Huzeifa's brilliant solution...not so brilliant.

Did anyone else instantly see the 'meeting' Huzeifa called together and hear warning bells go off? It was a set-up destined to doom.

First off, the people included...it is not as if Rishta.com has a board of directors which can vote on an issue, these were just employees who don't need to see or participate in executive decision making. And some of them like Aashish! Only 2 months old and they get to sit in and vote on such an important issue? They might as well have included Sally 😆 Pity she got left out when Vignesh got to come 😆 Now I love Vignesh, but even though he was the star-employee sometime back, I always considered him to be relatively down the ladder, so to see him there...once again, the people voting were in inadequate positions to do so. If they really needed a general opinion and wanted to include the employees in it, they could've held a hidden vote regarding a merger in the office and judged according to the results. The only two people who had a significant opinion to weigh in with were Ruchika and Huzeifa.

Of those two, Ruchika's vote toh I don't understand...she was shown as excited about the deal when she first found out of it and was always inquiring about what's happening, but today she refused it with no explanation. Huzeifa's vote changed last minute, just based on what he saw of Mr. Kohli and his disappointment because of it. One wonders where all the 'faida' in the deal that Huzeifa saw earlier went away to? At the very least, he should have told Rohan that he was changing his decision before calling the meeting, however bad an idea that was in itself.

Secondly, no matter the outcome, one of Rohan or Isha were going to be turned down in front of all the people in the meeting and their disagreement about it must surely be embarrassing to watch, even before the shouting match began. From the beginning, they should have solved this in private by talking out the pros and cons, rather than making such a display in front of the others. Huzeifa was right that Isha's attitude was terrible because she avoided every chance to talk about the deal within themselves, and so, it had to go to a meeting like that, which didn't end up too well.

Lesson of the story: Don't have important decision-making meetings with every aera-ghera 😛 Don't be an Isha about decisions in life :P Talk them out and be open, who knows you might get your way, but at least you won't embarrass or repel your friend/colleague/family member with stubborn opposition. Oh, and don't be like Rohan-Isha, going along with [Huzeifa's] ideas that aren't sensible to begin with 😆

yeah mujhe bhi nahin samaj aayi what ashish was doing in that meeting???

Originally posted by: make-believe

Of those two, Ruchika's vote toh I don't understand...she was shown as excited about the deal when she first found out of it and was always inquiring about what's happening, but today she refused it with no explanation. Huzeifa's vote changed last minute, just based on what he saw of Mr. Kohli and his disappointment because of it. One wonders where all the 'faida' in the deal that Huzeifa saw earlier went away to? At the very least, he should have told Rohan that he was changing his decision before calling the meeting, however bad an idea that was in itself.

Lesson of the story: Don't have important decision-making meetings with every aera-ghera 😛 Don't be an Isha about decisions in life :P Talk them out and be open, who knows you might get your way, but at least you won't embarrass or repel your friend/colleague/family member with stubborn opposition. Oh, and don't be like Rohan-Isha, going along with [Huzeifa's] ideas that aren't sensible to begin with 😆

@ red: Thank god! someone agrees with me. I really think it was not sensible of Huzeifa to change his mind just because of what he saw the previous night. He mixed Mr.Kholi's business life with his personal life. Yes, I agree Mr.Kholi was Huzeifa's role model and everything but I thought it was definitely a stupid thing on his part. He was the person that said it was a good thing for their 'business' and their company and all that, all of that vanished just because of one incident?

@purple:Isha is not an open-minded person at all.😆 She was so hell bent on not agreeing to the merging that she didn't even try to think about why Rohan wanted to make the deal, the least she could've done was listen to his side. Maybe he had a good enough reason to make the deal, she was being very judgmental about it..that's what I thought about her decision.😳

I think I'm the only one who thinks Huzeifa made the right decision. But I feel it's because he was disheartened to see that his idol was this type of guy. I'm guessing Mr.Kohli is a married man (he could be divorced or single), but just assuming he's married, I think Huzeifa think that "this man who goes around with women like this will be owning my matrimonial agency. I think not." So I think that's the reason why he changed his mine. Yes, I guess in a way it's not that professional because in the business world, I don't think people make decisions like this. But I think for the purpose of the show, they're just trying to show the type of person Huzeifa is. And you know Huzeifa isn't the "chichora" type. He's very serious about life so when he saw Kohli doing this kind of harkat--- uski nazar mein Kohli girr chuka tha.


But man, do I feel bad for Rohan. I almost started crying during the meeting scene. He was just so hurt and confused and I think the whole Isha-Aashish thing was really bothering him. But I really don't want him working with India Marriages. That would suck!
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U r very right..
firstly huzeifaz not-so-good idea was a complete disaster..
It made the heads/bosses of rishta make a fool out of themselves infront of all the faltoo n era ghera people in the office.. Huzeifa knew that Rohan n isha weren't gonna agree so he shouldn't have done such a meeting in the first place..


Even if he did the meeting.. Ok., then why did he change his decision at the last moment.. He was always so keen to accept the offer n Rohan was sure that he'd say a yes , but he didn't :( n so Rohanz anger was very much justified.. Atleast huzeifa should have told Rohan that he changed his decision.. Somehow Rohan felt left out:(

But seeing Rohan , I'd actually like to say that no matter if he isn't that much of a deep guy (according to isha), still he doesn't betray his friends., he could have accepted the separate offer from India marriages but he rejected it in the party., which shows that he never wanted to part ways with isha or rishta..
I'm sure he's just gonna look through the offer but he's not gonna deceive his friends like they did..:(

ps: about isha..I was very disappointed.. Rohan was majorly mad wen she asked him to apologize to ashish.. I mean.wth.. It was ashish who was poking his nose In between so he should have apologized to Rohan..

N great post., I thought the same about huzeifaz disaster idea :(

LOL I didn't see the warning bells go off then.....to me, the warning bells went off when the time came for Huzeifa to vote....till that point, even I, like Rohan was expecting him to say 'yes' to the deal...despite what he had seen of Mr. Kohli the night before. ....but the way Huzeifa paused before giving his decision....that's when I realized he would say 'no'.

Huzeifa came up with this 'solution' I think to make it easier for himself to seem 'one' with the decision of the majority....I don't think he or anyone else has bothered in the last few weeks to notice how much Rohan has been isolated them by them progressively.....this was the final straw for Rohan.

atleast huzeifa shud've told rohan tht he decided to go with a no before he made the meeting...poor rohan...he also only confirmed his yes when huzeifa persuaded him to...

btw loved ur lesson👏

@Zebi: I do see Isha's point of view in why she doesn't want to sell R.com too...however, things would've turned out so much more differently had she tried to reason out her feelings with Rohan rather than saying ignoring the discussion (: Aashish toh, freeloader he is 😆 Not doing anything significant in R.com and there to give his free ki advice.

@Nitya: I'm sure there are others who think similarly too 😛 I really loved the storyline of Huzeifa seeing the true face of his idol, btw. It was very realistic...so often, we like someone, but the more we found out about them, the more bodies seem to come out of the closet 😆 It was definitely a life lesson of sorts for him (: But for that arc to effect his decision on the IM deal was a stretch and went against smarts. Oh well, it ended up providing for great drama :P

@chanda_chamke: I agree that it went with Huzeifa's character to act like that if not professionally smart, so it can be justified...but what was definitely wrong was him not telling Rohan about it :( But Rohan working for India Marriages, I'm sure good things will come out of it. The others will realize his worth, and all will get a chance to reevaluate what they really want and what their goals are (:

@vini01: I don't think Rohan accepting India Marriages' offer would mean that he is deceiving his friends. Like Vini (Blueberry) said in another post, some of us were actually rooting for him to accept the offer because of how the events panned out...He's not leaving R.com because he's angry with these people...rather, I think he's giving India Marriages a chance because he's really wondering, maybe their goals and ambitions in life are different, maybe it's time for other things, other places. I'm sure all will realize differently though ;) Looking forward to next week!

@Vini: The meeting was indeed a totally senseless idea, but I guess the writers went with this to make that impact of public humiliation and betrayal for Rohan :P LOL @ Aashish giving his unneeded opinion 😆 It really was a back-handed statement, like "no offense intended but...(i'm just about to offend you)" types 😆 Baat bhi karli aur opinion bhi de diya, wah bhai 😆

@Anu: Ah if he did that, it's truly awful since he was the one building Rohan up so much. But I understand what you mean, this way he didn't even have to justify himself with everyone on the same side as him, and Rohan stormed out without waiting for him to explain. Huzeifa deserting him like that really was the pinnacle of what he experienced :(

@Aria: Lovely post! (: Definitely agree, while at the end Rohan related the case to himself, Isha to me it just seemed was sad about their efforts failing and angry at Rohan at the same time. You know what, while watching them stand there like that for a moment, the fact that they came out of their offices despite being angry at each other...it was like they were mourning the case they had worked together to help succeed and while Isha was still harbouring anger, he was in an altogether different place, contemplating whether this is it, it's time to move on. Rohan is a Master at realizing that the cases he deals with are a reflection of his own life and circumstance and poor Isha is no competition when it comes to that 😆 Truly, it is one of my favourite aspects about this show, big props to Rishab Seth. And Isha's oh-so-awaited realization, isn't long now :P

@sHoNaa: Oh yes! Thanks (: