Suhana should be spoiled...

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Posted: 15 years ago
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If you guys remember that a few episodes ago when Rajni and Disha were saying that Suhana should be spoiled just because she is the youngest Bahu of the family. That was when they all were discussing about Badima's position in the family. Then how come now Rajni and Disha are creating such a big issue? At one point they say that she needs time to understand and adjust and in another they say why we all the time? I agree that it was Suhana's fault to some extent but now rather resolving the problem and making it worse will only create problems for all the family members. I was surprised that we didn't see Suhana at all in today's episode. Luckly Badima was shown talking to Radha Bhua.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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May be there previous statement was POLITICAL😉 koi baat nahi we sometimes say one thing and do just the opposite.
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^^^^ 🤣 could be possible that there is some politics going on in the house.. well atleast thats what Disha and Rajni feel now.. that Suhana is always favored and not them.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Yes dear, thats what I was wondering, where is Suhana. They are creating big issue out of nothing. They need to give her some time to adjusted in the family since she never had a complete family.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I feel Rajni & Disha are right. They did their bit in spoiling Suhana...in which other house (real or fictional) will the 2 jethanis spend the whole day cooking for their devrani's snobbish friends????

I agree that Suhana had no way of knoing these 2 are cooking for her friends. But at least when she came to know, she should have expressed regret & thanked both of them...acknowledgment for their efforts is all the expect. If Suhana had said I'm so sorry I didn't realise & its sad that so much of ur efforts have been wasted...then they wouldn't have minded Suli-Sudi not eating their food. But Suhana spoke as if the mistake was rajni-Disha's. Even Inder & Elesh didn't understand their wives' POV

I basically feel Badi Ma & Rano give too much of leeway to Suhana. I know she will require time to settle down..& everyone is ready to giver her that time...but she should try to be more sensitive to others' feelings. Badi Ma & Ranu will unnecessarily & unwittingly create a negative feeling for Suahana in rajni-Disha's minds if they go on being so openly partial.

Suhana HAS to realise...what she did in her maayka, cannot be done in her sasural. However nice the sasural is, there is always a difference & ur rights & duties as a daughter are very different from that of a daughter-in-law. The sooner Suhana realises this...the better!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Manasi_16

I feel Rajni & Disha are right. They did their bit in spoiling Suhana...in which other house (real or fictional) will the 2 jethanis spend the whole day cooking for their devrani's snobbish friends????

I agree that Suhana had no way of knoing these 2 are cooking for her friends. But at least when she came to know, she should have expressed regret & thanked both of them...acknowledgment for their efforts is all the expect. If Suhana had said I'm so sorry I didn't realise & its sad that so much of ur efforts have been wasted...then they wouldn't have minded Suli-Sudi not eating their food. But Suhana spoke as if the mistake was rajni-Disha's. Even Inder & Elesh didn't understand their wives' POV

I basically feel Badi Ma & Rano give too much of leeway to Suhana. I know she will require time to settle down..& everyone is ready to giver her that time...but she should try to be more sensitive to others' feelings. Badi Ma & Ranu will unnecessarily & unwittingly create a negative feeling for Suahana in rajni-Disha's minds if they go on being so openly partial.

Suhana HAS to realise...what she did in her maayka, cannot be done in her sasural. However nice the sasural is, there is always a difference & ur rights & duties as a daughter are very different from that of a daughter-in-law. The sooner Suhana realises this...the better!

Hey Manasi.. I totally agree with you as well. I am surprised that it willbe tom. that Suhana will realize that both Rajni and Disha are mad at her. Its not that hard to figure out by their behaviors. Moreover it was surprising to see how both Inder and Elesh didn't take their wives seriously.
I agree that Badima and Rano do give a leeway to Suhana.. But I know that Rajni too is from a rich background.. I was hoping to see of we could see more of her adjustment in the family. Maybe if Rajni tries to help Suhana with her transition then she might understand the difference between maayka and sasural... Like we know Suhana's mother passed away who would talk to her daughters to help them undestand what sasural really is. I think that Suhana see Badima as her mother and I am sure that Badima will make sure that she undertstands that difference. Hopfully it will be soon enough. 😆

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