What's most important in a guy/girl?

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coach_a

@coach_a

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Posted: 15 years ago

Ok here is how it goes. 1st state if you are a guy or a girl.

Then, Rank these 1-3, and maybe explain, according to importance when choosing a girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/husband.

All 3 of these categories are broad to hopefully cover almost everything. Read each carefully, they might be more broad than you think.

Bodily Traits
From how good looking they are, to how hot they are, to how great their body is, to how healthy they are, to their fashion sense and style, just everything that relates to their physical body.

Personal Traits
Main thing being, their personality. And how their personality fits with you, or the chemistry between you 2. Do you like their personality or not? And this could go down to their sense of humor or just their overall tone as a person. Does not include their intelligence or anything like that though.

Also includes what their background is, like their race or ethnicity.

Tangible Traits
How rich are they? Or, their career? Do they have a nice career? Are they famous? Or even how smart are they? Their overall intellectual capabilities. Their car. Their money. Their career. Their house. Their intelligence. All things that relate to living a nice life in a tangible way. I include intelligence & brain in this, because usually those 2 will lead to the rest.

I know this is tough, so also try to explain why.

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sudesh kumar

@qwertyesque

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Posted: 15 years ago

its always important people turn back for second look... everything else is meaningless......nature inelligence etc.. are passing things.. looking good is being popular and famous and successful in one way or other... tangible baby tangible... Why did that natural blonde turn around to look at me I wondered..!!!!! and I felt great.... nothing else matters.... first of all you are calling bodily traits as intangible!!! if you insist.. I would say rank them this way

in teh order you put them....first 5 places for physical lookss.. then for personality generally people compensate or try to with personality etc... when they lack in the first area and third is compensating for both... the above....Nice symmetry, fair skin and sculpted body is a must for gals..thier career gets a jump start..

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Believe

@-Believe-

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Posted: 15 years ago

I feel,Girls improve their looks not their mind, because they know guys are stupid, not blind....Ladies, when you expect a guy 2 be completely honest with u, I laugh... you women wear heels- UR not that tall, you wear makeup- you don't look like that, you color you hair- UR not a blonde. Everything about you is a lie & you expect a man to tell you the...😆

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Summer3

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: Believe

I feel,Girls improve their looks not their mind, because they know guys are stupid, not blind....Ladies, when you expect a guy 2 be completely honest with u, I laugh... you women wear heels- UR not that tall, you wear makeup- you don't look like that, you color you hair- UR not a blonde. Everything about you is a lie & you expect a man to tell you the...😆

Vinu ji, please get some life insurance policies and be on guard 24 hours.😆

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sudesh kumar

@qwertyesque

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: Summer3

Vinu ji, please get some life insurance policies and be on guard 24 hours.😆

believe you wont believe what can happen to you now..😆

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Believe

@-Believe-

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: qwertyesque
believe you wont believe what can happen to you now..😆

😆😆^lol....Abi abi horoscopes pada, aaj time uthna acha nahe hey.... so expecting the unexpected😉😆

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: coach_a
Ok here is how it goes. 1st state if you are a guy or a girl.

Then, Rank these 1-3, and maybe explain, according to importance when choosing a girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/husband.

All 3 of these categories are broad to hopefully cover almost everything. Read each carefully, they might be more broad than you think.

Bodily Traits 2
From how good looking they are, to how hot they are, to how great their body is, to how healthy they are, to their fashion sense and style, just everything that relates to their physical body.

Personal Traits 1
Main thing being, their personality. And how their personality fits with you, or the chemistry between you 2. Do you like their personality or not? And this could go down to their sense of humor or just their overall tone as a person. Does not include their intelligence or anything like that though.

Also includes what their background is, like their race or ethnicity.

Tangible Traits 3
How rich are they? Or, their career? Do they have a nice career? Are they famous? Or even how smart are they? Their overall intellectual capabilities. Their car. Their money. Their career. Their house. Their intelligence. All things that relate to living a nice life in a tangible way. I include intelligence & brain in this, because usually those 2 will lead to the rest.

I know this is tough, so also try to explain why.

I ranked Personal as first, as I feel that you need to have good chemistry and must really be able to spend the rest of your life with a person with personal traits you can live with contently. Sense of humor, likes, dislikes, philosophies etc are very important in choosing a partner. And the traits that don't appeal to you must be borne by you!

The second rank goes to bodily traits, because life without loving(physically) is not life. lol So if its with a very scrawny or very obese person it wont be much fun.

The third goes to tangible traits, because technically, I dont need to marry a rich person, I'm reasonably ok by myself that I dont need to work for another 2 yrs 😛 and anyway I won't marry a servant or anything, but I don't need to marry someone from a very affluent family. Just a decent gal from a family out of debt will do. 😆

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sudesh kumar

@qwertyesque

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: jettythegod

I ranked Personal as first, as I feel that you need to have good chemistry and must really be able to spend the rest of your life with a person with personal traits you can live with contently. Sense of humor, likes, dislikes, philosophies etc are very important in choosing a partner. And the traits that don't appeal to you must be borne by you!

The second rank goes to bodily traits, because life without loving(physically) is not life. lol So if its with a very scrawny or very obese person it wont be much fun.

The third goes to tangible traits, because technically, I dont need to marry a rich person, I'm reasonably ok by myself that I dont need to work for another 2 yrs 😛 and anyway I won't marry a servant or anything, but I don't need to marry someone from a very affluent family. Just a decent gal from a family out of debt will do. 😆

Good chemistry is not alwys good.. Choose ruthless romance... thats the true kind of romance.. the killing kind.. after all who wants to be immortal anyways.. of course I speak of myself.. I would nt stand anyone who I have common traits....but sometime some people just come accross who suddenly feel so close.. thats happened to me with more than one mallu gal.. some mallu girls have a charm.. and here i defy my own argument about having bodily trait as top 5!!

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: qwertyesque

Good chemistry is not alwys good.. Choose ruthless romance... thats the true kind of romance.. the killing kind.. after all who wants to be immortal anyways.. i dont mean for all eternity, but until I die lolz.. of course I speak of myself.. I would nt stand anyone who I have common traits....but sometime some people just come accross who suddenly feel so close.. thats happened to me with more than one mallu gal.. some mallu girls have a charm..mallu? eww and here i defy my own argument about having bodily trait as top 5!!