Dil ki pati / Kanooni pati

Dil ki patni,pati (Lover, Mistress)/ Kanooni patni,pati (husband)

It is not a question of moving on, if one has to move on give clean break to previous relationships, do not 2 time and be infidel.

What is this new nonsense about legal husband, dil ka husband... Yaar...husband to ek hi hota hai...yeh Dil aur Kanooni husband kya hai?
I am lost.. Does it mean that if your are married you are free to have affairs with anyone, jab jis pe dil aaye? Are we animals...Is this serial preaching a free society and open marriages? tell us clearly and we will be mentally prepared... Open marriages too are a norm..This seems to be another extreme of talibanisation of society.

With Kartik-Nandini relationship they did the same... It was Kartik who took the name of her during a dinner during the Karan episodes.. He used her whenever needed and discarded her whenever needed..And then made her evil to suit them for TRPs and create drama.

No meaning of marriage...Shaadi karo Nandini se..however bad/evil she was.. Why was the character of kartik made to marry Nandini knowing she was Evil.. and who made her evil? this relation was built with everyone's eyes open...And once she did...why did he continue his affair with Suman...Or Suman with him under the same roof...They could have been more stricter in their behaviours..Why was not Kartik-Nandini sent to marriage councellors to sort out their marital issues... Or treat Nandini with a Pshychiatrist, if she was getting negative thoughts...

With Karan-Suman they are doing the same..Legally Suman is married to Karan since he is back from the dead. Yet Suman is made to 2 time Karan and Kartik both.. She has to make clear that Karan is her husband until she divorces him..Dil ka pati kuch nahi hota... woh mistress kehlati hai....patni nahi...She is not even trying to forget Kartik her lover and try with Karan when she knows she is still married that is infidelity..If she cant and then she divorces Karan, she can go with her dil ki pati..That is how moving on in relationships should happen.

First they showed Widow torture, we are yet to see justice to that issue... The family has been let off to easily.... Then infidelity of Kartik...dil ki patni ke saath.. Now, lost husband comes from the dead..and then again 2 timing starts of Suman... Now with 2 brothers...

Such themes had been made in fictional storylines earlier, but with sensitivity... .Love childs, Mistress sagas, presumed dead husbands back...etc..If you take a bold theme, give it an adult treatment..

What does the Character Karan mean to the Creatives of this Show.
What does the Character Kartik mean to the Creatives of this Show.
What does the Character Suman mean to the Creatives of this Show.
What does the Character Nandini mean to the Creatives of this Show.
What morality are they showing in this Show?
Have these serial wallahs made a mockery of relationships living under the same roof...Sort this whole stuff..Rishton ka pench....
Does Fidelity have no meaning to the Serial Makers...Please give a deep thought to this issue...

Just to show Kartik-Suman love story.... do not send wrong messages..

PS:
I feel, TV channels should go for seasons and have clearcut stories, in each series of episodes each season..In this never-ending sagas, no one has control...and fatigue creeps in the viewers as well as makers..with too many twists and in those twists we get lost...and emotions are being played with,, These never-ending sagas started with the series years back like Buniyaad etc...but they too had good story lines.. there were short series also like Trishna etc adaptation from "Pride and prejudice", those were interesting stuff.

This crap of shaadi waadi with no message.. this trend started with Ekta Kapoor during the last decade.

But perhaps TV serial makers have to reinvent themselves now..

Else its torture to watch them these days...

😳 chillaxx guy... none of us takes these shows that seriously...

These are escapist fares which are meant to entertain everyone agrees.

Originally posted by: palkon

These are escapist fares which are meant to entertain everyone agrees.

But while entertaining as a work of fiction it should not lose its track. There are ugly realities out there, but that does not mean escapist fares loses its track..Storytelling can be in many forms. Complex themes are made...a Masoom is made on man-woman and child, and so does an Arth. The treatment has to be good..

For example: 3 Idiots is also a tale of morality and yet entertaining... The theme is an ugly reality out there too, but the treatment made sense had logic in it, though escapist and had loopholes..The key issue was dealt with..

Writers have to spend more time in character development and scenes...and the purpose of the serial...

This is the first hindi serial i am watching after many many years, and it mighty dissapoints...There is no change in techniques in the past 10 years...

As an audience since I am giving 30 minutes of my time and in my view, I expect some quality.

If we audiences dont demand good storyline and ignore them in the name of fiction....it will be another decade before we get meaningful entertainment...

Indian films are evolving pretty well, but TV soap operas/novellas are yet to..going by the example of this serial.

I agree with the 'new morality', lack of time to essay characters and a tendency to please the aam janata through TRPs. Palkon is spot on in these areas.

But I am certainly happy for such forums which create debate, retrospection and understanding the youth of today. Perhaps the TV directors are no different, and are a tad clueless as to how to balance tradition and the new norms that the youth is boldly setting. It's hard, look at it from their point of view.

I appreciate that this serial has shown many traditional rituals and yes, all these rasams do make life worth living,. But along with these rasams, the underbelly of widow treatment and legal/social/emotional marriages is also being portrayed. Not very sensitively portrayed though- and certainly no follow-through.

I would like to mention one thing, here: for a guy for whom a mere photo of his wife in widow's clothing tortured Karan, he seems to have dropped the topic quite conveniently, never questioning his mother, dadaji and the rest. Now that's INCONSISTENCY of the story line, wouldn't you think?

Maang mein sindoor has no meaning or very little meaning in this serial- especially when the paper work does not follow suit. They dont seem to tackle problems on a priority basis or drop problems rather conveniently to keep the TRP balance.

Inconsistency, wouldnt u think?

But love plays on people's emotions very strongly which is why this story line is being accepted by most.

Perhaps the Indian psyche is undergoing a metamorphosis of sorts- with some remorse, some glee, some rebellion.

But yes, there have been far too many marriages in this serial and being a TV serial and not a movie does not justify this at all. Guys, either be bold in treating the theme or stick to tradition- or get the right balance! ( Maybe scriptwriters will improve with time.)

After all, can a love story not grow without a marriage break every now and then?😳

This show is such a crap they r misguiding people who watch this show. Suman ko Dil ki Pati aur kanooni pati pehle karan thi par ab kanoon ki pati karan aur dil ki pati karthik ye kya bakwaas hai.This show is said to be about customs,relationships and culture and this is what the culture in the serial. They show is about breaking relationships.they only bought back karan only becaz they wanted the TRP which neither karthik or suman cannot do y they r making hi a joker in the show. This show is worst than ekta show. No wife will leave her 1st husban and go to 2d husband and say that now this is my husband. ye loko shaadi ek mazzak maanthi hai. Like a kids game. Becaz of karthik nandu became negative he made her like that.

Originally posted by: palkon

@yllscin Understood..seems like a complex model of working.....and chaos all around....and it shows.. quite a stressful job for the Cvs to churn out stories on a daily basis. I have full sympathy for them..

However, i think they can try to experiment with the seasons concept in a small way to see how it works...Foriegn serials work pretty well..

Moral of the story, if this is not the place one should be in..one better quit...and move on to other stuff 😊