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Doesn't Mili have the right to know about marriage?

Ganga

@Avatarana09

Dazzler

Posted: 15 years ago

Papaji had enquired with Abhi if it was right to talk to Mili about the marriage plans with Vishal. We never know if he did though Abhi asked papaji to do so. Now we dont know if Abhi knows whether Mili has given her consent for the re-initiation of her alliance with Vishal.

In fact I feel Mili has the right to know of the wedding plans even about the jewellery,wedding card and everything.

Mili has gone through a lot. She is just getting to her normalcy with her own people only and of course included Abhi in her family. Though she allows her own people close to her and has allowed Abhi and Omi hold her hands also, she never permitted Vishal to do so. Again when someone helped her on the road when she was falling, she did not allow him to touch her. She may feel normal and comfortable with her own people whom she trusts, but marriage is different. And again knowing Mili, we dont know if she will appreciate Vishal who had not stood by her when it was needed. Mili was not in a state of mind to request Vishal to stay back because she no longer felt eligible to long for a life of her own and Abhi and Simi had supported her then when she told them about that.

She may be willing to go abroad and study and she was happy receiving Vishals letter requesting her to come over to London for higher studies. She may still treat him as a friend but may not want him as husband or even a marriage immediately for that matter.

So I feel it should be discussed with her and not leave her in dark about a big decision of her life.

And look where it is leading to. She would not be sneaking around if they had let her known.

If its a NO for an answer,please state why. I see someone disagrees that she ought to know

Edited by mesimi - 15 years ago

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milifanboy

@milifanboy

Beginner

Posted: 15 years ago

I agree with you, realistically, i dont think Mili should be ready for marriage, especially after wat she's been through, and even worse, it's with a guy who wasn't there for her through out the whole thing (it's not rlly his fault tho, he did try) But in the end i think she will happily accept, though i do hope that they at least bring up her rape case, and her victory against Nakul.

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WithlovefromUSA

@WithlovefromUSA

Explorer

Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: mesimi
Papaji had enquired with Abhi if it was right to talk to Mili about the marriage plans with Vishal. We never know if he did though Abhi asked papaji to do so. Now we dont know if Abhi knows whether Mili has given her consent for the re-initiation of her alliance with Vishal.
In fact I feel Mili has the right to know of the wedding plans even about the jewellery,wedding card and everything.

Mili has gone through a lot. She is just getting to her normalcy with her own people only and of course included Abhi in her family. Though she allows her own people close to her and has allowed Abhi and Omi hold her hands also, she never permitted Vishal to do so. Again when someone helped her on the road when she was falling, she did not allow him to touch her. She may feel normal and comfortable with her own people whom she trusts, but marriage is different. And again knowing Mili, we dont know if she will appreciate Vishal who had not stood by her when it was needed. Mili was not in a state of mind to request Vishal to stay back because she no longer felt eligible to long for a life of her own and Abhi and Simi had supported her then when she told them about that.

She may be willing to go abroad and study and she was happy receiving Vishals letter requesting her to come over to London for higher studies. She may still treat him as a friend but may not want him as husband or even a marriage immediately for that matter.

So I feel it should be discussed with her and not leave her in dark about a big decision of her life.

And look where it is leading to. She would not be sneaking around if they had let her known.

You are so right😆😆 But do you think Milli is getting towards normalcy....I don't know if she is behaving normal now or was earlier. In fact the only time I found her behahing normally was before her molestation. She seems to have gotten from bad to worse since then😃😃😃

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nirmala

@sayhi2nimi

Inactive

Posted: 15 years ago

marriage is not surprize,it may be incidents for some and accidents for some 😉and some r made for each other❤️.so here RS,ABHI and SIMI r wrong to hide this issue from her.

As RS asked abhi if he should talk about that to her now ,but y he didn't ❓?, it is her life an the decision should also be her's .whether she want marriage now or vishal as her life partner .

as far as miili's behaviour towards vishal ,y she is not comfortable with vishal , she had no objection marrying him before the issue and she was feeling guilty too for not telling him what happened to her. (but the state of her mind is also there bcoz a night before what she has went through is also not small thing )and it is also there when miili needed him the most he was not there let it be as friend or a person who is in love with her for past 5 yrs. after abhi's advice to talk to vishal she tried calling him too .

and by the time abhi came she was quite better and what abhi had done for her on that count her behaviour was natural, coz she knew he understands her better than any body,both r strong minded people (and time to time he has proved to be worth it)let it be when bhalla goon's followed her,when her scooty did not have petrol,even to inform nakul's intension,her decision to file a FIR ,actually to say abhi has brought her to normal.

and if anuj was capable of then rather than abhi she would be more comfortable with her brother.and reaction with stranger it is quite normal.

Edited by sayhi2nimi - 15 years ago

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Ganga

@Avatarana09

Dazzler

Posted: 15 years ago

Whoever has voted that Mili need not know, please care to state why??

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Neil-fan

@Neil-fan

Navigator

Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: WithlovefromUSA
You are so right😆😆 But do you think Milli is getting towards normalcy....I don't know if she is behaving normal now or was earlier. In fact the only time I found her behahing normally was before her molestation. She seems to have gotten from bad to worse since then😃😃😃

Once Nakul fiasco is over it seems mili has changed overnight, i did not know it takes so quickly to recover, agreed the culprit was put in jail etc but still i wish they would show a gradual change in mili back to normalcy. why the heck no phone calls with vishal at least to thank him for the letter.

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happygirl

@happygirl123

Dazzler

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Posted: 15 years ago

i voted yes because I think every girl has the right to know bout her wedding but in this case maybe they think because of the rape incident that she would definitely agree to get married