Teenage Infatuations - A Growing Up Process - Ash

wow i never in my freakiest wildest dream ever thought a day would come when i would do this .. but as someone wisely said never say never cause..u never know ; here i am today making a topic on a newb - not just cause i am kinda confused but also as i wanna ask you guys your opinion
so kindly please help me 😳

note: this post isnt as i am a SaJan fan but for a genuine discussion

OK lets begin shall we ...

now last night finally we saw and in clear words had it from the horse' mouth - the thing which we all had a faint idea of already ... when ash leaves after Sam is still lost in thoughts of Gunjan she says - one day i shall be like what you want it to be; so that you may get over your past ...

clearly we need no other words to see her thoughts about Sammy...

now i had read this wonderful line in an magazine article

Infatuation love is equivalent to being head over heels over the person for no apparent reasons. True love is knowing the person inside out and still loving him as much as you do the first time you set eyes on him.

these lines i suppose describe the state ash is in as per me she is not in love with Sammy - she hardly knows him - she is infatuated with him - which i suppose is the crux of this girl being related to SaJan' story...

i think this is gonna be shown as a part of teenage life - a growing up process basically

we all have always heard cases happen about students infatuating about teachers in school or colleges we studied - it happens frankly

i think this girl is alone and needs someone for company - and she thinks that she can find it in Sammy while also curing his loneliness ... which is not possible as he wont reciprocate those feelings

i dont think they'd screw this here - cause then it'd be a very cheap thing frankly - thou not a teacher to her but being a trustee - he's a senior authority

they can show this crush/infatuation but cant make them a couple - cause frankly it would be sickening 🤢

now i am not saying this just cause i am a SaJan fan but also as a student teacher/senior authority relation will be a sure-shot invitation to hell - showing something as disturbing as this is HARAKIRI

such things are always considered unethical and unacceptable - now i am not trying to play moral police here - just stating what the repercussions can be - cause considering the premise of a college and the relationship of a student and trustee this will not be palatable

i hope they handle the track well sensibly and mostly carefully for a issue they have raised of such high sensitivity

thx shruti as u said she is merely getting fascinated by Sam as he is in a way sailing in the same boat as her that of guilt and depression and so amidst in a crowd as she feels lonely so does he..

this isnt love its a crush a teenage thing all of us experience at some point or other in our life

i hope the track as sensitive as it is doesnt end down a drain and hun dont scare me with an obsessive lover thingy 😆😆 god the cv's could be reading our posts dont give em ideas - gives me the creeps 😆😆😆

and yes perhaps after learning of a heartache that is bound to happen with Samrat i think she'll fall in love with her true soul mate rohan the rhino 🤣

Aahana..another fabulous post !! 😛
Yes..Infatuation and True love are two totally different feelings..like Shruti explained infatuation/crush is just an attraction where as true love is much beyond that- it is about knowing the person in and out ..here as u said Ash is infatuated towards him..which is natural for every teenager but she must understand that she can never become the love of his life coz her feelings won't get reciprocated back..I really want her to know about SaJan very soon coz I don't want her to suffer from a major heart break later..So before its too late she better know about them..and help them to re-unite as she's the one person through which SaJan can reach each other.. I really hope so that CVs will handle this sensitive track well and won't mess things up by getting a student and a senior authority a couple coz as of now they are showing it beautifully..😊

excellent post my twinnie!👏👏

aahana superb topic hon 👏 dear i completely agree with you, shruti and gayatree by the way guys superb take on this issue loved it 👏 👏 dear so true hon in teenage we find our crush as love but unfortunatley i haven't experienced yet 😉 😆 ya i was crazy abt actors as i once mentioned that i loved leo of titanic but it was only liking for actor in my school and college life i never experienced this kind of crush i don't know why 😆 ok back to point ya sometimes it happens we adore person and thinks that we r in love same concept of love at first sight i don't believe in this concept its only attraction towards gender but after that attraction when emotions develops for me its love at first sight ,outer appearance 's attraction is not called love but its totally crush as in teenage often this happen and its natural process of changing hormones and growing process but sometimes it give heartbreak as well bcz this is the age when ur emotions r growing up here same thing happening with ash

she never found love in her childhood n her hunger of love made her to think that she is in love with sam but she doesn't know him inside and that's only her crush nothing else but it will give her pain in the end but after that she will be grown up girl or lady

i hope cvs will not ruin relation of trustee- student making pair of sam-ash 🤢as trustee is father figure for every student and it will not be acceptable here bcz it will give impact as lust not love and misusing students feelings i really hope this track will be handled nicely and ash becomes bridge of sajan 😳

Originally posted by: Selena-Sharma

You cant say that teenage love is mere infactuation. We can find our true love in teenage because even SaJan and MayUr's love was teenage love and true love. But in this case, I am not sure it is infactuation. It might be LOVE, but yeah, one-sided.

you have a point...mayur and sajn also had teenaged love...but that was after they knew each other for days together,and debated over the issue for a long time....
what6 ash is feeling cantr be love-she doesnt even know him well enough...shes just met him around 3 to four times...the3 relationbship they share is very..well weird!...
Ash is attracted towards his personality and wants to please him so that she gets some attention,and a good word from him...it is love...but puppy love...

nice topic aahana...but i agree with one fact that teenage love is not always infatuation seeing what happened with sajan and mayur.as of now ash is just getting attracted towards him..the reason being HE is the only MAN she has come across who is really worth the level of her intellect...but if he wud have been the sam of season1 she may not have fallen for him. so ash's affection towards him is atleast now just a circumstantial liking.which was totally not the case of gunjan.
u know aahana i beleive in one saying..."there is no reason u fall in love with someone..neither looks,nor his money,nor behaviour etc etc or anything but ONLY when u find a part of urself in someone. its when someone's existence becomes necessary for ur survival...when everything related to that person becomes equally important to u.here is the difference with ash....she is just ATTRACTED towards him...if this wud have been love she wud have been affected by sam's love story...she wud have tried 2 find out what happened with him and his beloved...and whats the meaning that she is away...whether she has died or left him...but she is just thinking abt him n herself...and thats crush u know.