I don't understand these people!!

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Posted: 15 years ago
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One thing I don't understand is why Kokila is forcing Gopi to be this "adarsh" bahu and wife, yet she is none of the above. I mean why doesn't she take her own advise. She treats her husband like "gali ka kuta" she treats her Getani like she is a Devrani. It is such a conflict of thinking and actions. How are you going to expect someone else to something and not do it yourself in your own life. Ahem is getting on my last nerves also. What right did he have to ruin Gopi's life??? He couldn't stand up to his mother then he should have excepted his destiny and excepted Gopi whole heartedly. This whole serial is wack. I don't understand Rashi either, she ruined another girls life and what might have been a good relationship, to build her own relationship and now that she has it, she treats him like a no body. Jigar is the only mature, respectful and smart individual in this clan. I mean Gopi is dumb to, I mean by can't she put the pieces together, Ahem is ignoring her, Kokila is being over the top rude and Rashi getting married. I mean she isn't educated but not dumb.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I have no idea, but i hope things start picking up soon.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I agree with u that just because gopi is uneducated doesnt mean she is dumb ... they need to show gopi as being a little more human and standing up for herself !!
And as for Kokila -- She bosses EVERYONE around at home and thts why she needed a bahu that she can boss around also ... Simple as that!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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she should have got a servent .. if she wanted to boss around soo much ..

i hope the show becomes good and Gopi is happy in the show

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Posted: 15 years ago
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even i didn't like the serial plot.all dumbos no brains.such things don't happen in real lives.i can't take 4 devils-kokila,rashi and her mom,kinjal.and why do they show such stupid things.did anyone notice kokila scolding gopi not to use chipkane vale bindi,she wants her to put sindhoor when kokila herself is wearing big designer bindi occupying all her forehead.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I totally agree...It's a MADHOUSE...I mean Aham I thought accepted the marriage and so was on a positive path but the guy has NO REACTIONS...he seriously needs to start acting soon.
Kokila just wants to boss around and prove to be the best at everything...she advises Gopi to keep her Aham happy because thats all that matters to her (Aham was Happy with Anita...but she didn't want Anita as a Bahu!!) so technically she is confused she just wants to be selfish and just be happy she does not care about Aham's Happniess. Although I like her yelling at Rashi (keeps her in check)
Rashi I thought really wanted to be with Jigar but she just wanted the money and the reputation she did not want to be a bahu...she is really making me mad these days with her attitude I thought she would start understanding Gopi's niceness since her mom wasn't around but she keeps getting worse than Kokila.
Jigar is the only one who has some sense, his mom, and Ba...those are the only normal people in the Modi House...the story better start getting intresting because it already feels like a drag.
--This is my opinion not meant to offend anyone specific..so don't start a arguement--
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Posted: 15 years ago
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totally agree with you ek_sweetladki.... really rashi is getting on my nerve. what type of attitude she is showing and why???. i think gopi will get everything in terms of money, repute, all the attitude of being bari bahu... but what she want was love.. and rishi who is after money will only get love ...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: ek_sweetladki

I totally agree...It's a MADHOUSE...I mean Aham I thought accepted the marriage and so was on a positive path but the guy has NO REACTIONS...he seriously needs to start acting soon.

Kokila just wants to boss around and prove to be the best at everything...she advises Gopi to keep her Aham happy because thats all that matters to her (Aham was Happy with Anita...but she didn't want Anita as a Bahu!!) so technically she is confused she just wants to be selfish and just be happy she does not care about Aham's Happniess. Although I like her yelling at Rashi (keeps her in check)
Rashi I thought really wanted to be with Jigar but she just wanted the money and the reputation she did not want to be a bahu...she is really making me mad these days with her attitude I thought she would start understanding Gopi's niceness since her mom wasn't around but she keeps getting worse than Kokila.
Jigar is the only one who has some sense, his mom, and Ba...those are the only normal people in the Modi House...the story better start getting intresting because it already feels like a drag.
--This is my opinion not meant to offend anyone specific..so don't start a arguement--

I totally agree with what you just said, every word. But what I disagree with is that Jigar, his mom and Ba are the only one with sense. Maybe Jigar and Ba for sure, but his mom........I love her but no. She ignores everything Kokila does, she just brushes it off saying that "she didn't mean it that way" or "she is good at heart"..........if she yelled at her the first time she ever made a mistake or raised her voice to other innocent people........Kokila wouldnt be what she is today. She acts like a devrani more then a getani. I mean come on your the oldest bahu of the Modi family, have some self-respect and put Kokila in her place. She lets goes of everything in the name of peace and harmony for the family. While that is great it also can hurt the family which is what is happening right now.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: taral83

I totally agree with what you just said, every word. But what I disagree with is that Jigar, his mom and Ba are the only one with sense. Maybe Jigar and Ba for sure, but his mom........I love her but no. She ignores everything Kokila does, she just brushes it off saying that "she didn't mean it that way" or "she is good at heart"..........if she yelled at her the first time she ever made a mistake or raised her voice to other innocent people........Kokila wouldnt be what she is today. She acts like a devrani more then a getani. I mean come on your the oldest bahu of the Modi family, have some self-respect and put Kokila in her place. She lets goes of everything in the name of peace and harmony for the family. While that is great it also can hurt the family which is what is happening right now.

I agree with you that Hetal does brush of everything Kokila does but that's just Hetal's nature (just like Jigar) they are both loving and caring and they just ignore Kokila's taunt and attitude because they wanther to her to be happy. Hetal does not care much as she is happy being herself and she understands everyone's attitude is different...I really like her character because she is so peaceful if there wasn't a family memeber in the family like that it would be hell. She believe if she compromises and if that makes Kokila happy than be it because she thinks of everyone else before her. She is just that nice and I love her for that....as per tolerating everything wrong Kokila does she needs to put Kokila in her place sometimes because Kokila is really annoying and Overdoes it...her, her son, her daughter, and stupid Rashi are getting on my nerves they are sooooooooooo boring and annoying!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: ek_sweetladki

I agree with you that Hetal does brush of everything Kokila does but that's just Hetal's nature (just like Jigar) they are both loving and caring and they just ignore Kokila's taunt and attitude because they wanther to her to be happy. Hetal does not care much as she is happy being herself and she understands everyone's attitude is different...I really like her character because she is so peaceful if there wasn't a family memeber in the family like that it would be hell. She believe if she compromises and if that makes Kokila happy than be it because she thinks of everyone else before her. She is just that nice and I love her for that....as per tolerating everything wrong Kokila does she needs to put Kokila in her place sometimes because Kokila is really annoying and Overdoes it...her, her son, her daughter, and stupid Rashi are getting on my nerves they are sooooooooooo boring and annoying!![/QUOTE]

DITTO!!! to the underlined statement! I love Hetal for all the the things you said above, I agree with you completely. But what I am saying is that because of the nature Kokila has the nerves to be what she is today and next up will be Rashi because of Jigar's nature. Though the qualities Hetal and Jigar carry are absolutely great, they can be harmful sometimes. Its like a parent never yelling at their child for mistakes, well if that happens they become very spoiled and brats. Thats what Kokila has become.

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