gettin over a guy?

heyyy guys
how do u get over a guy u love?
ok i'll xplain my situation in brief....
i like dis guy from my gang ....dis was around da time he broke up wid his first girlfriend ....wen he broke up he was very depressed for a few days ...bt den all we close friends helped him to get out of his depression nd in da process i ended up liking him ....den l8r after a few days he became bak to his normal self ...n he started teasing me , hittin me n basically we used to hav fun annoying each oder....den after sum days i started LOVING him ....nd there was dis point tat i realised i am in love ....bt after sum days i cum to noe tat he has started goin out wid dis girl n wen i cum to noe dis i burst out crying ....dis was one two months bak ....nw i think he is goin to break up again wid dis girl coz he had gotten into a relationship wid her to get over his first girlfriend....

bt da problem is i am still in love wid him n i donnoe wen i will stop loving him coz he is my first love ...as in da first guy i love... nd he dosen't noe tat i love him nd i never told him coz den if he dosen't feel da same den our friendship will get spoilt.....

now our common friends r sayin to me to get over him coz there is no use of dis ....n moreover he is dis cool dude kinda guy ....n i'm dis short fat n ugly girl....i noe our pairing will suck ....


tat's y i want to get over him ....i'm confused coz i wanna get over him coz he is already in a relationship n there is no use...bt i don' t wanna also get over him coz i still love him n dunno cwen i will get over him n i don't even noe if i ever will...

i feel like crying :(:(:(
please temme how u get over a guy ....
i don't wanna get over him ....i still clove him ...bt there is no oder way :(

if u ask me personally, i DO not belive in real lyf LOVE ... coz all dis stories have a tragic ending . Also at this stage many at times we thnk we r in luv wd almost evry other handsome guy v c , so its normal , u will get over it , u dont have to try to do dat , its just a phase n i guess dis guy isnt serious abt relationships as he was in a second relationship to get over his first one . Nd dis guy will surely do da same wd u wich will hurt u more in future so plzzzzz thnk logically , nd in matters of luv , i advice evry1 to go by their MIND nt dere HEART!

Distance yourself from him, you are human .....do something to keep yourself busy. entertain yourself and other, like go shopping, cooking,(like new foods). do things to make you laugh, pick a new hobby.

"nw i think he is goin to break up again wid dis girl coz he had gotten into a relationship wid her to get over his first girlfriend."

u will have to think with your head dear and not let your heart rule over it because he seems like a guy who will break your heart too and walk away.

Hope things work out for u.

honey, i have been thru this too. At one point I thought that I would die when this guy i had a crush on (which at the time I thought was love) liked someone else. We too were in the same group and he wud tease me and foolish me started having feelings for him. Like you I too had never told him that I had started more than liking him for fear that the feelings may or may not be returned. When I finally found the courage to tell him about my feelings I found out from my friends that he liked someone else.(almost feels like one of those sitcom scenes now). The worst part was that I had my Bachelor exam finals coming up and I cud not even study bec. in between studying I wud start crying thinking about him.
My friends helped least helped me through it and eventually I got over him. The thing is I made a CONSCIOUS DECISION to get over him, to move on and finally I did find the true love of my life and now when I look back I realise it was a crush, an Infatuation.

My main advise to you would be - he sounds like a guy you should try to forget if he is using this other girl to forget his previous girlfriend and he may hurt u too.

It might hurt like Hell right now but please believe me when I say this - You are the One who has to DECIDE to move forward. You have to MAKE your heart and mind strong, get busy with other things. Try to be around friends, keep yourself busy and slowly you will come out of it. I did.

Trust me you will get out of it with a better understanding of yourself.
My best wishes to you dear. I shared this with u so that u know that it can be done and you can do it. God Bless u.