hi ,
I just posted a reply to one of the posts abt Naku talking abt trust and not being very honest herself...there have been quite a few posts bfr about the same and that led me to try and think about the other angle i.e. naku's angle and here are a few thoughts i would like to share...would love to hear abt other views abt the same....
I agree with most that naku should not go around begging for trust...but I feel we must cut her some slack...love and trust go hand in hand...you cannot love someone without trusting them and nor can you have someone love you without their trusting you. And that is what she desperately wants from dutta ...to trust her again and then eventually love her....if you recall the scene she actually wants him to trust her again just as a friend and not even in the hopes of his love...She just wants him to believe in her love and realise that a girl who loves him so much could never betray him coz its just not in her nature..She also tries to defend her actions and make him realise that he was wrong about her by saying that if the girl he loved turned dhokebaaz then whats her fault? she ran way and left naku to face the music and he called her dhokebaaz...which is a really good point ....coz all said and done it was Sups who was the real dhokebaaz , who didin't love dutta and did run away with her lover....All she wants from Dutta is understanding and respect, she does say in the precap....why do you keep looking at me like i'm jhooti , dhokebaaz, ....so that shows her need to be treated with respect and not as dirt.....
As for Naku not being exactly trusting herself , esp about her face, I think her reasons for that are valid...As in one of the previous epi , she tells Babi that if she reveals her real face now, dutta and the world will automatically assume that she is trying to do so to gain his love and attention by hook or crook...and that is something she doesn't want...as it isn't true...she never expected Dutta to return her love or marry her and even now she doesn't want him to love her fjust for her physivcal beauty..she wants him to accept her because he truly loves her ..inside and out....She also knows that either ways she's doomed coz if she reveals her face now , he will still feel that she's trying to entice him with her beauty and will hate her for that which is quite the possibility....the only hope is that he will understand her reasons and give her a chance to explain when the time comes( with More most probably)....As for dutta...
I also believe that dutta himself has come to some realisations....that Naku is innocent as he himself says that Naku kaa bholapan mujhe le dubegaa.....so he does believe now that naku is too trusting and innocent and does not have the cunning to execute the plan of escape..I tihnk he will now start to think in terms of Naku being a pawn than a player.....I also believe he will be forced to acknowledge atleast within his heart that he does love naku though I don't think he will admit it as yet ....All depends on what happens after their return to PN.....
So pls lets give poor naku a break......and gadha some moments to ponder over things...
gauri