Who killed simi? - Page 2

Originally posted by: WithlovefromUSA

In my opinion...this has nothing to do with Simi not trusting her husband. She has never shown any of those signs of compelete mistrust.....but its true that she has been told things by her mother and sister that has made her to think in this direction. And the sequence of events are making it even stronger. She saw Milli kissing Abhi or Abhi hugging Milli...but she didn't know what happened just before that and led them to kiss or hug each other. I mean all this might be innocent...but she just saw Abhi giving milli a good hug while they were all alone in the dark. Anyone can misunderstand that situation. In their hearts they might be thinking that way) ....but not even once Milli has said that Abhi is like a brother to him or Abhi has openly admitted that abt. Milli....so how is Simi to blame. She doesn't know. She just wants to believe what her eyes are seeing. Think rationally guys....at times you want to believe what your eyes see and what your ears hear..... And abt. the other point.....Yes, there was nothing wrong with Abhi giving money to Milli or asking Simi to come by train....but these things arouse jealousy.....which I think is a natural reaction. This just makes you feel that your partner is giving you less importance....which is a pretty common reason why couples fight. The right thing for Simi to do is to let her partner (Abhi) know abt these emotions. But Simi's character has always been shown as someone who has low self esteem.....one who doesn't share her inner feeling/ insecurities with anyone. Right from the beginning be it physical assult by Bhalla's incidence to Bhalla's indecent proposal incident...she has been shown to not share anything with anone and keep everything to herself. I don't know how many have noticed her getting really scared whenever someone screams at her be it Bhalla, Manjuji, her neighbors or even Abhi!! That's what is she....her personality is like that. Shy, timid type.

well said somini and mesimi 👏

Originally posted by: happygirl123

yeah manjuji is really gettin into simi's head n messing with it. i wish simi just listens to RS advice n trust abhi. but i think abhi giving money to mili is more like a brother giving his sister money. well simi is gonna misunderstand all that is happening and the whole thing is going to be out of hand

Originally posted by: kalabhi

raksha di who said Simi is a saint, no she is not, she is a normal human being like us with many faults. All of us want her to be a saint which is not humanly possible. After reading all your discussions I put myself in place of Simi and thought

1. the first point Abhi hugs simi and says we will go on a double date, do you even know what it is, in this house only Mili knows to enjoy life. If my husband made that comparison between me and my sister, I would be visibly annoyed. What do you expect from Simi to say, oh so sweet of my hubby he is comparing me and his/my sister. How chweet such a cute husband he loves my sister his/my sister so much

2. Next he comes and hands over money to Mili, it is a very natural reaction of Simi to be upset. A normal woman would always want the right on her husbands money first. I know abhi-mili share this great brother/sisterly bond, but suppose it was Simi and Anita and Abhi handed over money to Anita and said both of u go to the parlor and get it done, how would simi have felt. Wasnt it important for Abhi to hand over money to his wife?

3The final nail in the coffin comes when he says Simi u come by metro i will take mili, and let me tell this clearly NO NORMAL WOMAN can take this. You are inviting your wife on a date Abhi and ask her to come by train while u take Mili(friend/sister) in a car. Just put anita in place of mili and think ablout how simi would feel. It is a humiliating experience. No man does that to any woman no matter how innocent he is.

Now some of you might say oh Simi does deserve it she suspects abhi, but NO normal WOMAN can tolerate any of the 3 above. So yes Raksha Di Simi is not a saint, how can she be one, she is just like u and me with a number of faults. How can you expect her to be a saint. All of us are so caught up in Abhi and Mili, that we do not want to look at abhi's or Mili's faults. Arrey they are human too. Nor can Abhi be without faults nor can Mili.

But most of u out there expect Simi to be a saint, agreed Abhi has done a lot for her and she should not suspect him etc. blah blah whatever. Now What I do have a problem is with the way Simi will talk to Abhi tomorrow. The precap doesnt look good if it is true. I would have wanted Simi to speak to Abhi the way she did to Mili and not accuse him, but Alas that is not in my hands the cv's have a mind of their own. We will know tomorrow.

Just my 2 cents on the way I looked at Simi-abhi-mili scenario today.

Originally posted by: ramas

Simi is no saint and she proves it today. Wow who killed that simi who loved her siblings and wanted to do anything for them ? She did not even live piecefully in T mansion worrying about neetu and mili

Now that simi is dead and she is replaced by jealois possessive insecure wife.

Simi at this point is only thinking as she is abhi;s wife and abhi is hers and she can not share him with his sister even if they have nothing going on between them.

Now what lead simi to believe she is looosing abhi

mili and abhi found in embrace in few occasions. abhi mili chashing each other

manju putting poison in her mind.

Abhi saying simi to come in metro while mili can ride with him

NOw this will make any wife angry and jealous

Abhi handing money to mili for the make over for both of them . 2nd mistake abhi made. He can give money only to his wife, Abhi you better learn few lessons on how to keep wife happy. Do not make last 2 mistakes that will tick any wife.

But what happened to our old simi who always claimed she can do anything for her siblings?

at least now simi is like rest of the women who can get jealous and feel insecure seeing her huby with other woman may that woman be her young sis..

wow they truly killed old simi!!

Let us hope this new simi realizes she needs abhi and only abhi to live her life now that is married to him she must pay attention to him or she may loose him.

She should trust him and not take him for granted,

Originally posted by: ramas

That is my point neither of them are saint. and yes no woman would have tolerated such. At least not me. I would ask my husband for explanation. I would not want my husband to hand money to some one else for my make over no matter who ever it is. man or woman I would say no to go to such place on his face. Simi kept quiet. and then asking me to go by bus while he can pick up some one else can not work.

we all know abhi and simi are posssesive of each other. and abhi has done all these unknowingly like a typical male. But why can;t he see simi faking a smile. Or he is so engrossed in pleasing mili that he can only see her problems and not simi;s

Again I am not saying abhi has any ill feelings for mili. But then why did he stopped looking at simi and reading her face and eyes and see what is bothering her.

Let us hope simi handles this right and we are not in for a big heartache.

Originally posted by: AbhisBlueMoon

I think there is a subtle change in Simi in taking a stand for herself. She is trying in her timid way to make her sister understand what she is doing is not right by her. She is the same giving nurturing sister as seen by her tolerance but at the same time, Simi clearly has boundaries and limits on what she will put up with with respect to her husband. She understands what she has at stake, the relationship between her and Abhi is not up for grabs to be shared with Mili!!!!!!!!!!!!! I think ANY woman in her shoes in real life will ask, or cry or fight with her sister and with her husband so I think that anyone that thinks she should look the other way is smoking something !!! I don't for a second believe the same people will be so indulgent when it happens with their sister and their husband. When given the evidence above, why does anyone think sainthood becomes her when we've all been saying that's the problem with her, her Mahangiri??? Now we can jump all over her she should have spoken to Abhi earlier. NO, she was actually SMART in speaking clearly to her own sister first, telling her clearly but gently, this is not appropriate, CUT IT OUT, and she did this very civilly and with a lot of love and dignity. That was a great way to handle the situation and should have been enough. Apparently Mili isn't listening. Mili continues to do as she pleases, readily falls into Abhi's arms , even WHEN ALONE even in the dark. Creepy. I would hesitate in doing this in a closed bedroom or dark terrace even with my own brother. And this from someone who was never shown to hug her brother. Mili didn't even hug her father when he was alone with her on the same terrace when admitting her MISTAKE at defying Simi, the very same place she is now tightly in Abhi's embrace. Whoever thinks this is fine behavior, LET ME KNOW WHEN THIS HAPPENS TO YOU. When the behavior has crossed lines, we are far beyond INTENTIONS folks!! As for the lame reasoning that Mili has brought them together in the past, well she did. Today apparently that's not what's happening, its all about Mili now and she is taking Abhi for her needs, Simi be damned!
Money directly to sister in LAW, as far as I know, Anusha hasn't adopted Mili !, no no! Money is shared property of husband and wife, and Ramas I agree with you, he should be giving it over to Simi to decide how to spend with respect to her family. If he were to give directly to his sister, okay but even then, I would say it would create less tension if he and Simi have a talk. In fact, he and Simi do need to talk and set down some guidelines on some guidelines on behavior. Abhi seems clueless and is operating with his love for his wife intact and alongside his behavior that doesn't take his married status into account. They are both operating as "singles" she in her sacrifices for her family decisions, he in his behavior.Sometimes the "rules" he and Simi should collaborate on cannot be predicted in advance so this has to be done after the fact, the chase and tickle, the hugging pecking alone in dark or in public. Abhi's mistakes here, yes! Abhi is making too many mistakes. They really need to talk. Simi is right to bring this up.

Oh and yes, Mili's character IS dead. She can get married, or get a career but she needs to get a life away from her brother in law!

Originally posted by: ramas

yup money is shared property of husband and wife and i feel strongly about it. and abhi is making mistakes after mistake. Mili is simi;s sister and not abhi's. He is crossing that fine line taking away what was simi;s territory and responsibility. Mili and simi had fine bonding which abhi has broken unknowingly. He should let simi handle mili. He is going around like he is mili;s care taker when mili has mother father and sister like simi. If not mother she has RS and simi.

Abhi has surely crossed that boundry and he will regret it all as his care will be taken wrong way by mili and he will truly hurt it all. But most of all mili in her confused state of mind when she finds out abhi did this all to help her and he does not love her the way she wants him too.

I hope we don;t go this route.

Otherwise it will be all destruction and so many hearts will be broken.

Worst of all the beautiful love story between simbhi .

They wil forgive each other and may be mili will get on with her life with regret.

I say to abhi

"chhotisi chingari hai

ise hawa mat do

varna ye bhisan aag bankar

tumhara hi ashiyana jala degi

aur sab kuch barbaad kar degi"

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/QUOTE] very well said raksha di choti si chingari hain ise hawa mat do. I too strongly believe that there is a disconnect between Abhi and Simi. The essence of their beautiful love story has gone.

He has done enough for mili it is time for Simi now. Any normal woman would react the way simi has. Now with mili falling in love with Abhi as the TB article said, Simbhi's marriage is over. I want simi to stand up and fight for what is herself abhi and her marriage.