Being open in marriage

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Pratigya to move forward in this situation is to tell Krishna everything, secrets in a marriage can be lethal (a time bomb waiting to explode). i hope that the after the pregnancy track the separation of krishna and pratigya is going to be the first and last. We all know that Krishna is head over heals in love with pratigya, and would like it to be reversed that pratigya will fall for krishna big time.

I hope that krishna refuses to go back to ss house, this will make their relationship stronger and also when they do no matter what amma, ss and shakti do they cannot break it but pratigya needs to tell krishna everything.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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for me prats still has a long way to go......after seing her today iam not impressed....she is still the same old prats for me

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Posted: 15 years ago
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AGREEDC WID ABOVE POSTS!!!!!!!! I HAV TO SAY DIS WHERE IS D SACH KA SAATH WAALI POLICY OF SUCKSENAS N PRATS?????????? R THEY SUPPORTING THE TRUTH OR MAKNG FOOL OF KRISHNA WID HIDING THE TRUTH!!!!!!!!!DOUBLE STANDARD!!!!!!!!
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AGREEDC WID ABOVE POSTS!!!!!!!! I HAV TO SAY DIS WHERE IS D SACH KA SAATH WAALI POLICY OF SUCKSENAS N PRATS?????????? R THEY SUPPORTING THE TRUTH OR MAKNG FOOL OF KRISHNA WID HIDING THE TRUTH!!!!!!!!!DOUBLE STANDARD!!!!!!!!
Absolutely agree with all of your posts. Pratigya has to tell the truth. Look at prof he again is trying to hide from her own daughter. What krishna told prof is completely correct. He has not given good education to his children. Pratigya tells teh importance of truth and all. Today she also chicked out. She has bought krishna out of his house. For that she will say she didn;t tell him to do. but she said she believes in truth and all. She knows if she hides this and finds out later it will be a mess. For that also she will have a reason. I know krishna is little possessive of pratigya. but if she tells him nicely he will understand. Today how he agreed for her to stay in her place. This sketch of the character i completely hate. It is double sided. she is a matured understanding educated one. This is how they act. I don;t like the way they act. If tehy r educated they have to act more tactfully and practically. I think krishna act more practically even though he is not educated. So what message is Pearl grey trying to give that educated people are not good, don;t think much before they act or they just give speech only. Show some nice and good things in pratigya which is outstanding one and never changes wht ever be the circumstances. That is a strong woman. they don;t change according to situvations. Today's episode make me to write like this.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: fanbidaai

Pratigya to move forward in this situation is to tell Krishna everything, secrets in a marriage can be lethal (a time bomb waiting to explode). i hope that the after the pregnancy track the separation of krishna and pratigya is going to be the first and last. We all know that Krishna is head over heals in love with pratigya, and would like it to be reversed that pratigya will fall for krishna big time.

I hope that krishna refuses to go back to ss house, this will make their relationship stronger and also when they do no matter what amma, ss and shakti do they cannot break it but pratigya needs to tell krishna everything.

Hey Suk! I get the feeling that something is gonna come in between Pratigya revealing the truth and Krishna hearing/accepting it! I read the other comments and disagree with most of them! Lolzzzz... I dont think its like Pratigya is lying to Krishna! Just becoz she is MORE busy with saving her family and her sister from Angad who is using her as a bargain THAN feeling guilty about misunderstanding Krishna or having a heart2heart chat with him does not really mean she is straying away from her 'supporting the truth' mentality! Plus, she has realized that her family doesnt want to tell Krishna nything and if she can go along with the lies of Krishna to get the chance to try and make him understand that lying is not the way, then, ofcourse she will try to make her parents understand and face Angad FIRST, b4 speaking to Krishna! Yes, it would have been a good thing if Krishna was told b4 Angad gets the chance to twist the truth! And I still wont blame Pratigya for taking her time to save her family first b4 her marriage!!! I wonder if its a good thing or bad - that Pratigya is already labelled as a liar by some viewers - for lying in front of the mantras of the marriage!😕😆 I guess its a good thing, now the other unnecessary blames is not gonna affect me as much!😉
The way Krishna was excited after SS's call, I think he is all ready to go back with one yest from Pratigya! Duh! He even praised his father saying that Pratigya is lucky to have a sasur like SS!!!🤢😆
Dunno yaar! Am depending on the CVs to not disappoint me with something crazy and weird!!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Krishna has already done sooo much for prats its high tme she does smething for him nd after seeing 2days episode dont thnk she has changed much 😡😡
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: limits

Hey Suk! I get the feeling that something is gonna come in between Pratigya revealing the truth and Krishna hearing/accepting it! I read the other comments and disagree with most of them! Lolzzzz... I dont think its like Pratigya is lying to Krishna! Just becoz she is MORE busy with saving her family and her sister from Angad who is using her as a bargain THAN feeling guilty about misunderstanding Krishna or having a heart2heart chat with him does not really mean she is straying away from her 'supporting the truth' mentality! Plus, she has realized that her family doesnt want to tell Krishna nything and if she can go along with the lies of Krishna to get the chance to try and make him understand that lying is not the way, then, ofcourse she will try to make her parents understand and face Angad FIRST, b4 speaking to Krishna! Yes, it would have been a good thing if Krishna was told b4 Angad gets the chance to twist the truth! And I still wont blame Pratigya for taking her time to save her family first b4 her marriage!!! I wonder if its a good thing or bad - that Pratigya is already labelled as a liar by some viewers - for lying in front of the mantras of the marriage!😕😆 I guess its a good thing, now the other unnecessary blames is not gonna affect me as much!😉
The way Krishna was excited after SS's call, I think he is all ready to go back with one yest from Pratigya! Duh! He even praised his father saying that Pratigya is lucky to have a sasur like SS!!!🤢😆
Dunno yaar! Am depending on the CVs to not disappoint me with something crazy and weird!!!

Saving her family is a priorty but also saving her marriage is equally important. Lets hope that the cvs read all our post about pratigya telling krishna everything. Now when she went to her family after finding out the mortgage she told krishna she would tell him everything i am hoping she will keep to her word. Whether she said it for that purpose only i still believe she should tell him everything.
When i first got married and starting travelling with my husband in various countries we lived in malaysia for a few years, I had my friends and my hubby had his we spent a lot of time together but he encouraged me to go out with my friends. now one of his work friends said to my husband that he is surprised that he allows me to go out dancing / dinner with friends and how much time we spent apart. Now when my husband asked him what was he implying he chickened out and said he did not mean anything by it when i approached him he ran a mile. After i found out he did not let his wife go out kept a a tight reign on his wife. Now my hubby who i am very open with had not told me about what he had said he would have become suspious of me. One comment can create misunderstandings and cause a marriage to break lets hope that does not happen and pratigya will reveal everything to krishna.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: fanbidaai

Saving her family is a priorty but also saving her marriage is equally important. Lets hope that the cvs read all our post about pratigya telling krishna everything. Now when she went to her family after finding out the mortgage she told krishna she would tell him everything i am hoping she will keep to her word. Whether she said it for that purpose only i still believe she should tell him everything.
When i first got married and starting travelling with my husband in various countries we lived in malaysia for a few years, I had my friends and my hubby had his we spent a lot of time together but he encouraged me to go out with my friends. now one of his work friends said to my husband that he is surprised that he allows me to go out dancing / dinner with friends and how much time we spent apart. Now when my husband asked him what was he implying he chickened out and said he did not mean anything by it when i approached him he ran a mile. After i found out he did not let his wife go out kept a a tight reign on his wife. Now my hubby who i am very open with had not told me about what he had said he would have become suspious of me. One comment can create misunderstandings and cause a marriage to break lets hope that does not happen and pratigya will reveal everything to krishna.



Trust is the foundation of any marriage. Prats's marriage is already on shaky ground. On the one side Krishna is trying to do everything to get it on solid ground. He has swallowed his pride, taken ridicule from the very people who have loved him the most all his life, forgiven Prats the many insults and contemptuous statements over and again.

The first time he slapped her after she outed their most intimate secrets in front of their parents, she told him she was leaving. She has never taken the time or made the effort to reflect on her own behavior towards Krishna right from the beginning. If she can't take the disrespect from her husband on any level, has she ever considered how long Krishna, as a man with a more fragile ego,(as men in general do) would take that level of disrespect she has meted out to him and for how long? Even such a forgiving and loving person has a limit to what he can and will tolerate.

Krishna will reach that point soon if they continue at this pace. It could cause a lot of misunderstanding and hurt to both if the truth is kept hidden bec' of how she perceives he may react. He could surprise her and handle it quite well. That's where the trust comes in. Will she count on him to handle it the way that is best for their marriage.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: fanbidaai

Saving her family is a priorty but also saving her marriage is equally important. Lets hope that the cvs read all our post about pratigya telling krishna everything. Now when she went to her family after finding out the mortgage she told krishna she would tell him everything i am hoping she will keep to her word. Whether she said it for that purpose only i still believe she should tell him everything.
When i first got married and starting travelling with my husband in various countries we lived in malaysia for a few years, I had my friends and my hubby had his we spent a lot of time together but he encouraged me to go out with my friends. now one of his work friends said to my husband that he is surprised that he allows me to go out dancing / dinner with friends and how much time we spent apart. Now when my husband asked him what was he implying he chickened out and said he did not mean anything by it when i approached him he ran a mile. After i found out he did not let his wife go out kept a a tight reign on his wife. Now my hubby who i am very open with had not told me about what he had said he would have become suspious of me. One comment can create misunderstandings and cause a marriage to break lets hope that does not happen and pratigya will reveal everything to krishna.

TRUE!!! Its equally or more important to save one's own marriage! BUT Pratigya is JUST starting to EVEN consider - her marriage as REAL and NOT a compromise or a show for the society AND, Krishna as her husband and not a kidnapper!!! It hasnt been even ONE night!!! And she decided to FACE Angad b4 talking with Krishna COZ, she is still NOT used to CARING about him, lolzzz... She JUST started with it on Friday's episode!
WOW! NOW thats WHAT I call a husband!!!⭐️⭐️⭐️ TOO bad, Krishna is NOT even CLOSE to ur husband!!! And, there is ofcourse a HUGE difference between ur husband and Krishna - SEE, ur husband confronted that jerk (sorry if I offended!) instead of interrogating u BUT What do u think Krishna would do? I'm not 100% sure that he would follow ur husband's steps! Esp. with his mentality of 'hum tumre pati hai' and 'kono aur chakkar toh nahin' !!!
I'm more worried about HOW Krishna is gonna take the TRUTH, be it from Pratigya or Angad!!! Yeah! Lets hope there are no more misunderstandings between KriYa!!!😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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TRUE!!! Its equally or more important to save one's own marriage! BUT Pratigya is JUST starting to EVEN consider - her marriage as REAL and NOT a compromise or a show for the society AND, Krishna as her husband and not a kidnapper!!! It hasnt been even ONE night!!! And she decided to FACE Angad b4 talking with Krishna COZ, she is still NOT used to CARING about him, lolzzz... She JUST started with it on Friday's episode!
WOW! NOW thats WHAT I call a husband!!!⭐️⭐️⭐️ TOO bad, Krishna is NOT even CLOSE to ur husband!!! And, there is ofcourse a HUGE difference between ur husband and Krishna - SEE, ur husband confronted that jerk (sorry if I offended!) instead of interrogating u BUT What do u think Krishna would do? I'm not 100% sure that he would follow ur husband's steps! Esp. with his mentality of 'hum tumre pati hai' and 'kono aur chakkar toh nahin' !!!
I'm more worried about HOW Krishna is gonna take the TRUTH, be it from Pratigya or Angad!!! Yeah! Lets hope there are no more misunderstandings between KriYa!!!😊
I completely agree with you pratigya has just started to consider Krishna as her husband and even if he did not kidnap her it would be difficult for any women to forget his behavior towards her after their marriage and suddenly become compassionate towards him. she has definitely softened towards him after finding the truth out, but it's difficult to expect a man which suspected you already of having an affair whether it be the handshake on their honeymoon or while she was eating with arushi on the street to take such a shock and believe he will support her. It's not hard to understand why she finds it hard to tell him the truth anyone would fear his reaction especially after knowing and seeing his anger repeatedly. I personally would prefer it if she told him the truth soon, so that misunderstandings can be avoided in the future. 😕

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