Gunjan's pain and loss

Guys right now Sajan are at the worst point in their lives…..it seems that Gunjan is blaming Samrat for her sister's death and does not want to forgive him and Samrat is doing the same thing, blaming himself for nupur's death and punishing himself for it…

A lot of people don't understand where Gunjan is coming from, because the truth is we have all put her on a pedestal, always expecting her to do the right thing…..but this time she is not acting like a perfect person, she is acting like a normal human being, a simple girl who adored her sister and gave her the same place in her heart as her mother…..such a big and abrupt loss is not very easy for anyone to handle, especially not for someone who has already lost one imp person in her life already, her mother…..so right or wrong she needs someone to blame to cope with this loss….and that person is Samrat....

We all know that it's not Samrat's fault and he is suffering just as much as her but even she knows that in her heart….but her grief is not letting her look past her anger….I mean its not like she is only punishing him, she is also punishing herself for punishing him….

Sorry about the long bhashan😆 but I am making this post because I want the CVs to know that even though everyone is more with Samrat on this issue and feel really sorry for him, does not mean we don't know or understand Gunjan's pain…. I don't want them to show any kind of triangle or quadrangle or whatever in this track thinking that we don't like Gunjan's character anymore…..

What we want is to see Samrat and Gunjan resolve this issue because a love like theirs is strong enough to get them past this pain and bring them together again….right guys?

awwwww gina 🤗...lovely post jaan..seriosly i am in love with ur posts gina...hugs to u for this.i so agree with each and every word u have said abt gunjan gina...i so so agree!!! its simply easy to sympathise with sam...the reason is that his pain has been left open in front of us like this...we see him ruining himself ruthlessly...trying to commit suicide...indulging himself in serious drinking...crying every moment for her...and its just so hard to see him like this...but it doesnt mean that if she doesnt show her pain she isnt in pain...rather she too is just as much hurt and depressed as samrat. it has been the worst for her...she not only did lost her sister...but every second thing that made her life worth it. i still remember what she said to sam when they were sitting under the moonlight...she says that "samrat i dont want much from life...i just want the happiness of my loved ones and ur love"...thats all gina...thats all what she needed to be happy...and destiny cudnt even give her that. u know gina as a person we need some very basic things to survive in a normal way...we may lose things like money,fame etc but till somethings are there with us we r ever strong mentally and emotionally to live a normal life.for gunjan these basic things were...her di and jiju's happy married life...her confidence on samrat...and her love for him...but that one incident changed everything....devasted her life forever!!! it hasnt been easy for her as well...coz just like sam cant live without her she too cant live without him...she was the one who said.."samrat tum baki sab nahin ...tum sab kuch ho"...just imagine how she must be living without the person whom she said mean everything to her????? whenever i just even wonder abt her pain no gina...my heart goes numb with pain....she has just gulped down all those tears...that entire pain of losing her life...losing her love..and losing all her hopes!!!

when that accident happened it was the most beautiful phase of her life...sam had proposed to her on his own will....that was one of her sole dream...which broke even before it cud take the shape of reality...how cud it have been easy for her?????
i really salute her for being so strong gina...it was only her who cud still channelize her pain towards a thing as gud as being a psychologist...where she helps ppl getting a new lease of life.
she is seriously a TRUE FIGHTER and i just wanna say to cvs that we love our gunjan like anything.for me she has been an enigma of goodness and purity...she is truely a huge INSPIRATION!!!

and finally gina...two lines i will say that describe gunjan's pain so deeply..these 2 lines r from the latest song madno of the movie lamhaa...

"haan tera saaya to main hoon
par sang tere na ruk sakoon"

thats her pain gina...she loves him..she cares for him...she cant see his pain..and rather she has always comforted him in the days of sunlight with her serene shadow...but still destiny has left her in such a condition that she CANT BE WITH HIM IN ANYWAY!!!

Gina good post.

Completely agree with u gina!! Thxx for making this post hun🤗
Gunjan is also in lott of pain ryt now.. its just that she's not showing it on her face!! Her heart is crying for samrat, she wants to be with him, but her mind is not supporting her.. Its really difficult for her.. even though by mistake, or not even mistake.. she lost her sis, whom she was used to consider as her mother.. just because of her love samrat!!
She has lost the 2 mosttt impt persons of her life!!
By giving samrat pain.. its not that she's happy.. obviously not.. she's hurting him, and even herself!! Mayank questioned gunjan ur eyes r swollen.. didn't u sleep..?? So obviously it was indicating that gunjan didn't sleep that night after meeting samrat and was crying!!
And its not necessary that she should always be perfect, as u said.. she is acting like a normal human being right now!!
By asking samrat not to call her chashmish, its not that she thinks he has lost the right to call her by that name.. she's just finding a way to run away from all this!!
I agree we all cant see sam in such condition.. but its not completely gunjan's fault also..!!
And i think soon she'll be back to her normal self..
And also cvs need to keep this in mind.. we dont want any third person to solve our sajan's prob.. till date all the issues they've solved together, by convos.. and this time also we want it to be like that.. and enough of triangles for sajan.. i'm fed up of it now.. 😡

awesome post,...
agree wit u totally..

When evever big problen issuew comes bet ween sajan Creatives uses Thrd character to solve their problem.Presence of sheena Samrat realised his love for Gunjan,because of Neil Samrat understood Imp of Gunjan &marriage,I think this trainglar track has sum purpose.If Sajan could have solve this problem ther own would have already solved it.But they could not.Because of Gunjan s anger &her stubbornness &samrat guilty ness.So Thats why they used another female character a&Triangularr love story. solve their Mu &Gunjan s confusion. May be ash make realise Gunjant that what she done to samrat these three years is not fare. he also suffred alot because of her rude behaviour.He also attemted to kill him self because of guailtyness.How she feels if he susceed in his attemts? think in my opinion this trianglar is most imp to sajan s love story in my opinioon especially for Gunjan.

gina!!🤗 awesome topic, agree with u!!
gunjan is NOT perfect, shes had her own share of mistakes...like this one!! nupurs death was not totally samrats fault....and he so doesn't deserve this kind of punishment....but hes not the only one suffering...gunjan is suffering too....and alot!! she doesn't want to face samrat...not because she thinks nupur died coz of him...but she wants to run away from facing the reality...but she needs to understand that one day...she will hav to move on....she will have to face all this....and that will be happen only when she'll will finally forgive samrat!! and for that....i think ash will play an important role...i don't mind, infact i kinda want a sam-ash relationship....of friendship...coz i feel she will be the reason gunjan will see sam in a different POV....understand his feelings...his loneliness!! i want sajan to solve their problems on their own...but sumhow i feel that won't happen...because gunjan is not ready to move on...to forgive samrat....samrat will be the only person who can make her move on...but he needs to get tougher for that...he can't be this weak....and that is sumthing i feel ash will help him with...help him get back his confidence!! i'm sure sajan will solve this difference between themselves even this time...but i also do feel that ash will help them too....not directly...but indirectly!! and as far as a sam-ash relationship beyond friendship is concerned....i'm sure that won't happen...coz sajan can never, ever love any1 else!!

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Originally posted by: -Drishti-

gina!!🤗 awesome topic, agree with u!!
gunjan is NOT perfect, shes had her own share of mistakes...like this one!! nupurs death was not totally samrats fault....and he so doesn't deserve this kind of punishment....but hes not the only one suffering...gunjan is suffering too....and alot!! she doesn't want to face samrat...not because she thinks nupur died coz of him...but she wants to run away from facing the reality...but she needs to understand that one day...she will hav to move on....she will have to face all this....and that will be happen only when she'll will finally forgive samrat!! and for that....i think ash will play an important role...i don't mind, infact i kinda want a sam-ash relationship....of friendship...coz i feel she will be the reason gunjan will see sam in a different POV....understand his feelings...his loneliness!! i want sajan to solve their problems on their own...but sumhow i feel that won't happen...because gunjan is not ready to move on...to forgive samrat....samrat will be the only person who can make her move on...but he needs to get tougher for that...he can't be this weak....and that is sumthing i feel ash will help him with...help him get back his confidence!! i'm sure sajan will solve this difference between themselves even this time...but i also do feel that ash will help them too....not directly...but indirectly!! and as far as a sam-ash relationship beyond friendship is concerned....i'm sure that won't happen...coz sajan can never, ever love any1 else!!

👏 great post.I totally agree with your pov.Yes Ash will imp role to unite sajan.

Gina, what a great post!
How can we forget Gunjan's pain and loss! She has tried to build herself strong but she is still soft and very emotional. I feel both Gunjan and Samrat are in the same boat, having lots of inner pain. Yes, creatives please do resolve and want to see Gunjan and Samrat together!

Originally posted by: princessyashika

awwwww gina 🤗...lovely post jaan..seriosly i am in love with ur posts gina...hugs to u for this.i so agree with each and every word u have said abt gunjan gina...i so so agree!!! its simply easy to sympathise with sam...the reason is that his pain has been left open in front of us like this...we see him ruining himself ruthlessly...trying to commit suicide...indulging himself in serious drinking...crying every moment for her...and its just so hard to see him like this...but it doesnt mean that if she doesnt show her pain she isnt in pain...rather she too is just as much hurt and depressed as samrat. it has been the worst for her...she not only did lost her sister...but every second thing that made her life worth it. i still remember what she said to sam when they were sitting under the moonlight...she says that "samrat i dont want much from life...i just want the happiness of my loved ones and ur love"...thats all gina...thats all what she needed to be happy...and destiny cudnt even give her that. u know gina as a person we need some very basic things to survive in a normal way...we may lose things like money,fame tes but till somethings are there with us we r ever strong mentally and emotionally.for gunjan these basic things were...her di and jiju's happy married life...her confidence on samrat...and her love for him...but that one incident changed everything....devasted her life forever!!! it hasnt been easy for us...coz just like sam cant live without her she too cant live without him...she was the one who said.."tum baki sab nahin samrat...tum sab kuch ho"...just imagine how she must be living without the person whom she said mean everything to her????? whenever i just even wonder abt her no gina...my heart goes numb with pain....she has just gulped down all those tears...that entire pain of losing her life...losing her love..and losing all her hopes!!!

when that accident happened it was the most beautiful phase of her life...sam had proposed to her on his own will....that was one of her sole dream...which broke even before it cud take the shape of reality...how cud it have been easy for her?????
i really salute her for being so strong gina...it was only her who cud still channelize her pain towards a thing as gud as being a psychologist...where she helps ppl getting a new lease of life.
she is seriously a TRUE FIGHTER and i just wanna say to cvs that we love our gunjan like anything.for me she has been an enigma of goodness and purity...she is truely a huge INSPIRATION!!!

and finally gina...two lines i will say that describe gunjan's pain so deeply..these 2 lines r from the latest song madno of the movie lamhaa...

"haan tera saaya to main hoon
par sang tere na ruk sakoon"

thats her pain gina...she loves him..she cares for him...she cant see his pain..and rather she has always comforted him in the days of sunlight with her serene shadow...but still destiny has left her in such a condition that she CANT BE WITH HIM IN ANYWAY!!!