DMG an open wound for AR fans

DMG has become an open wound to all AR fans...there is so much of pain watching these two protagonists (Armaan Ridhima) romancing someone else. Ridhima is shown so oblivious to all those moments that she spent with Armaan and she is romancing with her husband at the same spots where once she spent time in Armaan's arms. How come she never remembers all those moments? Anyone with feelings & emotions and in their sane mind would always remember something from past. It seems so unnatural when you see her with dreams in her eyes as if she has fallen in love for the first time. If you watch Geet or any other show, there is some connection to reality & you enjoy those romantic moments between lead characters whereas in DMG, it seems like someone is poking open wounds when you see main lead Ridhima with someone else now.
Just my POV....& reminder this is AR post so no bashing from any other group.
To all AR fans....how is it for you guys? To me it looks so out of place to watch them.