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Posted: 15 years ago
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I think hes a total hypocrit wanting Mili to keep her rape attempt a secret from Vishal, yet he's so furious at Simi for keeping her bhalla secret thing.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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@navandruby - no ways. Abhi is never so. Plz for god sake dont say so. Abhi has insisted of simi saying every1 coz her 2 b husband, rb (that time) had tried to rape her. Simi was goin to be married to such a sick man like rb and hence abhi insisted simi to tell every1. Here the case is totally different. Here, milli is gonna marry a gud guy, vishal. So abhi thought that they shall discuss the matter on right time.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: navandruby

I think hes a total hypocrit wanting Mili to keep her rape attempt a secret from Vishal, yet he's so furious at Simi for keeping her bhalla secret thing.

Hi Navandruby first of let me say welcome to this forum.........Now for the real truth.
Abhi is in no way a Hypocrit............Yes he did ask Milli to hide the fact for the sake of the family not for any personal gain or satisfaction. What Simi did she did for her own ego that told her she is better to deal with that situation than anyone. Abhi had only one intention and that is to give Milli one day for her happiness and after the roka tell the family the whole truth. If he was a hypocrit than he would advise Milli never to speak of that situation again! But all Abhi's intention is for the izaat of the family to not suffer any more torture and taunts from anyone. For him the family has been thru enough....What Simi did was not anything to protect anyone but to show she is better than anyone and can handle any situation herself without anyones help...What Simi does not realise is that she is the only one who takes a situation and makes it worse with her own MAHANTA attitude. ABHI IS NOT A HYPOCRIT....HE IS THE ONLY ONE WHO IS THINKING OF THE WHOLE FAMILY IN GENERAL....AND SIMI IS THE ONLY ONE WHO IS THINKING OF HOW TO SOLVE ALL PROBLEMS BY HERSELF THINKING SHE KNOWS EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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No, he is not a hypocrite but I am sure that is what the writers will show. Abhi did the wrong thing to tell Mili to keep everything a secret. Secrets and Lies in a family do no good. The difference between what Simi and Abhi did lies in the fact that Simi kept a secret from Abhi that affected him and she planned to keep it a secret from everyone including him until she got caught. Abhi respected Simi by keeping her secret with him; he has never told anyone what happened even his own family.
Mili's rape is HER business and it is not Abhi who has the right to disclose it with anyone including Mili's sister, Simi. While he should encourage her to tell Simi and Vishal, his actions to tell her to hold off are not in the same line as Simi's plan to keep the secret about what happened between her and Abhi.
What Abhi is wrong in doing is not telling Simi he lost his job and why.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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No, simi's case was different & milis thing is different, he only wants to keep a secret till the roka gets over so that more problems donot crop out. Abhi has always been a saviour to the sethi family.
Edited by Shreyacool - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: SimBhi2

Hi Navandruby first of let me say welcome to this forum.........Now for the real truth.
Abhi is in no way a Hypocrit............Yes he did ask Milli to hide the fact for the sake of the family not for any personal gain or satisfaction. What Simi did she did for her own ego that told her she is better to deal with that situation than anyone. Abhi had only one intention and that is to give Milli one day for her happiness and after the roka tell the family the whole truth. If he was a hypocrit than he would advise Milli never to speak of that situation again! But all Abhi's intention is for the izaat of the family to not suffer any more torture and taunts from anyone. For him the family has been thru enough....What Simi did was not anything to protect anyone but to show she is better than anyone and can handle any situation herself without anyones help...What Simi does not realise is that she is the only one who takes a situation and makes it worse with her own MAHANTA attitude. ABHI IS NOT A HYPOCRIT....HE IS THE ONLY ONE WHO IS THINKING OF THE WHOLE FAMILY IN GENERAL....AND SIMI IS THE ONLY ONE WHO IS THINKING OF HOW TO SOLVE ALL PROBLEMS BY HERSELF THINKING SHE KNOWS EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

hi what ever u said i agree but saying that simi did this for her ego that's not true , she really cares for him and afraid of his anger too,but how can u forget bhalla's intensions .he will provoke abhi to do that and he has done that too .and what do u think if simi had told abhi before also .he would and he should react the same way,no husband can take this and no wife can see her husband behind bar. and the formost we r human so mistakes r natural ,so forget and forgive to make relationship work.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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s he is not so bcoz the situations r diffrerent .at that time simi has lied from her husband and especially when a person dare to call his wife for one night stand that too infront of husband ,no husband can take this . a husband has full rights to know what was going with his wife and if he is hiding things from simi i dont have any issues . let her reliaze how it hurts . s i do agree abhi is making the same mistake by telling milli to keep it as secret from vishal and he himself
not telling to manju .but still i could not understand y is he insisting to keep it secret for one day,as we know vishal is not bhalla so y should she keep it as secret from him, if a person can't understand her feeling before roka then how do u expect him to understand after roka ,and what if he comes to know after roka from some one else and starts acting same as abhi and what if he calls off his roka on this ground
.s now the score is (simi) 1 on (abhi) 3.
1.about his job
2.nakul tried to rape milli
3.nakul is trying to kill neetu and omi.

abhi accused simi of hiding things from him,his anger is also justified and s i also agree bcoz she did not say these things to abhi it has become advantage for bhalla,that is y he had came to barsaati that night and tried to touch her ,and now infront of her husband fying kites of her name and kissing it . and now went to his office and telling his boss about their past. no body can take this and many things about new abhi is also not good
1.insulting his wife infront of other relatives and blaming her parents
2.acussing simi for being called baccha at office (i think this is a fact that they have the age difference he has to face the society each every time he cant deny the fact )
and what does he means by saying has bhalla given u a love letter or phone call ?
this is a situation of harassment not a matter of illegal affair ,so does this says he doesn't trust her any more, i dont know ?

its almost a month seeing abhi and simi fighting, i think the tiff should be ended and back to normal and plz dont show us milli falling for abhi or abhi falling for------- ,
and plz dont show us that simi has doubtes about milli and abhi's relationship.
this would become wrost as we all know .all the villains want revenge from simi if she becomes alone then who will save her.?
1.bhalla's revenge for insulting and breaking the marriage
2.anitha's revenge for insulting,and taking powers of kb in her hand ,and for anuj not leaving his parents
3.nakul's revenge for insulting and breaking the marriage.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I never thought I would say this but Abhi is a hypocrite. Two wrongs don't make it right. He should not have told Mili to keep it a secret. First of all the authorities should have been called, a police report filed, and Nakul jailed on attempted rape chages. But no we get Abhi the hyprocrite. What happened to the level headed young man we know and love?!!?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: RoyalT

I never thought I would say this but Abhi is a hypocrite. Two wrongs don't make it right. He should not have told Mili to keep it a secret. First of all the authorities should have been called, a police report filed, and Nakul jailed on attempted rape chages. But no we get Abhi the hyprocrite. What happened to the level headed young man we know and love?!!?



I agree with you RoyalT an two wrongs don't make it right ..Abhi i just that an today blurred it out in the open anyway and for that whatever his intentions were he hi one truth from simi..and that is a fact...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: 1masoom



I agree with you RoyalT an two wrongs don't make it right ..Abhi i just that an today blurred it out in the open anyway and for that whatever his intentions were he hi one truth from simi..and that is a fact...

yup today abhi proved hypocrite in 2 counts hiding the fact from simi when simi and sethis has right to know and then asking mili not to tell any one and him blurting all out in front of society putting questions on mili;s character and ruining sethis reputation and mili;s prestige in front of her in laws. He also ruined his reputation in process as well.
He should have kept quiet and let mili handle the situation., He had no business talking about mili;s molestation in front of society when he himself wanted to hide it from vishal and sethis and stopped mili from doing so.
what simi did was wrong and was between husband and wife and hurt their relationship\
what abhi did hurt lot more ppl in process ruining life of 2 ppl first by advising wrongfully then blurting all out . He should have just stayed out comforting mili and let her handle the situation her way.
I hope abhi learns from his mistakes and learn to control his anger which has cost him his job and now mili;s reputation, wrong accusation and possible jail term instead of bhalla and nakul getting jail term.
Edited by ramas - 15 years ago

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