... i mean, wasnt she the one who had come to Armaan and said... she was trying really hard to not show, she was affected by him.. that she wanted to hate him but she couldnt.. and that, she wanted to go to Sid, cos, he was there for her when Armaan wasnt? ... amidst all this... hadnt she also implied how she still somewhere felt for Armaan... and then, they had parted ways... which doesnt in any way mean, they could not still have a soft spot for one another....
had she been the Riddhima from the past, who knew she could go back to Armaan after a silly fight, i would have still understood, if she blamed him- but she is no longer a kid... she is married, and has taken a decision of her own... to move away from the love of her life.. and now... she accuses him... of deriving pleasure out of making her "husband" ... wow Riddhima... i get your adarsh patni, bharateeya naari etc etc etc waale sentiments... but, why the hell are you still hell bent upon blaming Armaan for everything around you? .... you have asked Armaan to move on so many times... but, i want to say to you... let go woman... let go! stop making yourself, and his love for you feel so important in your life as well as his, that you discredit every act of his!
i dont know if the creatives do this deliberately... or its something that just happens, but, they always, make sure, that... Riddhima has the last word when it comes to making Armaan feel like shit... cos, for one, it was so not needed that Riddhima came and spoke to Armaan in that tone... has she forgotten that... the person on the other side is human as well.. and one that loved her to bits at that? with time, i thought, she would understand him more... but with the whole... tum mujhe humesha galat hi samajh ti ho.... i realised, the makers have made a desperate attempt to make the ir relationship look silly, immature, and a teen romance of sorts where, two people are for sure drawn to one another, but wake up one fine morning to the reality that the person they liked, and the person they are around are two diff ppl....
for gods sake! please dont do that with Armaan Riddhima atleast! keep them apart for all you want... but dont demean what they shared once by making them utter lines, and do things that go against the grounding of their relationship!
love,
niha