STOP the emotional blackmailing! [FOR ARMAAN FANS]

After watching yesterday's episode, I felt that Riddhima has got to STOP emotionally blackmailing Armaan to "move on". WHY does she keep bringing up the topic of their love and then lecture Armaan on moving on ahead in life. The reason Armaan can't move on is because everytime he thinks he will, Riddhima and her husband come in front of him and cause him so much pain and memories come flashing back right at him. Everytime he tries, Dr. Siddhant Modi does something foolish which just causes Armaan's life to standstill. Why can't they understand that Armaan needs his time to move ahead, he's not some Riddhima that will forget the person whom he loved so dearly, and continues to do so, within the span of a few hours. Also, he doesn't have someone who'll help him heal his wounds, at least he doesn't know that there's someone like that for him.

Armaan longs to be loved from someone. He's all alone. He has no one with him. Instead of supporting him in his pain, Riddhima adds more pressure to him by emotionally blackmailing him and getting him to promise to "move on" and get over Riddhima. When someone's life is just still, doesn't move and has no support whatsoever, every step taken away from someone you consider your world, hurts like HELL. Every moment is killing you from the inside. And watching the person you love the most with someone else is like dying every moment. Riddhima knows that Armaan can do ANYTHING for her happiness, so using this to her advantage is just disgusting. At one point, she's happily romancing with her husband and the next she's trying to get Armaan to get over her and "move on". WHY?! Because she knows that she's hurting Armaan. She's the REASON for Armaan's pain and suffering. So why does she go blaming Shilpa for hurting Armaan? Why does she put all the blame on Shilpa and then go give big lectures on how she knows Armaan better than himself? Decide woman. Who do you want? And LEAVE the other one alone so that he can ACTUALLY move on.

Watching Riddhima DAY and NIGHT, EVERY SINGLE DAY, will just hurt Armaan more and now Riddhima wants to have her DUTY with Armaan as well? What is up with her? Does she want to help him or torture him MORE?! Give him a break from yourself, woman! Let him be with someone else... Let him learn to socialise, let him live his life peacefully without YOU being in it 24/7. Why is she so OVERLY INVOLVED in his life? She has to LEAVE his life and not BE THERE forever! And if she does feel his pain so much, why'd she give him the biggest pain of his life? Why did she leave him? For someone else right? SO why didn't she leave him fully? Why does she have a part of her CLINGING onto him? If she wants to move on, she should move on FULLY before lecturing him to do so. Just to get rid of her guilt as soon as possible, she's putting TOO much pressure on the poor guy! How SELFISH can she get?

Armaan doesn't have any friends! All the "doctors" at Sanjeevani are Sid's friends - JP, Shilpa, Jiggy and Riddhima as well. They're all on Sid's side! Armaan doesn't have ANYONE whom he can share his feelings with. His one and only support system - Riddhima is also with Sid now. It's not it's a war with Sid but unfortunately Sid is Riddhima's husband and because of Sid, Armaan's happinesses are gone. He NEEDS his friends. He needs his gang with Rahul and Atul. He needs his best friend Niki! He needs someone who can help him out, without hurting him. I love Sid and Armaan's bonding but it's just NOT appropriate the current time. Armaan CAN'T share his feelings with Sid because it would just be so awkward for all three - Armaan, Sid and Riddhima. Shilpa could help Armaan but she'd be TOO heart-broken when she'll find out about Armaan and Riddhima. So a heart-broken person herself can't help another one right?

Personally, I think the CVs should get back Atul or Rahul for a cameo just to help Armaan recover! Even Niki would be great though, she's Sid's Bhabhi right? OH GOD RELATIONSHIPS GET SO COMPLICATED!!

I have no intentions whatsoever to fight with anyone so don't try and bash Armaan in an ARMAAN-POST because you'll be ignored. So don't waste your energy trying to talk against Armaan to me, it's not going to work. :) Bashing other couples in Dill Mill Gayye is also pointless because it doesn't relate to the post. :)

i totally agree she should leave him alone then he will come out of all this

i totally agree...she is soo mean..urghhhhhhhhhhh 😡

i agree with you , If she keeps on crying in front of armaan and make him feel that she herself has not moved on then how will armaan move

i totally agree ,riddhima sirf khudki khushi cahti hai,par agar armaan samne hoga to thorasa guilty feel ho raha hai mrs modi ko ,isiliye jo vi karo ek din me armaan move on karo,dramebaaz ,selfish riddhima

me too totally agree
if she really loved him
she cant do like this
i hate the character riddhima nad how the cv's posterised tht character

i knwwwww......she's herself not lettin him move on.......dat also she wants him 2 do d way she likes n when she likes

I so totally agree...I can't believe that Ridz had the nerve to ask Armaan to promise her that he wont' hurt himself anymore and he will move on...Come on, what right does she to ask him of all this?? And top it all, she even had tears in her eyes!!! Won't this just cause Armaan to think that deep down, he might still stand a chance being with Ridz...She's already hurt him enough, anyone can see the pain in his eyes..it's that obvious...why don't she just come outright and tell Armaan that she's made up her mind and she picked Sid...There's just no place in her heart anymore for Armaan...At least, Armaan will be able to move on then!!!

Exactly! I wasthinking the same thing! Shes been taking advantage of their past relationship and emotionally blackmailing him now! WTF! This girl needs to get herself straight before she goes on trying to make other people's lives better. She herself hasnt moved on and still, she keeps on telling armaan to move on.

urggg!! I hate this mean girl