i can't justify today's abhi

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Posted: 15 years ago
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sorry guys but today i could not justify abhi's behaviour bcoz argument ,fight b/w husband and wife ,what ever it is should be in their privacy,showing every body about their differences doesnt sounds good,that too close relatives ,i strongly felt abhi should'nt behave like this before every body,is he saying that he does not trust her anymore.s she had made a mistake but this doesnt mean that she is not loyal to him,does this mean that he dont love her anymore,s i do agree he is hurt but today he behaved like a really rude husband.i felt very sorry for simi today.plz cv dont destroy abhi's character.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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i think wht abhi is feeling is jelousy, frustation and being cheated kept out in dark.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Yes he should take his frustrations out privately not publicly...just the other day I was complimenting him for not creating a tamasha at the Chowki but he has created a tamasha elsewhere...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: ramas

i think wht abhi is feeling is jelousy, frustation and being cheated kept out in dark.



I agree with this statement but how is this time keeping him in the dark different than when HIGHNESS accepted the roka from NAKUL and he had to hear it from the door's distance.
How is it different from.... he had to hear Neetu's pregnancy after she ran away.!!
Oh yes they weren't married then.
I fully agree with his frustrations and being kept in the dark it is not his sign language that bothers me but the tone he is using conversing with Simi is wrong. Isn't he doing the same thing now to his beloved wife by not even telling her what kind of job he has. In all fairness he is very right about not taking the leave of absence from his second day at work. Why did he change his mind??


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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: SaNiCo



I agree with this statement but how is this time keeping him in the dark different than when HIGHNESS accepted the roka from NAKUL and he had to hear it from the door's distance.
How is it different from.... he had to hear Neetu's pregnancy after she ran away.!!
Oh yes they weren't married then.
I fully agree with his frustrations and being kept in the dark it is not his sign language that bothers me but the tone he is using conversing with Simi is wrong. Isn't he doing the same thing now to his beloved wife by not even telling her what kind of job he has. In all fairness he is very right about not taking the leave of absence from his second day at work. Why did he change his mind??


I think that Abhi was right upto a certain point.....Simi needs to work at manaavig her husband! But at the same time Abhi needs to let go and give her some room....Constantly bombarding her with anger is not the way to resolve an issue...Give her a chance to apologise and if it does not happen than I am 101% behind his attitude........Simi is the bigger one at fault but Abhi is not without fauld either😕........Sorry that is just my opinion😕
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I think CVs wants to show that he is still a young immature person and is unlike Simi and this is what happens when a mature lady marries a young chubby bubbly person..
Who gets hurt once considers it for ever
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: SimBhi2



But Simbhi the situation won't escalat any further if HER HIGHNESS would just confess the words may be he wants to hear to cool him down. She is bringing water for him.

After he came on bail at the jagraata Simi apologized to NAKUL BUT NOT TO ABHI
WHEN THEY were alone in the bedroom she still could not say sorry to him
In the morning they are alone she talks about the damn luncheon and the whole etiquette but no sorry!!
He comes home and here we go again with the lecture about everything but the word sorry.
Abhi is furious and is on the look out to snap it at her .Right or wrong people handle anger differently and Abhi I think wants to handle it by being silent till she apologize and he should be given this space. And SIMI just has to learn this the hard way.

I think that Abhi was right up to a certain point.....Simi needs to work at manaavig her husband! But at the same time Abhi needs to let go and give her some room....Constantly bombarding her with anger is not the way to resolve an issue...Give her a chance to apologise and if it does not happen than I am 101% behind his attitude........Simi is the bigger one at fault but Abhi is not without fauld either😕........Sorry that is just my opinion😕




But Simbhi the situation won't reach at its peak ... any further if HER HIGHNESS would just confess the words may be he wants to hear to cool him down. She is bringing water for him!!!.

After he came on bail at the jagraata Simi apologized to NAKUL BUT NOT TO ABHI
WHEN THEY were alone in the bedroom she still could not say sorry to him
In the morning they are alone she talks about the damn luncheon and the lecture on etiquette but no sorry!!
He comes home and here we go again with the lecture about everything but the word sorry??.
Abhi is furious and is on the look out to snap it at her .Right or wrong people handle anger differently and Abhi I think wants to handle it by being silent till she apologize and he should be given this space. And SIMI just has to learn this the hard way.



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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: KBfanNo1

I think CVs wants to show that he is still a young immature person and is unlike Simi and this is what happens when a mature lady marries a young chubby bubbly person..

Who gets hurt once considers it for ever

oh god that will be too sad. I hope abhi comes out of this considering this is a life. It is always oneor other makes mistake and it is time to let go and let simi aplogize once more. She even said ory first time when he found out. adn he stopped her from talking. saying don; try to justify you did what you wanted now let me do waht I want.
I wish abhi had just pinished her by not talking and no landed in jail
I hope they show him more mature the ways they shpwed him bringing stay order.
I don;t like this immature behavior and embarrasing every one at Mathur house.
You don't need to show your firty laudry to whole world.
Abhi needs to smile and pretend for mili's sake. I think he prpbably embarassed vishal to who extended his hand in freindship.
Vishal must have felt why did I praise Simi.
Let us hope we have our mature sweet sensitive Abhi back surprising every one.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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abhi has right to be mad at her but smewhere i think he shouldnt have made it public, agar woh KB mein aisae behave kartha tho its justified but over lunch at others place is not wrong .............
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Abhi's anger is 1000% valid.But why he express it in front of others.Simi did a lots of faults and she should get punishment.But this is not the right way to give punishment.

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