cheaters!

Yuvi - I just hope Neeraj leaves that place. I know he was shocked, but he missed a great opportunity by passing over Sandhya's offer to him to accompany them, which was a bizarre request in & of itself. But had he taken it, he could have told the other sisters what's going on, and discuss how to extract Sandhya out of there, and offer to re-marry her, maybe less ceremonially - just a marriage registration. I expect the Needhya jodi, if it happens to take a while, but I'd rather it happened sooner rather than later. Incidentally, I'm feeling rather bad for Yuvi - I wanted to support his jodi w/ Sandhya, but after seeing him the last couple of episodes, my view on him is turning negative.

I don't think Neeraj has even thought that far - he hasn't gotten into the protective/defensive phase yet. He's still in his "I love this family and I am SHOCKED!" phase. So he could not say yes to Sandhya's offer yet (I didn't find her offer that odd, especially when she wanted him to meet with everyone else - I thought she was just trying to mend their "gap" in her own innocent and somewhat silly way); he has to be pushed beyond a limit to get enraged enough to decide that he's had enough and so has she. Abhi toh everything is so fresh, so new that he's still trying to find a simple solution out of it without hurting the Jagirdars, Yuvraj and Sandhya.

Yuvi CREEPS me out with his "smiles" - especially when he saw Neeraj hiding and lied to Sandhya or when he got all "upset" at her mentioning Neeraj! Or was it at the fact that Neeraj was avoiding Sandhya? Did he expect Neeraj to be all over her like a dog on a stick, just because they said "Fetch!"?! Eunuch or not, he is not a good husband. Soliciting his wife for an heir and LOOKING FORWARD to it just disgusts me on way too many levels than I can describe.. *shudders*