Originally posted by: td_dhoom
every action has a reaction. -> Correct!!!he did'nt do that intentionally. -> True! He did that out of anger and insult BUT if slapping was the solution to relieve anger or humiliations - Pratigya should have, by now, slapped all the daylight out of Krishna!!!😆 BUT unfortunately, thats NOT the way - intentional or NOT!!!
i know he has over reacted but he was not pre-planned to slap her in front of everyone.Over-reacting is another speciality of Krishna and nothing new about it! Right! R u by ny chance, suggesting that Pratigya pre-planned the revealation of the truth??? COZ, that was NOT shown in the serial!!!her action forced him to do that. -> And guess WHO was the ONE to FORCE her into taking ny such ACTION??? Ans. Krishna! No Angad here to share his mistake!!!😆she got countless opportunities to tell the truth still she chooses that occasion that too in front of everyone. -> If I remember correctly, all the opportunities that she got were IN FRONT OF EVERY ONE!!! So basically, u would've said the same thing NO MATTER when she revealed the truth...😕 And she dint choose to reveal it at that occasion in particular, did she??? Even b4 she came down to the pooja, she let go of the way Krishna humiliated her the previous day and asked him to speak the truth BUT he refused to do so!!! AND lastly, WHY should Pratigya be the ONE to spill the truth WHEN Krishna was the one to lie about it??? WHY should Pratigya be the ONE to take the responsibility to clear up the mess created by Krishna's irresponsible and stupid and cowardly lie???there are few things that should be sorted out in close doors.everyone have thier own problems,struggles and challenges, and always will and the best way to resolve it to sit and talk and communicate. people are both weak and strong and i think everyone is beautiful in their own way,we just need to find it out. -> True and very well written!!! Unfortunately in the who-knows-wat century atm. of the Thakurs this does NOT apply and Krishna was the one to let the scene continue by refusing to speak the truth and as a result forcing Pratigya to reveal the reasons as to WHY she CAN NOT be pregnant! IF Krishna had accepted that he was the one to lie, the next scenarios WONT be necessary coz, from there on, it will be all on Krishna and surely he could lie his way out if he could lie about something as important as pregnancy!!! Too bad Krishna was busy being a coward in the name of being a mard!!!he always tried to communicate in a way that should have inspires her to stay open hearted instead of shutting down. -> Hmmm... Are u sure about his communication ways??? Coz, I really cant see HOW exactly does communicating via strangling, physically and verbally abusing, assaulting or forcing one to lie - could ever inspire nyone to even open up their hearts, let alone keep it open!!!😕 Infact, I think Pratigya was gracious and kind enough to have even tried to step forward and communicate with him, calmly and cooly, by saying that she will trust in his words and that he shouldnt talk to Amma in ways that might make Amma angry!!!
All his positive efforts often gone unnoticed and unappreciated... -> I agree that Krishna did put in a VERY FEW +ve efforts BUT B4 Pratigya could even take her time to appreciate NY of those, Krishna has ALMOST always done something super NEGATIVE TO her, which automatically cancelled his prev. very few positive efforts!!!.loving her madly,unconditionally and eternally,protecting his in-laws from angadwa's cruelty,standing for her against his own parents,she is always his high priority,giving her importance,taking care of her ect ect.. -> Even though I dont view Krishna's behavior as u do, BUT still, everything that u mentioned, ISNT it NATURAL for A LOVER to do all those things FOR THE PERSON HE CLAIMS TO LOVE??? Its not like Krishna is doing ny favor to her which she should return back, by trying to fall in love with him!!!😕i think her little care & love for him in his weakest moments which would have given him great strength and would have been a tremendous effort towards leading peaceful life together.Well, IF Krishna leaves her with so LIMITED choices with his MCP thoughts and HUGE male-ego, how is Pratigya supposed to start caring for the person she despises??? I think the way Krishna is right NOW, he doesnt deserve to be loved by ny girl and esp. Pratigya!!! She did care for him in his weakest moments, even though he did not appreciate ny of it and she started to care a little bit more by trusting in his words - now, if Krishna doesnt know how to appreciate ny such care, and returns the kindness with his forceful humiliations - How is Pratigya supposed to care about ny such person??? If Krishna truly loves Pratigya, he would care about her feelings instead of FORCING his way on her almost everytime!!! IF for the sake of peaceful life, Pratigya starts to care about Krishna - I think that would be compromise and NO LOVE!!! Since this is a serial and NOT REAL, I want Pratigya to fall in love with Krishna, someday, JUST the way Krishna fell for Pratigya - ie. WITHOUT ny FORCE or COMPROMISE and JUST LIKE THAT, ALL of a SUDDEN!!! AND that is NOT possible UNLESS Krishna changes his MCP thoughts and becomes someone who deserves to be loved by Pratigya!!!😊