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Posted: 15 years ago
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Be what you wanna be,
taking things the way they are,
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Okay ... well, I'm of the moody kind and hence, when I feel like I speak, when I don't ... I keep my mouth zipped. And I guess, I am a mixture of both.

Lot many quiet and reserved people lack confidence, but I don't think they should be prejudiced on that basis. Being a quiet person is not an offense and perhaps, it signifies peace and maturity in a person's nature. Remember, think before you speak and all. 😆

And for a fact, I know... that all reserved people DO NOT lack confidence as myself am one such person. I am reserved, quiet most of the times and yet I am an extrovert, big time.

It's not wrong to be quiet and reserved, it's just who you are. There's nothing wrong or right in it, I believe.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Personality is that which society manages to make you....Personality is created by the society according to its own requirements, but individuality is wild, natural. It is not to fit into some mechanism....I think its wrong to be quiet and reserved...but we never really grow up, we only learn how to act in public....😊

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Posted: 15 years ago
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no, its not!! woohooo!

anyway, I think that it depends from person to person. Of course, I usually always answer that if its a question where someone asks if someone should behave in a specific way.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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No its not wrong to be quiet and reserved!
In my Point Of View if a person is quiet or reserved its his/her choice. The person has lack of self confidence and that is only because people who can think aloud make their comments aloud too.

If a person whose quiet tries to do something new the others instead of encouraging just laugh or clearly show down the person so that the next time he/she does not even try.

I would like to oppose the point stated above that People get uncomfortable around friends and co workers. This is not true! In fact such kind of people open up more with their friends. Its their low confidence which makes them the target.I'm not saying that it their fault entirely but to some extend yes they themselves are responsible as they never say NO! to anybody and accept things evn if its not their fault.

A quiet person might be really very bubbly and fun loving with the people he/she is comfortable. It also depends on the environment he / she is surrounded with. If he/she isnt comfortable then there is no scope for d person to open up.

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