disha and rajni too much...

they are blowing the dinner thing out of proportion....what insult etc...have they been tolerating....Are Suhaana has just come.....give her time.....uski dress pehen kar to bahut khush ho rahe the.....usne mithi ke liye bag laya tab suhaana achhi aur ek chote se dinner ki wajah se pure ghar walon ko pareshaan kar rahe hain...They both need some seekh from badi maa rather than Suhaana....

I agree..........they were reacting a bit tooo much

itna samjane pe to suhaana ki samajh me bhi baat aajati hai par yeh dono to bas baat se chipk kar hi bath gayi👎🏼

LOL why are they too much? Just because their efforts were completely washed away by Suhana's insensitivity? Had she at least acknowledged their efforts to impress/surprise her, Suhana would've been in a much better position. Rajni and Disha are human beings after all. And human being crave for appreciation in return for their hard work. What's wrong in that?

Originally posted by: LadyMcbeth

LOL why are they too much? Just because their efforts were completely washed away by Suhana's insensitivity? Had she at least acknowledged their efforts to impress/surprise her, Suhana would've been in a much better position. Rajni and Disha are human beings after all. And human being crave for appreciation in return for their hard work. What's wrong in that?

I completely agree with u... Suhana needs to understand what the family members are doing for her. why only Rajni and Disha sacrifice? Suhana also needs to compromise... if she doesn't know then someone needs to make her understand nicely... it needs to be balanced out equally from both side otherwise nobody will be happy

I do agree them feeling bad about this situation is quite human.... but to expect appreciation from Suhana when she did not bother to tell them anything to cook is also a fact as they know Suhana too well now.... in their words...." suhana is so insensitive... always lives in her own world.... she has to yet know what is a sasural.....so what if her upbringing was different.... why should we always compromise and she given partial preferences.."

The day in the show is not over yet. Give them the chance to sleep over the whole grudge, and next day everything will back to normal. 😊

Originally posted by: t-akhter

I completely agree with u... Suhana needs to understand what the family members are doing for her. why only Rajni and Disha sacrifice? Suhana also needs to compromise... if she doesn't know then someone needs to make her understand nicely... it needs to be balanced out equally from both side otherwise nobody will be happy

i agree.....since when is growing up in a rich and luxurious environment a license for insensitivity? and everyone keeps harping on how she grew up without all this so how should she know. ok fine, she has no idea when she is hurting someone, but that doesn't mean that others have to keep treating her like a kid with no brains and all hearts. a person in our society who only deals in heartfelt emotion and does not apply brains to any situation is usually considered retarded, may be a lovable retard but retard none the less. suhana is not that. she is a grown up girl, who is married and knows that this is not a hotel. and bhabhis are not her servant.

she can't help in the kitchens the bhabhis don't say anything, she needs to be served hand and foot, her first everyone else second, the bhabhis don't say a word, she gets preferential treatment from the elders of the house, the bhabhis don't say a word, she completely throws the household budget off balance the bhabhis don't say a word, but there is a limit. no one can tolerate insensitivity in the name of innocence for very long. suhana knows ishaan's and family's financial position, but she didn't even blink once about 3000 ruppees...radha bua was right, ishan will eventually have to beg borrow or steal if this continues........how can the bhabhis keep seeing all this immaturity and nonsense around them and still go 'aaawwwww sweet suhana , pyari suhana'...what nonsense is this...i know that if i was in rajni disha's position i would completely ignore suhana for the next while.....its not like they have gone and yelled at her, but they have full right to be mad and HURT............even badi ma admits that suhana is not going to give a damn when she finds out that she hurt the bhabhis...its ishaan who will suffer, just like we saw....ishaan was trying to explain to her how bhabhis felt, but did she bother to understand....noooo 'mai apne ghar mai aise hi karti hoon'....in her house its the servants doing the work, not bhabhis.......

Originally posted by: laxmi_s

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It has to be noticed that they r still carrying forward the AC matter and dragging it to every blunder she does....this is the human nature....so it looks like they r compromising in this matter till now.... Suhana never demanded an AC... why is she blamed for this by them???

Very rarely one tries to see a white paper which has a small black dot in it .... allmost all of us first talk about the black dot on a white paper...as it seems more obvious....similarly Rajni and Disha were on good terms with Suhana in sharing and trying out those dresses.... she had no probs in that.... when she spent heavily on dadaji's medical expenses... they did not raise a hue and cry that time..... when she bought a expensive school bag rajni never questioned her why such an expensive bag.... when good things were done... she was never praised.... when blunders r committed they point fingers... that is wrong.... they r settled in the kashyap parivaar... it should be their duty to bring in some sense into suhana as she is the new bahu of the household and teach her literally the ways of living in this parivaar instead of hurting themselves too expecting an apology or appreciation.....though me too will be glad if suhana would understand the situation and apologise but guess the CTs will not show it so soon as till now she does not even know what mess she is into...

So I understand it is very human about how they felt but they should also try to see beyond the blunders of Suhana the way badi maa is doing....

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I agree with you dear, they are over reacting.